Sengibone ama-couples amanengi ephitsheka ngokuya kuma-marriage councellings in an effort to save and improve their relationships. Kambe asikuzilulaza yini ukuthatha owangakwakho liye chaya ezemasekweni angakwenu ku third person and thereafter continue as husband and wife? Kuyanceda yini okuzinhlanganiso lokhu?
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Uyabe wonile sibili. Imvama inqondo ezinjalo zisungulwa yikuthi abanye obhudi ngama khonistar(o-conman). They become artificial ukuze bakhonjwe and remain like that baze bathathe. Nxa usudiniwe yikuba artificial you then become the real 'person' that you are. Nxa udade wenkosi engasazwisisi the change you then resort to violence. Shuwa nxa waqomisa intombi ngoqotho and you convinced her ukuthi you are the best being she can tie the marriage note with osekubanga ukuthi wehluleke ukuxoxisana laye ngamaphutha akhe umkhonvinse njalo, kuyini ngaphandle kokudinwa yikuphila i-artificial life?
On the other hand nxa kuyikuthi you are genuine but uhlangane lezanka likamama akudingeki ukuthi umtshaye ukuze alahle ubulema bakhe. I'm sure every human being needs freedom to be what they want to be and non should be a slave to what the other person wants. Nxa engazwisisi izikhalazo zakho, give her i-freedom yokwenza ubulema bakhe and safe guard yourself from being a victim yamachoices akhe. This you do by simple getting rid of her from yo life kungela kutshayana lokulimazana.