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#40325 - 09/26/08 12:46 PM Oral sex
Pinky07 Offline
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Registered: 09/28/07
Posts: 1
Loc: Scotland
Heloo people of umtwakazi mina bengibuza since anal sex is out of the agenda completely wat about iOral sex because its sumthing you both do to each other pleaser each other however its thru umlomo n perhaps izanhla...experts say its gud ngoba u get to explore you wife's body n bring her to another level and you explore your husband too.
Manje ngicela ukubuza nithini ngayo lendaba?
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#40326 - 09/26/08 01:03 PM Re: Oral sex [Re: Pinky07]
Mbezothuli Offline
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Registered: 06/12/08
Posts: 40
Loc: Esantini
Eeeh, thina njengoMthwakazi ngomdabuko wethu asikhului ngezocansi enkundleni. Ukwenziwa ngabantu ababili abavuyelweyo (ngomtshado) ekamelweni labo asikuchayi ebandla. Nxa sekufanele asicubunguli abakwenzayo siphonguthi bembatha bonke sibe sesiqedile. Okunengi kuphakathi kwababili.

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#40328 - 09/26/08 01:59 PM Re: Oral sex [Re: Pinky07]
mpumelelo101 Offline
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Registered: 06/14/08
Posts: 170
Loc: durban, south africa.
initially sex was for procreation but as a consequence of mordernisation, it has evolved beyond thinkable propotions.now there is anal sex,oral sex, masturbation, vaginal sex, "protected" sex, premarital sex etc nothing is out of the question, it dependes on who you are!!they all serve the same purpose, relieving sexual pressure through pleasure.
your experts are still stuck in the dark ages!! they think sex is exclusive to heterosexual couples! gays can also have oral sex just like "straight" people can have anal sex!
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#40329 - 09/26/08 02:42 PM Re: Oral sex [Re: mpumelelo101]
bongani Offline
Sikhulu

Registered: 10/10/03
Posts: 200
Loc: Afrika
izitabane yizinja zabantu kufana labetshabe , yidoti konke

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#40330 - 09/26/08 02:53 PM Re: Oral sex [Re: mpumelelo101]
ntombankala Offline
Sikhulu

Registered: 11/06/02
Posts: 205
Loc: Zimbabwe
Mpume...I do not think that this forum is the rightful place to discuss sexual activities you put across. There is a possibility that you could be "creative in bed" or want to be creative....but hey...grow up, keep that to yourself. There are values of UBUNTU that we have to maintain to protect our integrity and Im sure that you and your partner are free to do any sexual activity that provides both of you maximum satisfaction without our knowledge. We have important issues to solve and this site does not want to resemble any pornographic sites on the Net. We have to constantly remind ourselves of a need to RESPECT each other. Its always starts by SELF RESPECT.

Personally, I have never had a friend male or female, white or black who has discussed or told me of his / her favourite sexual position with his / her partner. Normal people dont discuss such things. No normal guy or girl will discuss details of their sexual encounters with whoever. Its taboo. Lokhu okubeke lapha yihlazo mfowethu...kwesule. Ayikho nje nhloboni inhlonipho kulesi sihloko. Sesiyizinja yini zona eziphinganayo? Sex is good but not hear. Eyoncansi cha....ngeke siyixoxe nomuntu wonke wonke.

I take a swipe at the moderators of this site for sleeping at the wheel like the USA's Central Bank Chiefs. The moderators were very active and sensitive to issues raised in this site in the past hence the quality of debate and topics was brilliant. Please moderators, guide this site or else you have egg on your faces when people post just anything that is socially unacceptable. The idea of this site was a brilliant one and its core values must be protected. Let us not hide behind excuses of "freedom of speech" that we know does not exist.

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#40332 - 09/26/08 03:11 PM Re: Oral sex [Re: ntombankala]
bongani Offline
Sikhulu

Registered: 10/10/03
Posts: 200
Loc: Afrika
ngiyabonga ... ngiyabona ukuthi akusimi ngedwa intandane yeqiniso. ama moderators lawa agijimela ama soft targets afana lami ngoba mina ngithethisa abetshabe labathengisi oMuntongelakudla labo Jazi kodwa abantu abalenhlamba abakhuluma amanyala njengoMpumelelo bayabayekela manje yinto enjani leyo....

