How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa?

Posted by: yezi

How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/06/03 08:46 PM

Akezelingitshele bakwethu ukuthi lina liyibona njani lindaba?
Posted by: Bhudaza

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/06/03 09:51 PM

It's a recipe for disaster if the age difference is more than ten years, in the case of the man being older. People grow at different rates.

It's recipe for disaster if the man is more than three years younger than the woman period.

That's what I think <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />
Posted by: BhudiMathawuzeni

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/06/03 10:51 PM

haaaaaaaaa majida mina leyo ndaba ,i tricky ,but kimi i think wat matters is how u get along,age is nuthing but a number only,i have seen 34 year olds (both man and women)behave like 21 year olds,
and vice versa.so indaba yeminyaka leyo ayilandaba ,kodwa engingavumelani lakho yikuthi usisi ole 21 years ejole lo baba ole 30 years and above ,hayi lokhu caaaaaaaaaa
i think 3 - 5 years difference wen dating is ok,lonke liyabe lisa fresh lilingana.
Posted by: yezi

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/06/03 11:33 PM

akelize lingicasisele lapha.
is it always the case ukuthi,in such relationships each one involved is after something.by this i mean if the guy is older is he after something fresh,and if the girl is younger is she after the guy's money.on the same point what of relationships were the girl is older,what is she after?what does that guy want from an older girl?
Posted by: sthutha

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/07/03 12:42 AM

If the girl is older especially in thge western world she would have failed to find someone of her age-group and time would be running out.However may i say i personnally do not see anything wrong with any age gaps.Uthando lokuhlonipha umuntu yikho okunqobayo.

If you look at it from the point of who is gaining what and things like that then rest assured that it will all end in tears.Mtshele umfana omncane kulawe ukuthi wena ucabangani njalo uhloseni ngokumkhomba sometimes ukuba-serious from the start kuyanceda.Of cause a very large age gap will always be a factor but as long as the two of you understand it and are happy fine.Nxa usubone okumafana kwesintwini ongakuthanda ukuphathe sharp go for it.

Entweni ezinje ungaba lenhloni ngokwakho.
Posted by: BhudiMathawuzeni

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/08/03 12:24 AM

moslty ungabona usis olama 30 years ejola le boys ele 22 ,uyabe efuna i good service kuphela,
kumbe ungabona u bhudi ole 21 years ejola losisi ole 34 bayabe bekholisana kuphela ,vele lowow ngumthado wama xoxo awuyindawo.
mina lokhe ngiqina nge 5 years difference.
Posted by: malimaza

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/08/03 01:07 AM

umuntu kufanele ayenze akufunayo,kulabantu engibaziyo where the guy is 10-12 older or vice-versa amongst blacks or whites couples and having long lasting relationships.whom u fall in love has no formula as long as there is :
trust,love,not taking each other for granted,gud communication,less inteference from third parties in most cases abantu abakutshelela eceleni,quality time,respect btwn the couple.wat i have written a few pointers and if u want 2 subtract or add a few issues u are welcome.
Posted by: NYASOMBI

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/08/03 05:07 PM

Pliz allow me to make my contribution. Cultural it is taboo for a teen-AGER to marry or go out with a mature lady. Those who find themselves in that situation would naturally try to justify they case by saying love is the most important thing. Remember those people who came out with that culture were not stupid. We all know what problems that gives to our families (especially our mothers and sisters) and friends.
l wanna say to those teen-AGERS that justify their act by saying, "age ain't nothing but a number ", watch out becoz you are in a deep SLUMBER. l say, look in deep. Most of these mature ladies have gone thru many bad experiences and as a result they know what to do to keep a teen-AGER hubby or BOY-friend in their arms. We all know what that can entail. If the mature lady has kids it's even worse becoz the kidz find it hard to say dad or step-dad to a teen-AGER.
In the end no matter what we say a teen-AGER is free to marry or go out with a mature lady irregardless of age.
Posted by: BhudiMathawuzeni

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/10/03 11:09 PM

haaaaaaaaaa majida kulabo sisi abayi 2 asebeqede ama nigerian lapha etoronto
Posted by: kasikoponjalo

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/12/03 09:39 AM

Indaba siyayizwa but let me bring in some psychology there, in terms of maturity a girl of 18 years will match a man of 23 so lets take from there.Mina ngithi for amadoda kuyakhuthazeka ukuthi bathathe abafazi abancane kulabo ngeminyaka ngoba abafazi baguga masinya and also ubufazi bomfazi ngaphandle kwenhliziyo yisimo somzimba, ngokunjalo sibheke ukuthi uyaphanga aguge ngithi kungcono nxa indoda ithethe umfazi oncane kulayo.Eyokuthi umfazi abemdala liphutha okungamelanga lenziwa ngoba lowo mfazi usuka akuthathe njengomntanakhe njalo lemizi enjalo ilihlazo ngokunjalo kayihlali isikhathi esilengqondo leyo ndoda encane ingakadinwa...
Posted by: mahlabezulu

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/12/03 10:06 AM

At the end of the day I believe it is the politics of our different cultures n our personal beliefs or what we want in a relationshp that governs our affairz. If u were brought up 2 believ certain thngz are wrong an grew up 2 accept them that way u won't change that would u? Sum pipo av bn brought up in mo tolerant societies yikho nje lapha eUK a lot of thngz are acceptably which bk in Africa siyathalaza sizwe sikhuthwe zimota. Av u realisyd the number of African guys screwin white girlz? There is mo tolerance here than bk hom so abanye abantu av relegated the beliefs they had and wan 2 experiment, who cares aft' ol?
Posted by: mahlabezulu

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/12/03 10:28 AM

Ngokubona kwami if u fil sumthng iz not ryt 4 u DON DO IT! n if sum1 is cool wit it letz wish them the best of luck. We cannot be conservativ 4 eva bakithi. Asibhekeni, a lot of us r livn ol over the world ryt now. Av u ever imagined what Zim wil b lyk if we ol went bk ryt now? Day in day out we rub against diffrnt cultures n ideas Sum of us have or r in a proces of metarmophis idea-wise. The only danger is if they come out worse than they went in. We don look 4 the same thngz in a marriage so age myt not matter 2 ol of us though I beliv the gap shd not b very wide so that u grow n mature together omunye engeqiswa sum stages of lyf bcoz of the dmandz of the set-up.
Posted by: Skuvethe

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/12/03 10:42 AM

Bakwethu, kulezi ndaba, umfazi must be half imnyaka yendoda plus 7. Ngakho, indoda eleminyaka eyi 32, kumele ithathe untombazane ole 23, at least.

Indoda ingathatha umama abatshiyana ngeminyaka embalwa, kubba loku delelana ngoba bafana lomuntu lo mfowabo.
Posted by: Skuvethe

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/12/03 10:46 AM

*23 at most. uxolo bakwethu.
Posted by: mahlabezulu

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/12/03 12:46 PM

Uyezwakala umqondo wakho kodwa asithi u date intombi uyithande n fynd out in the course of dating ukuthi she does not fol within that age diff, usuzamala regardles of the person she is n what u fil bout her? Angilaqiniso kulokho!
Posted by: mahlabezulu

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/12/03 12:57 PM

It would b quite easy 2 narrow ur search n make it practical if relationshps were sumthng that comes out of fairyland. We ol kno lyf is a lot mo complicated than that. the way i view it; prospectv partners need 2 b compatible, ur views to lyf, what u want 2 do wit ur lyf n how, how much grey matter either of u possess, how u were both brought up, the ideals u both cherish. asithi u meet sum1 n if u were me she satisyd ol thez criteria BUT she was as old as you were, wd u look her in the face n tel her u don want her?
Posted by: mahlabezulu

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/12/03 01:08 PM

I appreciate the biological nkinga that women mature and outgrow us but sokusiya ngokuthi what u want in a person. I believ thina majida we r sumtymz 2 selfish n unrealistc. There is no way intombi yakho ezahlala ilicitsha lyk the day owayihawukela ngayo. let us accept the simple facts of lyf, grow 2gether in mynd and not body. Iminyaka wil b an issue if u want it 2 b!
Posted by: BhudiMathawuzeni

