Inkundla Forums Inkundla (General) eZothamlilo Oral sex

Heloo people of umtwakazi mina bengibuza since anal sex is out of the agenda completely wat about iOral sex because its sumthing you both do to each other pleaser each other however its thru umlomo n perhaps izanhla...experts say its gud ngoba u get to explore you wife's body n bring her to another level and you explore your husband too.
Manje ngicela ukubuza nithini ngayo lendaba?

Eeeh, thina njengoMthwakazi ngomdabuko wethu asikhului ngezocansi enkundleni. Ukwenziwa ngabantu ababili abavuyelweyo (ngomtshado) ekamelweni labo asikuchayi ebandla. Nxa sekufanele asicubunguli abakwenzayo siphonguthi bembatha bonke sibe sesiqedile. Okunengi kuphakathi kwababili.

initially sex was for procreation but as a consequence of mordernisation, it has evolved beyond thinkable propotions.now there is anal sex,oral sex, masturbation, vaginal sex, "protected" sex, premarital sex etc nothing is out of the question, it dependes on who you are!!they all serve the same purpose, relieving sexual pressure through pleasure.
your experts are still stuck in the dark ages!! they think sex is exclusive to heterosexual couples! gays can also have oral sex just like "straight" people can have anal sex!

izitabane yizinja zabantu kufana labetshabe , yidoti konke

Mpume...I do not think that this forum is the rightful place to discuss sexual activities you put across. There is a possibility that you could be "creative in bed" or want to be creative....but hey...grow up, keep that to yourself. There are values of UBUNTU that we have to maintain to protect our integrity and Im sure that you and your partner are free to do any sexual activity that provides both of you maximum satisfaction without our knowledge. We have important issues to solve and this site does not want to resemble any pornographic sites on the Net. We have to constantly remind ourselves of a need to RESPECT each other. Its always starts by SELF RESPECT.

Personally, I have never had a friend male or female, white or black who has discussed or told me of his / her favourite sexual position with his / her partner. Normal people dont discuss such things. No normal guy or girl will discuss details of their sexual encounters with whoever. Its taboo. Lokhu okubeke lapha yihlazo mfowethu...kwesule. Ayikho nje nhloboni inhlonipho kulesi sihloko. Sesiyizinja yini zona eziphinganayo? Sex is good but not hear. Eyoncansi cha....ngeke siyixoxe nomuntu wonke wonke.

I take a swipe at the moderators of this site for sleeping at the wheel like the USA's Central Bank Chiefs. The moderators were very active and sensitive to issues raised in this site in the past hence the quality of debate and topics was brilliant. Please moderators, guide this site or else you have egg on your faces when people post just anything that is socially unacceptable. The idea of this site was a brilliant one and its core values must be protected. Let us not hide behind excuses of "freedom of speech" that we know does not exist.

ngiyabonga ... ngiyabona ukuthi akusimi ngedwa intandane yeqiniso. ama moderators lawa agijimela ama soft targets afana lami ngoba mina ngithethisa abetshabe labathengisi oMuntongelakudla labo Jazi kodwa abantu abalenhlamba abakhuluma amanyala njengoMpumelelo bayabayekela manje yinto enjani leyo....

Hk hk hk hk yeyi!Kanti vele ukwenyanya eminye imhlobo yabantu lanxa izizatho zangakhona zingagoqeli bonke kwenzelwani?Bakithi...asihlonipheni abanye ukuze lathi sibe ngabantu abahloniphekayo.

Bongani

hk hk hk hk hk ngiyavula uyavala, yint' enjani leyo?

Baka Mthwakazi, ngiyalizwa, kodwa ngiletha umqondo owehlukene kancane. Kanti yindaba sifihla amakhanda etshebetshebeni njenge ntshe? Mina ngikholelwa ekutheni asixoxeni ngezinto that are within the societies esesikuzo. We cannot escape them sithi thina singathula, they will pass by phezu kwamakhanda ethu kusitshiye ngaphandle. Never, sesiphakathi kwakho, let's talk about it. Doing it is then left to abantu nxa sebezivalele ezindlini zabo

Kanti ukuganga ngokwani? Uthi ligange alizazi yini. Lingafuni ukungcolisa ingqondo zethu thina abamsulwa. Selibamba omama ngemilomo?

with all due respect i don't think we will advance into the 21st century if people like you continue to pull us into the dark ages> what i merely stated were facts/reality. i have no apology for that. thankfully the moderator thought likewise. we have to discuss these issues becoz they are happening right in front of our noses.
personally, i hate hypocrites, people who claim ubutabane is "evil"/ "tshabian" whilst they are muted on fornication/incest/masturbation/ etc. these evil deeds belong to the same basket! they are unnatural.the same also does for "protected" sex! how came someone have "protected" sex with his/her spouse?isn't that accepting/rubberstamping infidelity/sexual immorality which results in GOD punishing the whole society as HE is a mass punisher? i have heard that "family planning" excuse for condom usage, but didn't God say zalani lande?what is the difference between playing God by preventing conception; using condoms or by having anal sex or oral sex or same sex or abortion or "birth control" pills?
we shouldn't hide under "inhlonipho" in our quest to sensor free constructive speech!!