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#40334 - 09/26/08 04:56 PM Re: Oral sex [Re: bongani]
uzphoso Offline
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Registered: 02/14/08
Posts: 42
Loc: emazweni njengabanye
Originally Posted By: bongani
izitabane yizinja zabantu kufana labetshabe , yidoti konke


Hk hk hk hk yeyi!Kanti vele ukwenyanya eminye imhlobo yabantu lanxa izizatho zangakhona zingagoqeli bonke kwenzelwani?Bakithi...asihlonipheni abanye ukuze lathi sibe ngabantu abahloniphekayo.

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#40336 - 09/26/08 05:49 PM Re: Oral sex [Re: bongani]
Sgero Offline
Ndunankulu

Registered: 05/31/04
Posts: 643
Loc: United Kingdom
Bongani

hk hk hk hk hk ngiyavula uyavala, yint' enjani leyo?

Baka Mthwakazi, ngiyalizwa, kodwa ngiletha umqondo owehlukene kancane. Kanti yindaba sifihla amakhanda etshebetshebeni njenge ntshe? Mina ngikholelwa ekutheni asixoxeni ngezinto that are within the societies esesikuzo. We cannot escape them sithi thina singathula, they will pass by phezu kwamakhanda ethu kusitshiye ngaphandle. Never, sesiphakathi kwakho, let's talk about it. Doing it is then left to abantu nxa sebezivalele ezindlini zabo
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#40337 - 09/26/08 07:37 PM Re: Oral sex [Re: Sgero]
Jah Dingani Offline
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Registered: 04/24/03
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Loc: Zimbabwe
Kanti ukuganga ngokwani? Uthi ligange alizazi yini. Lingafuni ukungcolisa ingqondo zethu thina abamsulwa. Selibamba omama ngemilomo?
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#40339 - 09/27/08 08:22 AM Re: Oral sex [Re: ntombankala]
mpumelelo101 Offline
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Registered: 06/14/08
Posts: 170
Loc: durban, south africa.
with all due respect i don't think we will advance into the 21st century if people like you continue to pull us into the dark ages> what i merely stated were facts/reality. i have no apology for that. thankfully the moderator thought likewise. we have to discuss these issues becoz they are happening right in front of our noses.
personally, i hate hypocrites, people who claim ubutabane is "evil"/ "tshabian" whilst they are muted on fornication/incest/masturbation/ etc. these evil deeds belong to the same basket! they are unnatural.the same also does for "protected" sex! how came someone have "protected" sex with his/her spouse?isn't that accepting/rubberstamping infidelity/sexual immorality which results in GOD punishing the whole society as HE is a mass punisher? i have heard that "family planning" excuse for condom usage, but didn't God say zalani lande?what is the difference between playing God by preventing conception; using condoms or by having anal sex or oral sex or same sex or abortion or "birth control" pills?
we shouldn't hide under "inhlonipho" in our quest to sensor free constructive speech!!


Edited by mpumelelo101 (09/27/08 08:57 AM)
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#40349 - 09/28/08 12:56 AM Re: Oral sex [Re: Pinky07]
MTHWENTWEHLABA1 Offline
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Registered: 02/12/08
Posts: 360
Loc: UG
Originally Posted By: Pinky07
Heloo people of umtwakazi mina bengibuza since anal sex is out of the agenda completely wat about iOral sex because its sumthing you both do to each other pleaser each other however its thru umlomo n perhaps izanhla...experts say its gud ngoba u get to explore you wife's body n bring her to another level and you explore your husband too.
Manje ngicela ukubuza nithini ngayo lendaba?


