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kengibuze, is it okay to go out with other nations ezilong as kukasishona.into engenza ngibuze yikuthi one can be someplace where they are no ndebele guys <img border="0" alt="" title="" src="graemlins/banghead.gif" />

Its been a long time since we have seen three posts from odade elandelana kanje. Amhlophe kuyajabulisa ukubona i-participation enje!

Kumbuzo wakho dade Nozithelo mina angiboni nkinga noma uhamba lobani. I think kuyangawe dade, if you feel for someone ngokwami angila nkinga, injabulo yakho iqakathekile dade. Abanye bayatsho ukuthi vele iTshabi bayenyanya, period. The main message is ukuzigqaja ngobuntu benu kuqakathekile njalo kuletha isithunzi kithi sonke.
At the end of the day the choice is yours dade, that I must stress!
Ngikufisela inhlanhla enhle ntombi yakithi

Bantu benkosi,sengatsho kanengi njalo ngizaphinda futhi, singakhuluma size sigobe umlomo nothing will change the realities of this crazy wide world are distinctively different from our aspirations and desire.

we can scream until our lungs drop out but who cares , ; is a relationship between two individuals governed by racial and tribal dispensations ?
In all honest, people fall in love with their hearts and emotions not on tribal bases.lam a proud mthwakazian but that doesnt necesarrill blind me from observing the obvious.
Thina ngaphe ezimba, sihlala sibatshadisile njalo nje kakusonto which people can frown upon but can only wish for the best.

litsho njalo ngoba likhona ngapho kodiaspora,kodwa yini elithi nxa lifika e harare international airport lisikhemuze isishona liguqa ku customs dpt,so ndoda nxa usehluleka ukuziba kubodade besintwini ngoba ulama complexies akho then ndaba kayena, ngoba nothing will change for the sake of triumphing your tribal objectives
hantsho we are always championing global diversity? yibo phela i diversity yakhona phela at national level
Honestly mthwakazi, l used to be of the same school of thinking as some of you guys but the very reality of events have sobered me to look at life without any tribally prejudiced lenses
ngiyabonga .

Mina dade ngizothi muhle kakhulu umbono kaMjaji kodwa ngizabuya ngigcizelele ukuthi into eqakathekileyo njalo yikukhuthaza abantu ukuthi ma engowesintwini kuhle ukuthi akhonjwe khona ukwenzela ukuthi lingahlukani ma selisiya emasikweni.

Thina dade sisekudeni lasekhaya kodwa masesifuna impande siyayazi iDHL.Ngakho ma usekudeni ungavakatshela kumthwakazi uzoze ulithole ijaha eligeza ngochago lesintwini.Lingalahli ithemba bodade agcwele amajaha akomthwakazi mhlaba wonke.
loba OKAMJAJI ethi hamba la inhliziyo yakho ethi hamba khona mina ngithi esitshoneni asiyiphikiseni kancane ngoba ikulahlela esuweji.

ININA ma kukusebenzela mntakamama kuhle kodwa thina omkhize sizavala eyethu sife ngalokho esiziqaja ngakho.Imbono ayifani.

Kodwa phela kuthiwa amajaha esintwini liyazenza yikho odade belibalekela besiya empumalanga. INdetshu lomele futhi bathi lijahe below the belt, iromance du. Labana bakutshengisumhlaba azaphosakuthengele lelakho ilanga. Utatazela lapha uzubonuthando luhamba ngenyawo. Yikho okuhuga odade. Kuthiwomunyu sisi owayekhombiNdetshu esehawukela amafulawuzi kavalentina wathi ubuza ijaha lathi "uyahlanya ufuna ngidlalisimali ngikuthengela iflawuzi elifileyo ubusulifake manzini ukuthi liphile one week, uphambene"

ngiyabonga bantwana benkosi likhulumile ngethemba olendlebe uzwile,abadala babevele bengayifuni into yokuthatha abetshabi ngitsho lanini kodwa bekutholakala here and there,but ukuthatha emalawi or zambian babengasoli ,one brother said the way our mothers brought us up affects the way we treat you ladies leli liqiniso jaha lakithi lowo who denies that our background affects the way we relate kangazi ufuna simfundise njani ,all that we are is our background so lesiphatho lesi oyezi labo noe abathi kabasiboni kungabe kulento ku upbringing yethu as ndebele man which makes us fall short of our ladies' expectations ,yikho ulobengula ubethe sicela lisitshele the bad tendencies we display ezenza licine likhomba amashona lithi balothando ,kambe ukhombe izolo dade sokuthiwa 'mukadzi wangu' futhi the reason which belidlala its the way thina esintwini react to inkazana esiwonakele(pregnant) esishoneni they just say "anomuroora chete or else panofa munu" but ngakini wena lami lenzani when your sister was spoiled by whoever? so playing with ndebele girls carries no threat ,even us ndebele guys know it ungalimithisa itshona usuthethe kuphela ,this does not mean shona girls do not sleep around they do but kadlalelwa umuntu wakhona ,phela bona umuthi kabawesabi bayakuloya emini,liyazi phela bona babengela makhosi vele, but they followed the strongest magician/medium ,so pliz bodade help us so we can help each other sizafunda lathi sifundise labasakhulayo ukuthi intombi yesintwini iphathwa njani

