Yah ngaze ngezwa ubuhlungu ma ngibala imicabango kadade uNoe. Ngamafitshane dade uthi asikhohlwe imbali littered with decades of persecution, a systematic, evil and well orchestrated regime of marginalisation of a people for no other reason than the language and culture that defines them? One moment they despise you for being who you are and the next moment they treat you like a lady? Perfect gentlemen indeed! Wish u ol the luck with a change of your misplaced thoughts. A sugar-coated pill is still bitter inside!!

Pardon me if I'm alone in this but I'm yet 2 meet ixhegu lesitshoneni lesalukazi wesintwini. U c dade, balisondeza eduze 4 their own selfish pleasures and 2 make their hobby easy they use ol the stupid traps that only a few women can resist; kind words, material treats n whatever it takes- zithiywa ngezikudlayo dade. Thina we have bn brought up under a stable culture, I kno this has contributed 2 our peril but still slobuntu yikho nje singabhuzi indawana yonke nje. So lina ngokuthanda ubucwazicwazi lifuna lawo maCs they flash b4 u. Lami nje mangithanda ngingadlala ngokungosisi kwabo n say ol the nice thingz mina ngizazi lyk I do ukuthi I wish them n their ilk ol the evil under the sun. Zigqajeni mani bodade!

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by Magcwalibhavu:
<strong> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> Ekuhle masGezi,

Kuyamangalisa ukuthi ekhaya sikhule sitshaywa singakhomba i-shona..kodwa khathesi isimanga yikuthi lalapha-eMelika abantwana bakithi esendebeleni bazaliswe-ngamashona ngendaba-ye-desparation. Kanti lingaphi ma-jida esindebeleni! Phumani silibone....lichatshe ngaphi? </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">

Hawu Sis Noe ma u thi women need to ukuphathwa kahle ushoni? I mean phela abobaba be sindebeleni maybe abana mali i wouldn't kno coz maybe usho from experience but i can bet u my last penny isphatho asi na anythin to do with how deep yr pocket is! I mean in this day and age kulihlazo to hear a woman say i im in the relationship coz i need security, be it financial or whatever bcoz hell girlfriend i dont need no money from anyone coz i go out and make my own dollar!My fiancee is not shona and he is luvin, kind and treats me with the outmost respect.So whatever yr reason for datin shonas i beg of u dont diss OBOBHUDI!!!!HAYI BO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yah that is a very refreshing call, ukuzwa icele labodade linqunula umqondo obanzi lokhaliphe kangaka. Irespect liyazipha lina bodade by being independent, financial and upstairs ikakhulu. Sesadlula esabokhokho where idivision of labour put u in a dependancy role, a lot has changed since. There is certainly no xcuse 4 ol the ladies lapha emazweni, ishift iz ur ladder to get the respect eliyidingayo. Use it n not iflesh flashing! Mina ngihlezi lentombi yesintwini n she takes care of me when I don xpect it akalindeli mina lwaz, howz dat Noe? Guquka n c the light!

Out of all Shona /Ndebele marriages I am yet to see one which has lasted forever unless you mean
those before the grand plan.

Litshaye khona mazinyane esilo.

Untombazane Lo othi obhudi besindebeleni kabakwazi ukuthanda utsho ngoba eke wathandana lobhudi wesindebeleniyini?

Phela abantu bayathanda ukukhuluma ngezinto abangazaziyo.

Noe
khule khandadadewethu, ungani angikutholikahle
hamba uyezilwaneni zakho ,uvele wena ulitshona umthetho wakho, uliswina
ungakhuluma kanjalo njani
ungathanda I mali yokutshotshwa thina obaba abasomasela ngakho imali siyakwazi ukuyisebenzela lokuyisebenzisa
ngakho ungaze wadukisa odadewethu abancinyane abasakhulayo
hamba emaswineni akhoswinalothuvi elikhotha amaNdebele
ungaze wasithuka kanje man
LINA BONDLELA ZIMHLOPHE NGITHI PHAMBILI NGOBUHLE
LIVELE LINGAKHANGELI AMATSHONA NGOBA BEVELE BEFUZE UCHIKORE
EMTHWAKAZI

Noe
Mntanasekhaya we feel pity for you that at this day and age (the digital age) you still believe in the dependency syndrome. You seem to worship people who use stolen money to hoodwink you into submission through crook or hook. Get the hell out of Harare and see how well the Ndebele guys are doing out there. For your own information, media business in Zm is tightly in Ndebele hands(The Zim Independent, Standard ,Daily News etc), banks are in Ndebele hands , think of Dr Mthuli Ncube and banking. The biggest newspaper in Africa is owned by a Ndebele (Mail and Guardian)Mr Trevor Ncube. Hewas recently elected the chairman of the media owners of South Africa. Mthandazo Moyo is the deputy Chief Executive Officer of Old Mutual South Africa. I head the Financial Markets unit of a major bank. Open your eyes there is a lot of good things we as Ndebeles are busy doing. Recently Nkosana Moyo resigned his post in the ministry of finance because he could not counternance the horror of these people whom you blindly endorse. Noe for your information ,thina amanyala asiwathandi.Njalo izinto ze showmanship yabeTshabi asizingeni. To be honest with you Ndebeles are very proud people and they won't let their dignity down the drain by going for a braai at Windermere or koMthwakazi with a neighbour's school going daughter. This has obviously become synonymous with abo Sekuru bakho khonangapho eHalale. Thina sidla imali yethu ngenhlonipho ngoba siyisebenzela nzima, asiyintshontshi, sifunda kanzima through varsities sizibhadalela while abeTshabi labo obancomayo babhadalelwa nguhulumende wabo. If the shona guys are as "gently and soft" as you seem to think they are kindly show us any single Ndebele woman who has been successifully married by a shona. All we see is kids, kids , kids and more kids which we are forced to support because these monsters desert you once you fall pregnant. As a parting short , one of the objectives of the Grand Plan reads: "It is the duty of every Shona guy to impregnant Ndebele girls so as to render them useless (no more shooling) and they will be left with no option but to turn to prostitution thereby getting AIDS and spreading it to Ndebele man" . The end result is that we will then die of AIDS and they say this is part and parcel of a "legitimate struggle". Those of you who want to read the full document can be told where to find it.