Pinky07
Kunjani ke Pinky07. Ngithemba usaphilile njengoba nje udubo okhalangalo lungakhombi okunengi kodwa lokhu okulobe ngaphezudlwana.
Ngilethemba njalo ukuthi okubuzayo udinga ulwazi hatshi okunenginengi.
Into enjengobutabane kwejayelekile ukuthi uzwe abantu bekhuluma ngayo here and there once in a while. Asinto ehlabusayo okokuthi ungayithola isemlonyeni yabantu nsuku zonke. Kodwa ukutholakala iyatholakala, ngitsho labo ohulumeni abehlukeneyo ungabezwa bexoxa ngayo, abanye bethi balamalungelo laba abanje, abanye njalo bethi emazweni abo never never never. It is indeed illegal in some quarters. It is an old age thing that is increasingly getting promoted with deteriorating standards and the prevalence of loose morals. Yimibono yami keleyi.

Ngike ngathi ngizwe ukuthi abanye bona batheni phambi kwami. Ngizathi ngizwe njalo ukuthi abanye bazothini ngemva kwami.
Love-making was never a public issue. It will never be. However, as you may know, some believe it is modern to publicise it. To me it is not to be, this includes everything about it, the positions, manouvers and lot, may be ungaya kubabakazi or such like, njalo ensitha lingu two or so. UMZALI ANGEKE AKUFUNDISE LENTO. With the breakdown of family-life due to mobility of labour and such, these days ngangizwe abanye bekhuluma ngama-mentor.Bengafundisa ke labo laba. Lokhu okokuthi singahlaziywa nje lindaba phakathi komphakathi, hatshi kwethu akwenziwa lokhu.

I cant get this round my head when some say if we dont discuss oral ... we are being dragged back to dark ages. How is this advancement, to me this is plain perversion. I mean to do it is a personal choice and private matter. To discuss it in public carries some degree of deviancy. We run the risk of amusing sexual deviants, of being groomed and abused psychological and emotional by sexual perverts who may have crept in unawares to this site. It would be as good as upholding the degrading of morals in our society.
It is part of our heritage as Africans to uphold good morals, to respect, to treat every muntomdala as your parent, to entertain or to refresh isihambi. Isihambi ma sisemangweni singene nje ensimini sibulale ikhabe sizidlele nje singafihli amagebhezi, amantombazana eziphathe ngesimilo, amajaha ethule imikhombandlela ma efika la okulabadala khona. All this is good,it can not be bought from any shop, not even in Holywood but sikwamukele ezandleni zabo gogo labo khulu free of charge.
Kukanti ma utshiseka kangako ungahlalisana logogo ngemva kwendlu umbuze ngayo leyo oral whatever, hatshi lihlezi emlilweni lendlu yonke.
Kumele sizethese umlandu enkundleni, ngoba ingeyethu, singameli osibalukhulu ukuthi basiqondise, kumele siqhubeke nsukuzonke ngenkulumo ezizothile. Let each one police themself. YIMIBONO NJALO. Thank you



Edited by MTHWENTWEHLABA1 (09/28/08 01:08 AM)
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#40350 - 09/28/08 09:39 AM Re: Oral sex [Re: MTHWENTWEHLABA1]
Mthakathi27 Offline
Nduna

Registered: 12/30/07
Posts: 323
Loc: Canada
Quote:
Heloo people of umtwakazi mina bengibuza since anal sex is out of the agenda completely wat about iOral sex because its sumthing you both do to each other pleaser each other however its thru umlomo n perhaps izanhla...experts say its gud ngoba u get to explore you wife's body n bring her to another level and you explore your husband too.
Manje ngicela ukubuza nithini ngayo lendaba?


There is nothing wrong ngeOral sex, into edingakalayo yikuhlanzeka nje kuphela. Uma usazi ukuthi you will do it make sure ukuthi ugezile loma ozokwenza laye ugezile. Yinto enhle kakhulu i oral sex. Loma uyenza ngomlomo loma ngeminwe kuyafana yinto enhle kakhulu njalo akekho ongayenzi lento. I am not sure nge anal sex, i have my reservations ngayo, kodwa angingeke ngibagcone abayenzayo uma bevumelene. I am 100% against homosexuality, kodwa angiboni ukuthi i anal sex iyafana lobutabane, abanye bathi buqala kanjalo ubutane, kodwa angikholwa ukuthi kuqinisekile lokhu.