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/12/03 11:38 PM

mina majida eqinisweni angikhethi lutho,come wat may come ,ngiyajola,mina ngicina ku 30 years ukujola,umfazi ophezu kwaleyo,hayi usengumngane wami kuphela,
leyo yimbona yami lami.
Posted by: DONSENDE

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/13/03 01:20 AM

well majida lendaba ye-age ibucayi kayifuni kuphathwa dedengu. odade baphanga bakhule kulathi liqiniso lelo, kodwa zikhona izizatho ezingenza lithathane lanxa esekhulile. lezo asingeke sazibetha ngoba sehlukene. labodade kunjalo abadala bazokudina ngesidala sabo ucine usuhlanya ngomfana wengadi kumbe owenkomo then what's the point? thathana lomthandayo.
Posted by: kasikoponjalo

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/13/03 08:31 AM

uthando uma sithi luyazikhethela kumbe lumila lapho oluthande khona angazi ukuthi leyo siyibona kanjani endabeni zeminyaka.
Posted by: nomandebele

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/13/03 04:42 PM

Ekuhle bobaba.Hmm udaba lolu olulapha lunzima.Ngitsho ngoba phela abantu sitshiyene, amasiko ethu njalo abanye bewalandela abnye hatshi.So kusiya ngenjongo yomuntu , ngoba in most cases u can tell ukuthi lomuntu she's older or younger.Anyway i think ngensukwana zokuhlangana its natural to ask each other yr ages.Unlees its love at first sight ,(usually its lust) then uyabe ungakazi and definetely not head over heals on the first date!So that gives each one to weigh their options and decide ukuthi yikho na engikufunayo or not.If u carry on then good luck and hope it works.Phela we know ukuthi akulamuntu owaqomisa elengqondo yokuthi the first person i fall in luv with ngiyacarrer!Kuyazenza so its all part of growin up !Obviously its a different matter nxa untombazana ole 18 yrs ese specializer only in Geriatrics.Thats more than 3 in as many years then hayi lokho sokungokunye!
Posted by: kasikoponjalo

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/14/03 10:27 AM

Kodwa nxa sixoxa lapha sile one standing assumption eyokuthi sonke singumthwakazi njalo sisalandela lelo siko ngaphandle uma ngiphambanisa.asidingisiseni ukuthi kusukela ekadeni indoda ibe iyiyo endala ngeminyaka eminengi njalo kuhlezi kulihlazo ukuthi umama omkhulu abonakale ethandana lonfana omncane...

lithini ngayo...
Posted by: yezi

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/14/03 04:53 PM

mina kuyangimangalisa sibili ukuthi kanti obhudi bayabebefunani emuntwini oselabantwana 2,3 whatever.
i mean basically,there are genuine relationships here and there,but the truth of the matter is ungabona owesintwana 'ethandana' lomuntu omdala kulaye,that is 14yrs older or more,each one of them is after something from the other.the younger wants material benefits and the older wants someone fresh,its a matter of ukugwaba ngento encane.
whatever the case,but thats were sugar daddies evolved from,and don't you think its weird to see a grandma holding a freshman's hand esithi yindado yakhe?
Posted by: kasikoponjalo

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/14/03 05:12 PM

Ngibona sonke siyakubona ukuthi labomama bayavuma ukuthi bayaguga masinya njalo bangathathwa ngabantu abancane kulabo kuyahlupha. Do you know that its not an issue much for a man to enter a marriage with a kid than for a woman to do the same....
Posted by: mahlabezulu

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/14/03 10:51 PM

Ekuhle emzini kazulu! Ngokubona kwami if we consider a lot of issues fro the viewpoint yendulo sizathola ukuthi kunengi esikwenza 2day okwakulihlazo then and kube lokunye esingeke senelise ukukulandela. Sesiphila enkathini ezahlukile, akulani lesiko kumbe ukuthatheka ngamasiko abanye. Bathi we r livinga in a global village now yikho nje our own culture wil be changed and change those of others as we interact lezinye izizwe. Just lyk our education, politics, ECONOMICs and other important spheres of our lives do not exist in a vaccum, it is daily being changed by these interactions with the rest of the world. Khathesi nje we r sharing views singazani, 4 those who r not stubborn in acquring and assimilating new ideas, there will be a change of the way we view certain things. So at the end of the day, it becomes mo of an individual decision than widely held views.
Posted by: BhudiMathawuzeni

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/15/03 12:18 AM

haaaaaaaaaaa nanso indaba isibheda,angazi ukuthi ngithini.kodwa iqiniso yikuthi ,ekucineni ngundoda zikhethele,mfazi zivumele.
mina ngibona i 5 years difference iyi sweetylavo,ngoba lonke lizabe liguga okufanayo,lobu fresh buyabe bu phela same time.
Posted by: yezi

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/16/03 02:10 PM

one thing we have to keep in mind is that umuntu owesifazana lowesilisa abagugi okufanayo.
ungathandana lenkazana elitshiyana nge 5yrs or less lingaba lomntwana ke?you will notice ukuthi she will look far much older than she really is.njalo ngiyavumelana lawe skuvethe ukuthi kungaba le difference say of about 10years kubalokuhloniphana okuthize.
there are of course extremes ukuthi kule 20year difference,hatshi lapho kuyabe sekungokunye.but quite frankly angiboni hlupho with 12year,10year differences but 2year differences do have a question mark.
Posted by: Vula

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/16/03 03:09 PM

Yezi, uqinisile i5 to 12 year difference ikahle. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
Posted by: mahlabezulu

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/16/03 09:18 PM

Kanti majida ma sibheka abazali bethu nje jikele dd they have the age difference eliyibalayo? Inhlonipho isemuntwini hatshi eminyakeni yakhe, ingathi abanye abantwana bamisana labazali babo what mo wena eliyabe litshayisane emangweni wempilo and I also believe sesiphila enkathini ezahlukile, odade r moving up in many wayz and many a tym they will demand mo say in an affair. The contributions from odade in this forum proves that point. Criticism is not disrespect.
Posted by: DONSENDE

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/17/03 12:19 AM

madoda lamanina ngisesengumfanyana ngangiqomisela ubuhle ifiga le-age ngingasifuni isalukazi but ngathi sengikhulile ngadinga isimilo lomama ongakha umuzi olamandla leplani ekhanda. sitshiyane ngowodwa lezinyanganyana our life is skyrocketing. my children will be proud to have such a mother and i'm proud to have such a wife with her strength i'll build an empire she respects me, my family & my friends. i'm home guys. nxa uthatha kumbe uthathwa have your qualities & objectives clear. this is avery personal and localised arena kuyangokuthi ungubani uhloseni & angisoli muntu abathi i-age matters sisonke ngoba yikubona kwabo mina ngedwa ngithi isimilo phambili isimo mbayimbayi. akuyiwa nganxanye kungemanzi bakwethu. these are my little views Mawudlwamahle.what then am i saying, "i'll rather marry an ugly old & educated[not only learned]woman than a beautiful curvey & young imbecile". well bantwabahle lindaba inde ithini ngingadonsende. uPrince Carlos wehlukana loDiana a very beautiful young woman firm and elegant going for a swathy skinned Carmilla Packer B 5 years older than him becoz of L.O.V.E. uDi laye for Fayed an arab or moslem something,from the palace becoz of L.O.V.E. nxa usumthandile umuntu only GOD can stop that becoz HE is ertenal me & yu very temporary, for me & you is the present and the past the future is not ours to see que sera sera whatever will be will be.
Posted by: malimaza

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/17/03 12:37 AM

isimilo yinqaba bakwethu ngivumelana le above entry kodwa ke umuntu wesifazane angaba lengane kucina kukhanya angathi usekhululile.eyami i theory ngithi ingane ingezelela imnyaka kumuntu wesintwana eyisitshiya ngalo lunye.
Posted by: mahlabezulu

