To those who think its wise ukumithisa abeTshabi be warned. Labobantwana elazabazala labe Tshabi will be Tshabis full time. they will speak their mothers languages, practice i-culture yabonina and have a strong affiliation for their malumes and mayininis. By the way umthetho kaMgakla awukuvumeli ukuthi umthathe umntwana as long as he/she is a minor. Kumele abelonina, except if you prove beyond reasonable doubt ukuthi you deserve to have the child eg if the child is subject to abuse nxa esesandleni sikanina. Akungitshele keMahlabayithwale ukuthi umntanakho lowo uzabaliNdebele kukuphi ngaphandle kwegazi lesibongo sakho. And nxa lingabazi abeTshabi, uzahoqa ngemeyintenensi ezingazwisisekiyo. Lanxa usulomuzi wakho kuyabuya okuliTshabikazi kuzebika lokhu lalokhuya okungapheliyo, and when she comes she makes sure that she leaves you embarrased. At times she can even come to your work place and at the top of her voice start airing her invalid grievances. At times she can even bring esinina, laso siyabe sibhizi sincedisana lomntanaso. Ha ha, alikwazi okungabantu lokhu. Uyaba yisichaka sabo, lonkosikazi ngekhaya acine eswela injabulo.
But tell me what do you people lose lingatshiyana labo? Nxa kuyikuthi uJoshua Nkomo watshiya ethe dlanini labo ukuze liba nqobe, did he sound like he was saying dlanini into zabantwababo?
Before you embark on this one, guys you better count the cost.