Edited by Mthakathi27 (09/28/08 09:40 AM)
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#40356 - 09/28/08 07:15 PM Re: Oral sex [Re: Mthakathi27]
bosso1926 Offline
Mafikizolo

Registered: 06/12/08
Posts: 28
Loc: bulawayo zimbabwe
Sakubona Mthwakazi, madoda lami kangiboni bubi ngaloludaba,njalo akula bubi ngokuhlaziya lolu daba yiwo phela umhlaba esesiphila kuwo. ukutshaya inja sifihla umphini akusikho,kasinanzeleleni ukuthi impilo iyaguquka,ngakho mina ngokwami ngithi ubutabane,oral sex phansi ngakho kodwa ngiyazi ukuthi buyinto ekhona
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#40371 - 09/29/08 03:01 PM Re: Oral sex [Re: MTHWENTWEHLABA1]
ntombankala Offline
Sikhulu

Registered: 11/06/02
Posts: 205
Loc: Zimbabwe
Heyi mfethu angibonge indlela obeke ngayo lapha. Uyishaye ekhaleni. Sibhekane nama sexual pervets. A less sophisticated mind speaks about dark ages as if nothing beneficial to society happened during that period . All eras are a progression of knowledge and some eras have witnessed more knowledge production than others. The 21 st century that Mpume talks about is related to the dark ages that he fears contaminates my thinking.

Technology made in the 21 st century is borrowing heavily on so called dark ages technology. An example: the body panels of the Air Bus A380 and the oldest of Bows that were made from two types of materials. Archeologists prove that people from the past were advanced technologically and new knowledge creation has been receding with increases in centuries. Mpume, please dont pick American buzz words without understanding them.

Mpume - our great grand parents you may easily lump into the dark ages were sophisticated in their skills and could mine and smelt iron and steel - something that you may not know. They bred (Genetics for your ears) Nguni cattle - one of the best breeds of cattle on earth. They did more. They taught us values zo BUNTU okuyizona esiphila ngazo - and we are proud of that. It is the violation of our values and economic systems that see us engulfed in HIV & AIDS, hunger,etc and yet we call it modernity. What garbage. Eyocansi lapha - cha. Azihlonishwe izitho zabantu. Abantu kabazenzele imfihlo zabo ezindlini zabo. Just try to post your contribution ngesintu and see how horrible it sounds.

And Oh...the dark ages is no longer used as a term by modern historians and check for Petrarch - an Italian who first used the term in reference to criticism of latin literature. Ngiyagcizelea ukuthi kufanele sizazi ukuthi singobani sizinukeni amakhwapha - yinhlonipho leyo. Uma bekhona abesifazane nabesilisa phakathi kwethu abayizitabane, akukho esingakwenza kubona ngoba kungekho ogunyaziwe ukuthi enze intando yakhe ngempilo yomunye umuntu. Yizidalwa nje zika Nkulunkulu...siyabahlonipha abafowethu nawosisi. Ngeke sihlale sihlaziye emphakathini onjenganalo nge Anal Sex leyo.....yihlazo nje. Yihlazo. Where is development in that? What value are you adding on that? This is lunacy and for the REAL MATLANDERS...if we go along such topics.....Muntongenakudla's prophecy that IPHUPHO lakwa Mthwakazi lokwakha isizwe ngeke lize lifezeke....would soon become a reality. Some of us may not have read that strong statement from Muntongenakudla but it calls into question the strategies being pursued, coordination that seems non - existant and the quality of debate. If we devote our energies to such filthy topics, we are making a mokery of the sufferings of our people. Some people will find a nice term for this site.

Those interested in that discussion of anal sex must use their proper names on this post and stop calling themselves psuedo names. Lokhu senzela ukuthi onina nabo yise nawo gogo babo bafunde into abaziphanyeka emphakathini. Look, they dont even have the balls to do that. So what are you afraid of?

Let us be focussed. What brand are we? What is our competence? Can researchers find something of value from our site or is it just a damb squib?