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/17/03 09:47 PM

Eh mnumzana Malimaza ngiyavumelana lombono wakho kodwa umbuzo wami yikuthi nxa lithandana, lihloniphana njalo usazi mhlophe ukuthi iminyaka leyo ingezelelwe yinzalo yakho pho uhlupho lungaphi? U can't have it both wayz mfokamdala, uma usesaba ukumgugisa ngengane then ungabilazo!
Posted by: malimaza

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/17/03 11:14 PM

sero mahlabezulu,okutshoyo kuyezwakala.mina ikhoca lami liyi 11yrs younger than me,ngenza njalo ukwenzela ukuthi angaba lengane kukhanye angathi uleminyaka emibili younger than me.ukuhlala phetsheya kakutsho ukuthi sitshiyane lemthotho yesintu,in short i'm saying mahlabezulu i want kids as well as having umfazi okuzakhanya engamdala kulami nxa esebe lengane.
Posted by: mahlabezulu

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/19/03 07:45 AM

Kucacile jida but iz it u whoz concerned ukuthi uzakhanya esewohlokile or how u thnk she looks in the eyez of the world? Lami ngiqhuba isintu but laso jus lyk religion nje kukhona lapho esidedela umumo kumbe amaprinciples omuntu. Mina ngibona at tymz odade tend ukuziyekelela when they have kids, uthole sebegqoka, behave and socialise as if they have suddenly aged. Ukuziphatha komuntu helps at tymz to defy age.
Posted by: yezi

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/21/03 03:10 PM

personally i donot deny the fact that there are genuine relationships were the man is quite older than the girl or vice versa and what holds them together is nothing but love for each other,but most of the time the relationship is based on two things which one of them is not love.they are based on sex and money.especially overseas,undoda uyabe tshiye umfazi ekhaya and unkazana etshiye ingani,and once they come here they get into a romp with each other.
Posted by: Vuma

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/21/03 09:15 PM

Yezi

Kukhona ngempela in some cases kodwa not in all.

Mina ngilungiselela umtshado wami lesoka lami, mina ngeni26 yana une37, yimnyaka elitshumi lanye. Kuthiwa yini lokhu? Unengane yinye from a previous relationship mina I have two boys from a previous relationship. Nginayo imfundo enganeno lamanje ngisesikolo, isoka lami liyabhadala, yena he is a professional already with a doctorate on the way. Kuthiwa yini?
Posted by: yezi

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/21/03 09:23 PM

i am not intrested in commenting on your private and personal life Vuma.
Posted by: Serwanz

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/21/03 09:56 PM

Wena yezi, uzenza juice hayikhona. Uyakuhlabisa usisteri ukuthi imfamfarara oyi witayo ayithetshi, uyaku bonisa ukuthi bayi namba osero lama khoca besi ndenge abagijimisi cweba wena uyambuluza.

Hantsho nguwe owaqala le ngxoxo manje inkinga yini? Yekela is'vembi futhi, singa mandenge la.
Posted by: Serwanz

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/21/03 10:06 PM

*abanga gijimisi icweba kumbe ufakafaka.
Posted by: yezi

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/22/03 03:57 AM

zwana ungathi 'wena' kimi serwanz,and i will not comment on people's personal lives take it or leave it.i will comment on the topic in general.further more if you've got a problem with english stuff it thats not my problem.i will respond in which ever language im comfortable with and which ever i choose,if it bothers you don't respond.
Posted by: mahlabezulu

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 11/22/03 09:47 PM

Mayuyu bo dade, akulwiwa enkundleni bo. The mo personal thngs are taken the worse for the xchange yemibono. Let us no allow ourselvs to be overtakn by our emotionz. Ukwehluka kwemibono is actually a healthy thing as I c it coz it provides different lanes for pipo to travesty. lisale
Posted by: s'khethabahle

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 12/23/03 05:40 PM

Linjani bantu bakithi. I am very much interested in this topic eyamarelationships btwn older man & younger females. Mina ngivumelana lothi age is just a number. At the same time ngivumelana lokuthi utshomi has to be older than ucherry.
Posted by: gwesela

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 12/23/03 07:37 PM

Noma nje iteam ivale ngokudliwa ngabetshabi bafowethu, Mina lami ngilifisela ikhisimusi enhle kanye lomnyaka omutsha olempumelelo kanye le team eqinileyo njalo ezadabula ishutaz eBF.
Posted by: Zwangendaba

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 12/24/03 04:48 AM

Hawu.

Indaba yaqala imnandi kangaka ngaze ngehluleka ukuginya, kanti sekutheni bafowethu.

Zinhle indaba ezinhle. U Vuma ubuya kahle. Uma ulithanda ijaha lakho, mina ngithi luthando lolo ilisibonisa lona.

I Zwangendaba laphindela e Swazini lapho ngaya lobola khona. Unkosikazi wami ngimtshiya emuva. Kulabo asebevule amehlo, ngimtshiya nge>>>> uxolo, angisoze ngilitshele.

Kodwa okwamanje silabantwana abathathu, sisonke okwe 14 years manje. This is half my personal life. yisiboniso leso ukwenzela ukuthi usisi uVuma angaziboni eyedwa. Lamanye amaxhegu afana lami angaziboni ewodwa.

Zinhle indaba ezinhle.

Li Zwangendaba.
Posted by: sthutha

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 12/25/03 12:07 AM

Otsheri besiNdebeleni nxa befuna ukwendeni kwaba kubo they have to make an effort to do so.

Lingahlala ekhoneni licatshe bodade I am sorry banengi osisi asebezwile ngembali yamajaha akini enhle njalo sebephambili kulani.So stand up and show who and where you are.

Okwe-age its personal
Posted by: Mabila

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 10/17/04 01:28 PM

Kanti yangikhutha njani lindaba emnandi kangaka bantu?
Posted by: Dokotela

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 10/17/04 03:44 PM

Lami angazi. yindaba enguluju. Abanye bethu have always wanted older women, say 10 - 15 year older. Angitsho mina, ngitsho nje amajaha amanengi.

Kubi na?
Posted by: Bhudaza

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 10/17/04 05:47 PM

Mabila loDokotela you may have in excess of 700 posts between the two of you ( not that there is anything wrong with that) but relatively, lingoMafikizolo ngakho zinengi indaba ezalikhuthayo. Buzani thina ama veteran!
Posted by: Mabila

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 10/17/04 05:49 PM

<img border="0" alt="kill" title="" src="graemlins/kill.gif" />
Si updethe phela Bhudaza hawu bantu kule name calling.....hk hk hk

Dok kuthiwa yithi esilawulayo......asithule bakhawule hk hk hk
Posted by: Kwazimina

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 10/17/04 06:15 PM

Ekuhle kwezothando.

Bhudaza,imbambo lokhu zingavumi ngencwadi yomzawakho, langapha uyi-senior futhi, ha usel'eceleni wena mfana.......hatshi ngamahlaya mfowethu ngiyazi ukuthi nxa wena laboMabila laboDoc likhona konke sokuvuthiwe.

Ake ngibuze lonke-nje majaha lezintombi ukuthi ngubani owathi ebona intombi wahle wayisukela ngokuthi ileminyaka emingaki?

The first impression is the facial and structural appearance then you attack, lokho okokuthi imnyaka mingaki kubonakala later and if you put-off the affair because of the age differnce then there is something wrong with you or you might have discovered something wrong with the character of the person and not, I repeat, not the problem with the age.

Remember, age is nothing but a number, as long as you get what you want then you are home and dry.