ngezwa omunye udade wasetshabi kwelinye ilanga ethi yena iloba abesintwini bengelayo ilomensi kodwa umdlalo bawutshaya beze bawulume langamazinyo.Watsho ukuthi abakubo ukufaka elibomvu umvula usugwcele.

Omama balesisindo ekwakheni imuli iloba thina siyiphethe imizi ngakho bodade dingani insizwa zakwaMthwakazi okunengi lizozilungisela.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by inina:
<strong> In all honest, people fall in love with their hearts and emotions not on tribal bases.lam a proud mthwakazian but that doesnt necesarrill blind me from observing the obvious.
Thina ngaphe ezimba, sihlala sibatshadisile njalo nje kakusonto which people can frown upon but can only wish for the best.</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Ntombendala lapha lokhu kuzwakala njengekhaphithuleshini. Kambe singakhuthazana ukuthi silengise izinhliziyo zethu sibhidliza isizwe? Isitadi sakho leso sokubatshadisa asiphelelanga, bekumele udlulele phambidlana usitshengise obala ukuthi leyomitshado ayipheleli emaholu ingakayifika endlini.

<strong> </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">litsho njalo ngoba likhona ngapho kodiaspora,kodwa yini elithi nxa lifika e harare international airport lisikhemuze isishona liguqa ku customs dpt,so ndoda nxa usehluleka ukuziba kubodade besintwini ngoba ulama complexies akho then ndaba kayena,</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Lapha njalo utshengise izibindi lamaphaphu enyongo ntombi. Ukuba se diyasipola lothando kungenelana kanjani? Ule evidensi na lalokho okutshoyo ngabantu abasediyasipola ukuthi bafikela ehalale njalo bafike bakilize ngesitshabi? Ama swiphingi sitatimende anje dade ayalulaza izimvo zakho. Asuke atshengise isabhujekithivithi ehlangene lomona.

<strong> </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">ngoba nothing will change for the sake of triumphing your tribal objectives
hantsho we are always championing global diversity?</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Lapha ke ubuzikhulumela wedwa kumbe ubukhuluma umele uMthwakazi? Yona gilobhali dayivesithi le oyitshoyo uyizwisise ukuthi ithi abantu belahle ubuntu babo kumbe babhidlize izizwe zabo na? Nxa kunjalo ngibona angani akula obhujekithivithi engxoxweni yakho le.

<strong> </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Honestly mthwakazi, l used to be of the same school of thinking as some of you guys but the very reality of events have sobered me to look at life without any tribally prejudiced lenses
ngiyabonga . </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Lapha ke uhle wagenquka watshaya amangqetshane ngekhaphithuleshini. Unanzelele kodwa ukuthi lokhu okuthi yukuba sobha kwakho kungakhangeleka njengokudakwa. Iphilijudasi le okhuluma ngayo kwabanye lakuwe izihlalele ikakhulu kwabasediyasipola.

Ngiyaqeda, ngithi nxa onke amanina akoMthwakazi eselemibono enjengale kumbe eselenhliziyo ezilengele phandle ngale indlela, hawu suka madoda, safa satshabalala isizwe! Ningang'xoshi, ngizazihambela.

OZITHEMBAYO mina ngibona sengathi amaNdebele awomelanga baqakathekisa ikakhulu ukuthi imuli ilale idlile.kanti lokhu akusiyinto enhle zihlobo na?Inkinga nje esokhona yikuthi abantu sebephangwa yinto zomhlaba.Inotho yesiko lethu yizifuyo imali sokungumceciso nje kuphela.

Ngilokhokho wami ole 109 years umkakhe ubhubhe ele 95years bahlala bonke okwamatshumi ayisikhombisa abazange behlukane iloba basebekhumiswa itshukela.thina singehlulwa yimi.asibekeni amabhayisikili masenelisa inyawo ezilula (imota) kodwa isintu lamasiko singawalahli.