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#40372 - 09/29/08 05:01 PM Re: Oral sex [Re: ntombankala]
mpumelelo101 Offline
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Registered: 06/14/08
Posts: 170
Loc: durban, south africa.
why don't you accept that you are clinging to the glory days of UBUNTU and cultural conservertism which have long gone by? if you are a citizen who still habours the possibility such a utopia in the 21st century, i am afraid you will follow the dinausors and dodo's into extiction. times have changed mthwakazi omuhle, community rights have given way to individual rights. political independence came with sexual independence, nowadays people do whatever they want with whoever is willing(sometimes even with those who are not!!).
we as umthwakazi should take the lead and constructively debate the sexual tsunami facing us. if you are against discussing it in the general anonymity of cyberspace, i wonder how you will discuss it with your sexually active 11 year old daughter/niece, assuming you are not in denial about her sexual gymnastics!
my reference to the dark ages has nothing to do with despising great inventions which happened during that period or our ancestors living during those times,it was a simple symbolic reference to the times when the romans monopolised the flawed-interpretation and maintained an information black out of the bible: the same way you are into the monopolisation of sexual discussions(by elders) and the maintainence of an sexual information black outs by arguing"lets not discuss this things emphakathini, kuyazila, akukhombisi inhlonipho etc"
down with fornicators perverts, peodophiles,adulters,incest, homosexuals,bisexuals,oral sex, "protected" sex,artificial birth control, masturbation, spiritual wives/husbands and related sexual immorality.
forward with raw unprotected sex between a faithful married man and his faithful wife/wives.
forward with further public unsensored debate!!
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#40389 - 10/02/08 01:21 PM Re: Oral sex [Re: Pinky07]
malesi Offline
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Registered: 08/04/07
Posts: 15
Loc: KwaMhlabuyalingana
Pinkie mtnwana wasekhaya, umbuzo wakho muhle kakhulu,Angithi vele isiNdebele sethu sithi sitshukelwa ebandla!!!Usuyibekile induku, Mina iOral sex ngiyibona kuyinto enhle kakhulu mangabe niyavumelana nepatner yakhokodwa ihygene should always come 1st njengoba ubesishilo omunye umfowethu. I oral sex ngenye yendla ezenza ucansi lubenohlonzi and it also strengthens relationships.If we dont discuss such things sizohlala sisebumnyameni or your patner oyoze athi uyazintshontsha, adiscover lezizinto ngaphandle angeke usamkhona futhi, that affects amarelationship. khonala enkundleni yiyona ndawo esingafundisana khona njalo sibonisane indlela, were else can we be free to discuss such issues?
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#40391 - 10/02/08 05:42 PM Re: Oral sex [Re: mpumelelo101]
mphakathi Offline
Mafikizolo

Registered: 01/21/08
Posts: 49
Loc: south africa
Mpumelelo mfowethu, uyalibeka iqiniso njengoba linjalo. Esikucela kuwe mfowethu yikuba uzwisise ukuthi ukuhlangana kwababili, owesilisa lowesifazane emacansini akusi kudla komphakathi. Ngokwababili kutshiye kunjalo. Discussing sex in public will not bring any gain to us as a society. So pliz lets cut it off.

Nxa ekhona ongasuthisekiyo ngomunye wakhe, bakhona obabakazi et al. basebenziseni. asingabi ngothathekile. kukhona ye esingakulandela oku modern kodwa isiko lethu asingalilahli kakhulu.

Ngiyabonga

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#40487 - 10/08/08 02:21 AM Re: Oral sex [Re: mphakathi]
zwide Offline
Ngqwele
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Registered: 02/01/05
Posts: 168
Loc: Lobengula
Why is sex off topic .. it looks like there are people here that would like to dictate what we should discuss.(HITLERS) mad
Most of you guys pretend like we still live in the village and we still have the support structure that was there during Lobengula's time - we dont have the support system and we are not in the village , we are far from home and have lived and married different people - that being said if any one does not like the sex topics do not reply and dont read
for some of us Pervets that like discussing sex we will be here and exchange ideas and laugh and enjoy . eita

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