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Buza mina ngikutshele <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Embarrassed]" src="images/icons/blush.gif" />
Posted by: soweto

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 10/18/04 07:00 AM

Uyitsho kahle mfowethu kwazi mina, Lokhe ngathwetshulwa yingwe angikaze ngibone ijaha elibuza iminyaka yentombi mzukwana liyibona. Nxa abadala besithi uthando aluboni baqinisile ngoba phela nxa usuthandiwe kumbe usuthandile, ukuthi othandana laye uleminyaka emingaki akusebenzi, inkalakatha yikuzwanana lokuhlalisana kuhle.
Posted by: Dokotela

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 10/18/04 07:47 AM

Ya sisese batsha la, ukulawula bhee. Sithule yini Mabila, kumbe sifake amafutha? Ma siqala ngoku bheka ubuso le shepu, asiseyi nyamazana yini, engela ndaba lokuthi iphinga enye eleminyaka emingaki? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

Mina ngiya hlonipha bakithi, umuntu olemnyaka enga phose ilingane lo mama. Kuma phephandaba engiwabona la, uyabona iboyz engu titi, iloba isithi igcwala ngo masalu ongango nina. Lokhu mina ngi bona angani kuli hlazo elikhulu.

Kodwa mdala kimi ngeminyaka engu 5 singa zama, kusiya ngokuthi sizwisisana njani. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" />
Posted by: soweto

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 10/18/04 07:58 AM

Doc, Labo balohlupho topi mina angiwiti ngomuntu ophose elingane lomasayimoni, kodwa ngiwitfana ngabantu abadala ngeminyaka 5-10 njalo kusiya ngokuthi ukhangeleka njani, angiwitfani ngomuntu osengu gogo wabanye hk hk hk
Posted by: Mabila

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 10/18/04 12:11 PM

Asifake amafutha Dokotela hk hk abathuleyo bayakwazi labo abakuthuleleyo...

Mina mselufu angikholwa vele ukuthi kule relationship engela self-interest. Libona njani bafowabo labo dade? These self-interest may or may not be disclosed by either party but zikhona vele. Ngingaze ngiye ku khulu we 60 ngiyabe ngimthanda yes, plus self-interest phezulu vice versa lobhudinyana angaya ku mama we 5-10 years older. bangabe bethandana for sure, still with an element of self-interest. Bona abalinganayo, labo balama self-interest. What ever the prevailing self-interest is, will help shape the age/choice of a life partner. The world can scream bathi yi salukazi or whatever or ixhegu, if my interest are served, they can all go to mazayi!!
Posted by: Dokotela

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 10/18/04 12:54 PM

Into engangi zwisa ubuhlungu yikubona umafenda ongu nithi, esiyakwendela exhegwini, mina ngi gcwala ngaye. Lokhu kuyahle kungi khathe blayind.

Otherwise, mina njenge mpintshi ngu khululekile blayind, bathi abadala 'ovuse umvundla ngowakhe' Baphinde bathi 'ohlukane lomhluzi unathile'... ngiyasoma enyathele udaka. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
Posted by: soweto

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 10/18/04 01:11 PM

omunye lomunye lesize yakhe hk hk hk nxa ungaswela isize yakho bona iplani hk hk
Posted by: malimaza

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 10/18/04 06:20 PM

Itopic leyi lokhe itshisa.Umqali wetopic sewazithulela kanti yena ungaphi uyezi sizwe ukubana kuvaya njani.Waz it a personal interest topic kumbe wayezibuzela nje.
Posted by: Dabukamhlaba

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 10/18/04 08:03 PM

mina vele ngifuna ukuzama umfazi omdala kulami ngeminyaka maybe engu 5-7.phela ngifuna ukuzwa ukuthi into ethiwa yi experience ikhona yini.kubontanga sengatshaya ngedela.

kodwa phela nxa ebucwazicwazi elitshatshazi....hhhawu, uyabe usayisangaphi iminyaka.uyadibha kuphela, uzabuza phambili.
Posted by: Mabila

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 10/18/04 10:09 PM

Bafowabo ngicela ukutheza olulenkume ngabomo <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

Liyananzelela na ukuthi your preferences for women include the following:

a younger woman?
a shorter woman?
a woman who makes less money than you?
a less educated woman?
a woman who seems to have less experience than you entweni nje zonke?

Yindaba bafowabo? Into eliyidingayo asithando lina bantu. Lidinga nje someone you can manipulate and control. Yikho lisesaba older women livika ngokutshwabhana kwabo angani lina lizahlala li ayiniwe. For you again it's the issue yokuthi "abantu bazakuthini?" Wena uvele usuthini?
Posted by: mathimula

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 10/18/04 10:59 PM

Yeyi bantu indaba yokuthandana ayifani lezicathulo ezilesayizi.
Posted by: Dokotela

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 10/19/04 09:18 AM

Mina ngibona anagni i'influence' ise bazalini. Ngoba yibo abathi, ahh yisalukazi. Wena uzakubona kumele wenze into efunwa ngabazali bakho ukuze ungazi hlukanisi laba kwenu.

Wena uyabe ugcwala ngo sheri omdala. Inkinga nge zinye izikhathi esekuthini usheri ucina esefuna ukuku busa ngoba eku bona njenge bhoyz engu titi. Manje khonokho akula mpintshi engaku mela. Impintshi igcwala nge position yayo, noma iyi titi kanganani.

i'Experience' eliyitshoyo ngeyani? Licansi hanti? Icansi alila kuthi unganani, liyavuma kuphela, umhluzi uyaphuma wayawaya, as long as ugcwala lingatshaya amahlandla ambalwa.
Posted by: Dabukamhlaba

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 10/19/04 10:10 PM

Manje kulula phela nxa kuyikuthi ingxaki ngabazali Doc; siyahamba le sithupha se fake bengabikwazi,especially phela nxa ekhanya emncane.

Uyabona phela ngale emacansini kufanele uke uzwe phela abakwaziyo;uke uthole umdlalo omature,o 'been there,done that' ;hayikhona okungomtanga lokhu okufuna isibane sicitshwe kuqala.
Posted by: Mabila

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 10/20/04 01:56 AM

Hayi Dabuka point of correction, u Dokotela nguye ofuna ukucitsha isibane hk hk hk hk!
Kumele athole abangafuni sicitshwe, akhawule inkani hk hk hk hk
Posted by: Dokotela

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 10/20/04 02:39 PM

Waze wang' hleka dade Mabila. Hk. Mina isibane hatshi angisoze ngicime. Ngiyabe ngifuna ukuthi ubone ithoyisi. Kwaziwe ukuthi likhona njalo, nxa seku setshenzwa alila musa. Hk Hk.

Majita, lizamzuza yelanowo mama, ubone enguye onga cavi nex. Othi unga veza isitho avale amehlo athi "ahh wena uzang xhwalisa". Hk Hk. Unga qala umdlalo, alale sasaka, no action - no ngaze uthini. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

Kodwa uSweet 16, ofundisiweyo akubonise inkanyezi. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />
Posted by: MaGae

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 02/20/06 09:58 PM

abanengi seliphume off topic la............ udaba belusithi sikhangela njani amarelationship btwn older man and younger women or vice versa.......... mina ngithi nxa mina ngingu cherry omncane kumele ngidinge umuntu esingaphose silingane omngabemdala nge 5 years nje ngoba ungakhangela lingabe lilama intersts afanayo but if i go for an older man njengoba abanye besitsho umdala lowo vele yena sefuna uku tshada ahlale phansi kaselabulema hayi boooooo

so mina la ngibona nje ukuthi iage difference akumelanga idlule 7 or 10 bantu ngoba yeyi kungaba kokunye yeyi lina

ngumbona wami lowu bantu
Posted by: NTSHONTSHO

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 02/20/06 10:51 PM

PHAMBILI NGE ZALUKAZI <img border="0" alt="clap" title="" src="graemlins/yelclap.gif" /> <img border="0" alt="clap" title="" src="graemlins/yelclap.gif" /> <img border="0" alt="clap" title="" src="graemlins/yelclap.gif" /> <img border="0" alt="clap" title="" src="graemlins/yelclap.gif" /> ,HK HK,OOPS SORRY NGIKHULUMA NGE CARE WORK NGOBA KULAPHO OKULE MALI KHONA,KWEZOTHANDO,KUBA KUHLE NXA ULIJIDA UTHE WAZITHOLELA OKUNCANE NJE OKUKULINGENEYO HAWU,LICHAZEKE KUBE KUHLE,LAMI NGUMBONO WAMI.HA HA
Posted by: Mangethe

