Gawula ubheka ndoda, bengithi ngiyishaya indiva lendaba yakho yokusibiza abantu bakaMgodoyi kodwa sengathi uyaqhubeka ngayo. Yikho ngiyacela ukuthi uyiyeke, sikhulumisane ngokuhloniphana.
Sekuya caca ukuthi noke nihlangene ngami la. Nihlanganyele ngegama lami. Sengaphenduka udikwayo wenu. Uhlanjalazwayo. Ugxekwayo. Wonke ulopholo blames me laph' esigungwini.
Hhawu ndoda okunye obokhuluma ubuye uziphendule, kungenzeka kanjani ukuthi abantu bonke abalapha esigungwini bakuhlanganyele, bengakwazi njalo nabo bengazani? Eqinisweni yikuthi ukwesaba kwengqondo kusuke kwezne umuntu abone izitha ezimlalele unyendle njalo zihlanganisa amatulo okumenzakalisa. Kuhle ukubuyekeza nsizwa yakithi, ubhale ungakhohlwa ukubuya ubhekisise isimo, njalo ungakhohlwa ukuzititinya ukuze ubenesiqiniseko sokuthi usesendleleni eqondile, kolukhu angichazi ukuthi ayiqondile eyakho, kodwa kungani usuchabanga ukuthi wena usungudikwayo lapha ekhaya. Abantu bakugxeka ngokwakha (constructive criticism) mnumzane, kodwa ubukeka sengathi uwugwadule olungamili tshani.
There was a time when I took a long break (from May 2005 to May 2007). I was silent, nginga hlangene nezinto zezwe lenu leNja. Kepha, the likes of Zwangendaba were writing me private messages, asking me to come back. Nami ngathinteka enhliziyweni, ngithi cha abafowethu bayangi dinga esigungwini. My foot - bengidinga to insult me & call me names!! What's this Nzarayapenga claptrap? Bengi dinga to seek to control my thinking & dictate to me how I must write!
Benza into enhle kakhulu ukuthi bakubhalele ngasese bekucela ukuthi uze njalo lapha esigungwini, nami lona luqobo lwami ukube ngalithola ithuba bengizokubhalela ngikuncenge ukuthi uphenduke. Angazi ke ukuthi bona ezabo izizathu beziyiziphi kodwa ezami zincike endleleni obhala ngayo ulimi (your eloquence) minus amagama athize anganambitheki emibhalweni yakho. I have met people and debated with many in different foras but you are one of the best when it comes to writting eloquent articles. Whether you decide to eventually go, you must no that that is your character trait or capability that i will always miss.
Noone is gagging you, i believe that many people here do restrain themselves when reading your contributions, if they had to retaliate and use your language against you i believe that this forum would turn into a bhawa.
Muntu ungumfowethu noma uyafuna noma awufuni, kuyohlala kunjalo, uyabona uma uthi wathinteka enhliziyweni lapho abafowethu bekuthinta ngasese bekucela ukuthi uze njalo, lokho uthi kwabonisa ukuthi siyakudinga, kuliqiniso lelo mfowethu siyakudinga, noma nje kwesinye isikhathi usuke usithethise njalo usibukele phansi sengathi asisibona bantu. Angijabuli ngensizwa eyenyeza ezinye izinsizwa.
I strongly disagree. Malivezwe iqiniso. If ninga ngifuni bantu beNja, tell me. I'll quit for ever. Never to come back. I'm a proud man. Ubaba waze wakhothama engazange abe yisi nqibi. Ngifung' amaNkwali.
I gain nothing by writing in this site. Absolutely zilch.
Shamase Nkwali yenkosi
On the contrary, we gain a lot by your presence here. We have no right to tell you to leave or to stay, it is your right to make that decision. If you feel that it is too hot here and you decide to go we will not stand on your way, but if you think it is too hot but worth fighting for your space we will also not chase you away, but you must brace yourself, because people will not let you shhit on their heads nilly willy like that.