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 02/21/06 08:57 AM

Ngisekela umaGagisa. I age diff akumelanga ibenkulu kakhulu ngoba ingalambisa abanye abantu lapha.But uhlupho nantu:bangaze bathathane abalinganayo,indoda iyasuka iyedinga eziFresh ngaphandle.Umama laye angezwa kusitsho, adinge okungumfanyana okuzabe kumsebenza kungatholithuba.Amankazana amancane afuna abadala
ngoba kuthiwa bayakhupha ezimalini lapha.Omama labo bathi okungabafana kuyasebenza emacansini akudlali. <img border="0" alt="[yay]" title="" src="graemlins/yay.gif" />
Posted by: Nomangqika

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 02/21/06 04:48 PM

hk hk lumnandi udaba lolu ha ha lol abantu akumelanga betshiyane kakhulu kwadlula kudala lokho ngesikhathi sabo sethi ebukhweni bakhe ha ha ukhulu uyakwenzela okunye ubulawe yindlala kubi ucine suntshontshisa ngaphandle subuya lomkhuhlane futhi suzisola ha ha so yeyi bakwethu ma kusenzeka dingani abalingana lani umehluko ube less than 7 yrs ukuze phela kube mncwaaaaaaaa kutsho ubabakazi nomangqiksssss
Posted by: Nomangqika

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 02/21/06 04:54 PM

kodwa kengingani ngiyasekela mbijana phela umuntu omkhulu kulawe ulalokhu abakuthi lulwazi hk hk uyakufundisa okunengi hk hk okade ungakwazi ha ha kutsho mina babakazi asazi njalo
Posted by: mzukulu-kagogo

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 02/21/06 06:26 PM

Bakithi kuqakathekile ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi sikhulume esikubonayo hatshi esikuzwayo.kulabantu ababambelela emahungahungeni impilo yabo yonke.

ukuthi umuntu ongumfazi angabalomntwana uyaluphala akusoqiniso umuntu angahamba evula umlomo elitshela abantu ngoba abantu batshiyene.kulabantu abanengi kakhulu abathi bangakutshela inani labantwana abalabo awungeke uvume ngoba u ve been stereotyped to believe that if someone luks like this or like that they shld be having a certain number of kids.kuya ngomzimba womuntu lokho coz there r people who luk older than their age or vice versa,this applies to man too.
Posted by: Mahlab'ayithwale

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 02/21/06 07:10 PM

Bakwethu

Back to the topic,i dont not believe age is really matters when two people have honestly love each other,people have always had something to say about everything,even if you were to be in a relationship with someone of your own age,people will always want to say something about everything.

Kangikhulumi mzekeliso,ngitsho ukuthi nxa ngingambona nje udade,ngimthande laye angithande loba e20 years older than i am i will just get on with my relationship irregardless of people's approval or not,phela dont ever marry to please your parents and friends and forget about YOU,i come first,the relationship or marriage is mine,it has to please me first.

Kangazi kumbe liyangizwa ukuthi ngithini amhlabezulu,ngakhoke kimi iminyaka yabantu kayiqakathekanga kangalo,nxa abantu betshelene bathandana kunjalo.

Ngiyabonga
Posted by: MaGae

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 02/21/06 09:44 PM

mahlaba ha ha waze wangilavukisa sbali yeyi loba nje umagreee e20years older than wena ungamhambela sibili utshiye thina oswity lavo ha ha.

liyabona mina ngithi age has everthing to do lamarelationship. njengoba ngike ngatsho ngaphezulwini....... coz nxa ungahamba out lomuntu omdala they will be a time lapho ozacina uyangeka ukuthi umveze kithi thina sesikutshengisa abethu abesize yethu. yikho uthola abanye sebehamba one one lasemachurch kuqale kungene ubaba umama asale ungani abaveli same ndawo ha ha so vele akubalance lokhu okokuthi uthathe umuntu ongakutshiya bose nge 10years....... so mina ngithi majida zidingeleni okuyizimomondiya nje okuncane lekele izalukazi lani bosisi zidingeleni okuziboyizi okulingene lina lekelane lamaxhegu.......

ngingazi kumbe ngilamanga phela hk hk ngingazini mina ngingumazakhela <img border="0" alt="[Grin]" title="" src="graemlins/grin15.gif" /> <img border="0" alt="[Grin]" title="" src="graemlins/grin15.gif" />

kodwa age difalensi okumelanga ibenkulu shameeeeee liyadakana masinya becoz ama interest enu awafaniiiiiiiii omunye ngowama 70sssssss omunye ngowama50ssss hk hk difalensi womehlukoooooo ngiyabongaaaaaaaa
Posted by: mthwentwe

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 02/22/06 01:00 AM

hk hk mahlaba uyakhuluma kanti bona abazali babekhethelwa nguban?

age is nothing but an issue of mind and matter if u dont mind it doesnt matter.

kodwa ke sengitsho njalo i believe there shuld be a 'central limit theory' on the age gap ingaba skewed too much lakho kucina sokuyingxabangxoza.
<img border="0" alt="[wavey]" title="" src="graemlins/wavey.gif" />
Posted by: Mahlab'ayithwale

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 02/22/06 05:20 PM

magagisa lo Gayigusu

Remember magagisa ukuthi teen is no longer sweet,it was then when it was thought teens were sweet where they sayin "sweet sixteen or sweet ninteen"was derived from.These days teens are even more dangerous than even late twenties,If you understand what love is then you will understand what i am saying,nxa ungabona useselenhloni lokuthi lowo othandana laye mdala kulawe njalo kuyakuyangisa ukuhamba laye kubangane bakho,kasilo thando lolo,if you love someone you love them for who they are not for what they are or how old they are.

Love knows no bounderies,nothing can really hinder love,njalo nxa umuntu esethandweni lomuntu konke lokho okweminyaka kawusoze ukubone lokho.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif"> kodwa age difalensi okumelanga ibenkulu shameeeeee liyadakana masinya becoz ama interest enu awafaniiiiiiiii omunye ngowama 70sssssss omunye ngowama50ssss hk hk difalensi womehlukoooooo ngiyabongaaaaaaaa </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Maga in a relationship,both parties have different interests,different opinions and views but love is about knowing each other and accepting the each other as you are,they can never be a perfect couple,Leyana i saying yokuthi "Mr or Mrs Prefect" is a pure fantasy,you have to make your partner perfect for you by accepting them as they are.so ngithi age is nothing but number,(LOVE)UTHANDO yilo inqaba in relationships.
Posted by: Nomangqika

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 02/22/06 06:35 PM

mina ngithi okuqakathekileyo yikuthi abantu bayathandana loba hayi kodwa at the same time i think amablessings abazali aqakathekile ngoba ekucineni we always go back to them ma sekubheda but that doesn't necessarily mean ukuthi sekumele bebe yibo abapha umthemtho we relationship kodwa ma ungabuya lomuntu wakho omdala bengayala wena uqhubeke and it works out for the good, fair enough but when it doesn't work out kuhle sebesithi sakutshela susithi abakuzweli so its a bit complicated ngoba ngesintu ilizwi lomzali alitshayi phansi but at the same time we need to do whats good for us asazi kelitsho ke ukuthi kuthiwani.
Posted by: NTSHONTSHO

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 02/23/06 02:17 AM

KANTI KODWA NXA ULOMAGOGO,LENZANI KUMBE LIYANGAPHI FOR FUN?KU MOVIE KUMBE E YMCA?
Posted by: Nomangqika

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 02/23/06 02:58 PM

ha ha kuya ngokuthi ngongu gogo okunganani phela abanye akukhanyi ukuthi bakhulile so liyakwanisa ukuya ebhayisikopu kodwa ma engulowana ha ha liyabe livalelene endlini lisenza abantwana ha ha kumbe liye eYMCA ha ha so kuyatshiyana
Posted by: MaGae

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 02/23/06 03:03 PM

NTSHONTSHO
Umbuzo wakho lowo ungazi phendulela ngoba wena ngapphezulwini uthe phambili nge zalukaziiiiiiiiii hk hk kumele ukwazi ukuthi zisiwa ngaphi outttttt ha ha LAVUKIYANIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII mina manje okagagie.....
Posted by: NTSHONTSHO

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 02/24/06 05:49 AM

O BABA BENGAZE BATHATHE UMUNTU OMNCANE KULABO THESE DAYS AKULANDABA NGOBA SEKULABO BO "VAYAGILA" UMUNTU ANGAYISEBENZISA UMA ESEGUGE KAKHULU SOKUNZIMA UKUTHI IGAZI LIGIJIME.
Posted by: Mangethe

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 02/24/06 09:46 AM

I-viyagla baba ifuna wazi ukubala ama-instilakshini phela ngoba uzafeyintisa umntwana ube ususithi wenzeni. <img border="0" alt="[yay]" title="" src="graemlins/yay.gif" />
Posted by: Dabukamhlaba

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 02/27/06 10:49 AM

mina ngibona ku right ukuthi nxa ulabo 24-26 iminyaka lawe uzitholele isingle mother phela okuma early thirties solongo lizabe ligcwaliselana lonke.mina omncane ngiyathola ubuciko (experience) yena athole amandla abontanga.
Posted by: dabulap

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/03/06 12:26 AM

he he wuwi these days sokukhonjiswa kuphethwe ama birth sethifikhethi ukuze ubelesiqiniseko se age difference, phela okunye kulama baby face kanti empeleni kugugile.
Posted by: NTSHONTSHO

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/03/06 04:27 AM

HA HA HA HA
Posted by: Dokotela

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/03/06 09:43 AM

Iminyaka yokuzalwa mina ngibona nagthi akummelanga ibe minengi kakhulu okokuthi ma uvaya lomkakho kuyaba nagthi uvaya lomzali.

Nxa elisalamusi kakhulu ucina usiba mature kakhulu kulawe - while this is not very bad, you end up loosing i sense yokuba yindoda emzini wakho.

Loba kunjalo, uhluzi uyahlukana kuphela.
Posted by: Ncincikadoyi

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/03/06 10:04 AM

he he uyazi liyangichaza njani bafethu.Mina ngibona angathi iminyaka ayilandaba inkalakatha luthando zihlobo.Ubudala abutsholutho bakithi ngoba ungaba mdala ungelalwazi at all.
wena Ntshontsho izinto zakho hk hk hk hk hk hk <img border="0" alt="[naughty]" title="" src="graemlins/naughty.gif" />
Posted by: Siphepheli

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/04/06 11:05 PM

Kambe njengoba lolothando lunjengomfasimbi, njalo lungumzwangedwa, singagxilisa kulo kangakanani bakwethu? Phela uthando luyalutshise luqonge, luphinde luphole lubeduma. Pho ke nxa soluthe lwanquma awuzukungibona imixhwele? kumbe ukungakhuli? kumbe ububi nobukliwi?

Asazi bakwethu! Mina ngithi inyama ehlabusela uSibanda ingaba ngumkhawuzane owutshefu kuNcagu. Ngithini ya, ozidlela inyama yakhe kazidlele kumbe ngumhwabha kumbe ngugazana, olivejithaliyeni laye azidlele umbhida wakhe, kumbe umfushwa wakhe oledobi kumbe ololaza, khk hk hk kleke pekle lahleka isili elidala.
Posted by: Mahlab'ayithwale

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/05/06 04:12 PM

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">originally posted by Siphepheli
Asazi bakwethu! Mina ngithi inyama ehlabusela uSibanda ingaba ngumkhawuzane owutshefu kuNcagu. Ngithini ya, ozidlela inyama yakhe kazidlele kumbe ngumhwabha kumbe ngugazana, olivejithaliyeni laye azidlele umbhida wakhe, kumbe umfushwa wakhe oledobi kumbe ololaza, khk hk hk kleke pekle lahleka isili elidala. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Liqinisi lelo baba,nxa umuntu ethokoza ngerelationship yakhe kulungile kunjalo,okweminyaka and all that singatshayana amakhanda sibili kodwa iqiniso yikuthi sonke selemibono ehlukileyo.
Posted by: dekayz05

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/05/06 05:02 PM

kambe khona kuselento okuthiwa luthando kulezinsuku?
Posted by: Mahlab'ayithwale

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/06/06 09:34 PM

decayz05

Uthando lusesekhona,lwalukhona kudala njalo luzahlala lukhona,yikuthi nje olwalezinsuku ummm solusolisa,abantu sebekhangela izikhwama zabantu kuqala bengakaze baqome,kodwa ngibona lukhona sibili.
Posted by: Dokotela

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/07/06 05:36 AM

Ngangizwe ezikhathini ezinengi abantu bethi, uzibani sowaya dinga abatsha. Kukhanya uthando lo muntu omdala kangako alufiki ndawo. Yilo thando olucina lusenza ukuthi abantu beqe uthango.

Mina ngibona kungcono ukuthi libe ngabantu aba hlukene ngeminyaka embalwa.

Lakho ungezwa njani ma uyimpintshi usithi "khulula iphenti", kumasalu olamazinyo a "detachable"?

Yismoko leso badala, yizo izinto eziletha ama bhadi zonezo.
Posted by: Mabila

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/07/06 05:46 AM

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Wena baba wokucima isibane uzasibonisa okunye hk hk
Posted by: Bhudaza

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/07/06 10:34 AM

Asazi ke lapho wetho ngoba lakhona ngasemandulo babetsho abadala ukuthi "ubuhle bendoda zinkomo zodwa, ungalibali mhla utshadayo ntombazana!"


</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by Mahlab'ayithwale:
<strong> decayz05

Uthando lusesekhona,lwalukhona kudala njalo luzahlala lukhona,yikuthi nje olwalezinsuku ummm solusolisa,abantu sebekhangela izikhwama zabantu kuqala bengakaze baqome,kodwa ngibona lukhona sibili. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">
Posted by: Mahlab'ayithwale

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/08/06 11:03 PM

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by Bhudaza
Asazi ke lapho wetho ngoba lakhona ngasemandulo babetsho abadala ukuthi "ubuhle bendoda zinkomo zodwa, ungalibali mhla utshadayo ntombazana!" </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Hk hk Waze wangilahla phansi ke hk hk hk
Posted by: TSHITSHI NANA

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/15/06 05:50 PM

UTHANDO LWEQINISO - IMALI?
LISAYKHUMBULA INGOMA KAMUYI UNDUNA MALABA (NDUX MALX) ITHI UTHANDO LWEQINISO KALULANDABA LEMALI, LOMYANGA....' NGITSHO LEYANA PHELA ACULA NGO LERATO INTOMBI YASEBUTSWANA.
UNGABONA UTHANDO LUDINGA IPHAWUNDI LOBA IDOLA LIKA BHUSHI EMELIKA, IPULA LERANDI..,IVIZA, I STAY, UKUMA NENJA, I-BMW ( BE MY WIFE CAR),..... KAYISITHANDO LWEQINISO. NGESILUNGU BATHI MATERIAL LOVE IS DANGEROUS IKANTI NJALO UTUKU UHLABELA ESITHI ' LOVE CANT BUY MONEY'
NXA INTOMBI INGITHANDA KAYITHANDE MINA....HATSHI LOKHU ENGILAKHO! UKHONA OSAKHUMBULA INGOMA KAMUYI USOLOMON SKUZA LEYANA EKUDLALADE U ' LOVE AND SCANDALS' ETHI' SHE BROKE MY HEART FOR ANOTHER GUY...A GUY WHO OWNS A KHRESIDA...'
MAHLABEZULU QHAPHELANI BO, LINGADLIWA LIKHANGELE NJENGABOMATEMBA..LISITHI LIYATHANDWA KANTI NGITSHO!
OTHERWISE TSHITSHI NANA!
Posted by: dabulap

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/17/06 05:18 PM

ke ngibuze Tshitshinana, uthando lweqiniso lubonakala nxa uthanda umuntu ole walker's layisensi kuphela? kanti laba abalamakresida bona pho bazathandwa ngubani? bazakwazi kanjani ukuthi abakhonjelwanga lekresida yabo?

Ngiyakusukela nje Tshitshi ngithi ngenwaye ingqondo zakho.
Posted by: masisi

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/17/06 08:02 PM

Indaba ye age iyahlupha.Mina personally angivumelani lakho ukujola lendoda encane kulami,but at the end of the day,its up to the people involved.If there is genuine respect and love for each other then I guess its ok,but its rare to find that if the age gap is too wide.
Posted by: Dabukamhlaba

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/24/06 03:47 PM

uyishaye ekhanda dabulap. phela ngokutsho kuka tshitshi nana kutsho ukuthi abama BMW abala thando besekusithi abe footrone yibo abalothando.

ngokwakudala lokhu.umntwana wabantu sengaze ayefela ekudubekeni esesaba ukuzithandela umuntu ole material.khathesi sekuqonyiswa ngazo izimota, uthando selukhulela phakathi.
Posted by: ILembe

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/25/06 01:16 AM

indaba yezintothololo zamakhehla lamasweetsixteen or imidodovu yezalukazi lamakwaitos, inxambili.

nxa useselisweetsixteen or iboyz and umakhehlani azokuhlolela athi uyakuthanda mtshele fokol ngoba this man or woman is very retrogressive socially, how can he or she be in the same line lawe alihambelani udlala imiganu yaboMahlathini laMahotela Queens wena uthwele i-ipod udlala u50c.

however nxa usilimitha or usuzalisile kwenye indawo ngibana engathi usu-open ngoba lawe usule-story to tell.

longumbono wami and pipo see thing differently, ukutshisa kwethenesi kuzwiwa ngoligqokileyo.
Posted by: NTSHONTSHO

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/25/06 01:18 PM

ha ha kuyabe kunzima ke lapho omunye e tshaya ezo mqashiyo,omunye etshaya o khendi shopu,ha ha ha ha,izalukazi kodwa zithi zithanda abafanyana ngoba bethi bale endurance abaphonguthatha ama break nxa ku busy.
Posted by: MaJamela

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/25/06 07:20 PM

Lembe, wazewangichaza shame! <img border="0" alt="[yay]" title="" src="graemlins/yay.gif" /> <img border="0" alt="[yay]" title="" src="graemlins/yay.gif" /> <img border="0" alt="[yay]" title="" src="graemlins/yay.gif" />
Posted by: ILembe

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/26/06 04:20 AM

Sisi MaJa

yikho engikubonayo, kanti ngimpunga nginje ngiyehlolela usana olule 15years ngithi siyahambelana kuyabe kukhombani ngomqondo wami kutsho ukuthi uyancipha or ngilamanga ngizama ukucindezela ingane.

Kodwa nxa sewuke wabona the other side of life hawu kumlunge nje uzithathele isalukazi kumbe ikhehla eselikhehlekile eseliledumbe lasekhanda, lizihlalele.
Posted by: soweto

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/26/06 09:02 AM

uthando aluboni,
uthando luyingozi
uthando alufakwa eskalini
ngakho ke mina ngithi lowo oziqhubela umagogo wakhe kumbe ixhegu lakhe mekeleni enze njalo inkalakatha yikuthi lokho akwenzayo kuyamthokozisa na.
Mina ngokwami omagogo phansi kwami I am sorry bandla.
Posted by: NTSHONTSHO

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/26/06 02:09 PM

ABAZIYO BATHI AKULADIBHA LAMATHOLE,ZIBHUDLUKELA ZONKE,SO EISHHHH,LOKHU OKOKUTHI UBANI UMNCANE KUMBE UMDALA KULOBANI AKUTSHO LUTHO,OMTHANDILEYO UMTHANDILE...
Posted by: Gaselomhle

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/27/06 07:05 AM

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif"> </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">ABAZIYO BATHI AKULADIBHA LAMATHOLE,ZIBHUDLUKELA ZONKE,


NtshoNtsho
Hk hk waze wangihlekisa ekuseni lokhu!!!
Posted by: Sangwelibanzi

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/27/06 10:05 PM

Hola, kanti vele sekwavelaphi ukuthi omagogo, becathamele abantwana it seems these old woman the never get satsfied. OMAGOGO LABO MKHULU ABABONANE BODWA VELE KHONA UZE UBEGOGO KUMBE MAMA,MKHULU, YINI ENGAKWENZA UZE UHAHABELE INSANE,YIBUTSHAPHA INTO EZINGALAYWANGWA. THIS TOPIC IT DOESNT REAL SUIT UMTHWAKAZI CAUSE ITS DISGUSTING IYANYANYISA. WOBA NGUMAMA KANYE ,WOBA NGUBABA KANYE. MTHWAKAZI BOMAMA LABO BABA BE SMART AND TAKE CARE OF YOURSELVES LINGAFANI LE NGULUBE(ABAMHLOPHE) LEZI EZILALANA ZODWA/ LEZIHLOBO KUMBE LABANTWANA, UNGABONA UMAMA ESELALA LOMUNTU OLEMINYAKA ENGAPHANSI KWAKHE KUTSHO UKUTHI USENGALALA LENGANE YAKHE (YIBU FEBE MPELA) LOWO KUFANELE ABUYELE KUBO AYOLAYWA.
Posted by: MaGae

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/27/06 10:22 PM

SANGWELIBANZIIII
waze wangihlekisa ke yeyiiiiiiii
Posted by: Mahlab'ayithwale

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/27/06 11:18 AM

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">posted by Sangwelibanzi
Hola, kanti vele sekwavelaphi ukuthi omagogo, becathamele abantwana it seems these old woman the never get satsfied. OMAGOGO LABO MKHULU ABABONANE BODWA VELE KHONA UZE UBEGOGO KUMBE MAMA,MKHULU, YINI ENGAKWENZA UZE UHAHABELE INSANE,YIBUTSHAPHA INTO EZINGALAYWANGWA. THIS TOPIC IT DOESNT REAL SUIT UMTHWAKAZI CAUSE ITS DISGUSTING IYANYANYISA. WOBA NGUMAMA KANYE ,WOBA NGUBABA KANYE. MTHWAKAZI BOMAMA LABO BABA BE SMART AND TAKE CARE OF YOURSELVES LINGAFANI LE NGULUBE(ABAMHLOPHE) LEZI EZILALANA ZODWA/ LEZIHLOBO KUMBE LABANTWANA, UNGABONA UMAMA ESELALA LOMUNTU OLEMINYAKA ENGAPHANSI KWAKHE KUTSHO UKUTHI USENGALALA LENGANE YAKHE (YIBU FEBE MPELA) LOWO KUFANELE ABUYELE KUBO AYOLAYWA. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Kukhona lakho okungabantwana ukuchathamela omagogo lokunye okuchathamela omhkulu,phela like i said before," teen is no longer sweet ".Nxakubakhombisa omagogo bakhona ke,uyezwa bekutshela sibili ukuthi omkhulu bayagcina hk hk hk
Posted by: Dabukamhlaba

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/27/06 04:31 PM

sangwelibanzi, lakudala kwakusenzakala lokhu.yikuthi nje abadala babekutshayela phansi bangakukhulumi siseduze.
yekela kunjalo,ozwa ezifunela umagogo wakhe olobuciko lolwazi, ngithi dibha khona, isalukazi esizifunela umfanyana ngithi dibha khona.
phela into awuyazi nxa ungakayizwa.ungangena kanye kuphela siyabona sungasaphumi.
yekela ziborome kuphela wena....
Posted by: Nomangqika

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/27/06 04:50 PM

hk hk hk hk asazi mina ngifuna okuyi boyz hk hk and mina ngingumagogo ole 45 so lina majahana amancane ake lithi msiii hk hk
Posted by: Dokotela

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/28/06 09:32 AM

Nomaqgika, Psiii!!

Zalabantu ziyebantwini, akuntombi yagan' inyamazana.
Ngicela umlilo - online.
Posted by: Mangethe

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/28/06 10:29 PM

Sizakubophisa Nomangqika.Kulomthetho okuthiwa yi
child-abuse.Wehlisel'umntwana i g-string. Kungasenani ke dade,uyisheve,abafana bangaze bagijima enkotheni.hk hk hhk hk.
Posted by: Nomangqika

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/28/06 10:41 PM

wuuuuuuuuu hk hk mangethe so uleziga yini ke leyo hk hk hk sungethusile shame hk hk hk hayi boooo mayuyu hk hk asazi shame ezakho hk hk
Posted by: Mangethe

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/28/06 12:47 PM

Uligwala. Akulanto eyethusayo lapha. <img border="0" alt="[yay]" title="" src="graemlins/yay.gif" />
Posted by: Nomangqika

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/28/06 01:08 PM

hk hk hk DOC umlilo suwutholile ulemalini ebanga hk hk and what car are driving hk hk tshela mina kumele ngiqale ngazi lokho hk hk, hantsho uyazi thina omama ungathela ipetro ebhavini sibuya sifake ku 100km\h hk hk awusatshongo ukuthi wena ungu sweetie 15 or 16 hk hk
Posted by: MaGae

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/28/06 04:01 PM

ha ha ha ngaze ngalavuka ke mina ha ha salukazi NOMANGQIKA!!!!!!! ukuzi advertise ke magogo awusakhangeleki yini usuzithengisa online hk hk hk hk GEGEDEKIYANIIIIIII mina okaGAGIEEEEEEE umazakhela ongaithengisiyo njengabanye <img border="0" alt="[Grin]" title="" src="graemlins/grin15.gif" /> <img border="0" alt="[Grin]" title="" src="graemlins/grin15.gif" /> <img border="0" alt="[Grin]" title="" src="graemlins/grin15.gif" />

MANGETHE
ha ha nikisi mani ungenzi so isalukazi senkosiiiiiiiiii ha ha ha
Posted by: MBIZO

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/29/06 01:32 AM

Doc ,

Yeqa uyephezu ,ubuye utshaye phansi ........wale uthi " Dudlu ntombazana ongela nkomo uyayidla inyama longela bhasikiti uyangena emarketi" .... hk hk hk .

khona la ebulenjini .
Posted by: Mangethe

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/29/06 07:09 AM

Gagis'omhle,eyakho layo ayithengwe online. Usameleni? Siyimelele ngamehl'abomvu.
Posted by: Dabukamhlaba

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/29/06 11:48 AM

doc,
phela izalukazi uyazi ukuthi zizanywa njani.uyathi "gegelagege, zal'abantu ziyebantwini" utshaye phansi ngedolo uhle uthi "awu smomondiya sami, siwiji esingapheliyo ubunandi, sondela kimi"

uzasibona sesimoyizela kuphela wena esimagogo hk hk hk uzwe sesisithi "mmmm wena ungikhumbuza u sa-mntwana engiquntisa amahlamvu omtshekisane"

hk k hk hk
Posted by: Nomangqika

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/29/06 05:49 PM

mmhhhh asazi ha ha ha sewake wakuzama yini lokho okhuluma ngakho mnumzana ha ha asazi shame
Posted by: Mahlab'ayithwale

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/29/06 10:44 PM

Mina vele ngidinga nje ole 40 and above labo ngibona kungani bayagcina sibili,sengidingiwe ngalabo engathi mina they no longer sweet ''teens'' .So nje ongabe eleminyaka leyo nje keze angesabi hk
Posted by: Dokotela

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 03/30/06 08:30 AM

Nomaqgika, Ngabe ubuze wathi zingaki engizi tshayelayo imoto, kumbe ukuthi ngilama investment aphi. Mina ngiphethe ivesi labo tsiba, kodwa ngiphila ngesintu.

Ngizazithenga inkomo ku ebay.com, kumbe ku buy.com ngizi thumele online. Ngicela abadala bangi thumele i attachment etshengisa ukuthi bafuna malini, i prefer ukuthi basebenzise i Excel kumbe i Word.

Kummele sizale ingane online ngali nxumanxumane yobulembu, awuboni njalo?
Posted by: sitshebo

Re: How do you view relationships between older me - 06/13/07 03:44 PM

madoda bengilandela indaba yenu lapha..mina l think 5 years age difference maybe fine but anything higher than that maybe a problem..mina owami umfazi iz 12 years yunger than me but ngilenhloni mbijana nxa ngihamba laye..abantu bayabe besikhangela omunye waze wangibuza ukuthi kanti ngihamba lomtanami yini..kwangiyangisa heavy khonokhu
Posted by: Gaselomhle

Re: How do you view relationships between older me - 06/14/07 10:05 AM

Ngicela yena.
Posted by: abafokazi

Re: How do you view relationships between older me - 06/18/07 07:14 AM

Lami ndoda unganginika yena, mina kungangilungela
Posted by: Meli Omuhle

Re: How do you view relationships between older me - 06/18/07 11:54 AM

Indaba yokuthatha isintwana esincazana kulawe akusinto embi ngitsholakancane. Okhokho nxa lingakhangela babethatha sebekhulile lokhu kwakubenza bathole isikhathi eseneleyo sokufunda ngezokuphathwa komuzi. Babethi mabethatha kubeyintombazana yakozibanya banyana,kutshiyane sibili ngobabethi osisi bayaphangisa ukuluphala phela. Njalo imiziyabo yayiba lesithunzi lobaba ehlonitshwa langekhaya ngobaphela engalingani lomama, hatshi lokhu okwanamuhla esengibizwa ngo Meli ngekhaya ngobaphela silingana lomama. Kuhle nxa sewathatha kudala, kodwake uma ungekathathi njalo ungothanda ukuhlonitshwa la ngekhaya, dinga omncane kumbe ngeminya elitshumi lambili. Uzakuba le control phela lapha ngekhaya. Akelikhangele linto, obaba badalwa baphiwa ukufuna ukuhlonitshwa kuphela, omama labo ngabafuna ukuthandwa kuphela. Nxa ungubaba owesintwana engakaze wakubuza ukuthi usangithanda na, ngempela izinto ziyabe zingamanga kuhle. Omama labo uyezwa obaba sebethi kanti ngokabani lumuzi. Ngilamanga yini?
Posted by: sitshebo

Re: How do you view relationships between older me - 06/18/07 05:57 PM

aah mfanekhaya ugangile hayikhona..ufuna umfazi wami mina ngisalee sengizekani?
Posted by: Gaselomhle

Re: How do you view relationships between older me - 06/19/07 02:42 PM

Hanti ucitshe akuyangise kancane, ngipha ngiyenika umalumami odinga umlibazisi. Wena yu can pick a new "simomotshwane" of yo age.
Posted by: Ntombiyelanga

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 01/04/08 12:23 AM

You guys, likelacabanga ukuthi kubuhlungu kanganani ukuba le `expiration date`? Let` s not forget i `price tag` yamalobolo. Nxa umfazi engasatshadanga, she` s off the shelf. Umbuzo wam wokucina yikuthi, does this so-called age difference apply, nxa umfazi ekhanya emncane kule age yakhe? Ngiyabuza ngoba, ngile24, kodwa amadoda amanengi nxa bengiqomisa, bacabanga ukuthi ngile minyaka from 16 to 18?
Posted by: Vodloza_baba

Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa? - 07/21/08 01:40 PM

Isinu sithi inhliziyo kayiphalewa kodwa ukunye kumele umuntu abe yindoda and get full control of the relationship madoda but uma ujola lomagriza uzabe ekucontroller and u lose ivalue yakho as a man