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Pinky07
Kunjani ke Pinky07. Ngithemba usaphilile njengoba nje udubo okhalangalo lungakhombi okunengi kodwa lokhu okulobe ngaphezudlwana.
Ngilethemba njalo ukuthi okubuzayo udinga ulwazi hatshi okunenginengi.
Into enjengobutabane kwejayelekile ukuthi uzwe abantu bekhuluma ngayo here and there once in a while. Asinto ehlabusayo okokuthi ungayithola isemlonyeni yabantu nsuku zonke. Kodwa ukutholakala iyatholakala, ngitsho labo ohulumeni abehlukeneyo ungabezwa bexoxa ngayo, abanye bethi balamalungelo laba abanje, abanye njalo bethi emazweni abo never never never. It is indeed illegal in some quarters. It is an old age thing that is increasingly getting promoted with deteriorating standards and the prevalence of loose morals. Yimibono yami keleyi.

Ngike ngathi ngizwe ukuthi abanye bona batheni phambi kwami. Ngizathi ngizwe njalo ukuthi abanye bazothini ngemva kwami.
Love-making was never a public issue. It will never be. However, as you may know, some believe it is modern to publicise it. To me it is not to be, this includes everything about it, the positions, manouvers and lot, may be ungaya kubabakazi or such like, njalo ensitha lingu two or so. UMZALI ANGEKE AKUFUNDISE LENTO. With the breakdown of family-life due to mobility of labour and such, these days ngangizwe abanye bekhuluma ngama-mentor.Bengafundisa ke labo laba. Lokhu okokuthi singahlaziywa nje lindaba phakathi komphakathi, hatshi kwethu akwenziwa lokhu.

I cant get this round my head when some say if we dont discuss oral ... we are being dragged back to dark ages. How is this advancement, to me this is plain perversion. I mean to do it is a personal choice and private matter. To discuss it in public carries some degree of deviancy. We run the risk of amusing sexual deviants, of being groomed and abused psychological and emotional by sexual perverts who may have crept in unawares to this site. It would be as good as upholding the degrading of morals in our society.
It is part of our heritage as Africans to uphold good morals, to respect, to treat every muntomdala as your parent, to entertain or to refresh isihambi. Isihambi ma sisemangweni singene nje ensimini sibulale ikhabe sizidlele nje singafihli amagebhezi, amantombazana eziphathe ngesimilo, amajaha ethule imikhombandlela ma efika la okulabadala khona. All this is good,it can not be bought from any shop, not even in Holywood but sikwamukele ezandleni zabo gogo labo khulu free of charge.
Kukanti ma utshiseka kangako ungahlalisana logogo ngemva kwendlu umbuze ngayo leyo oral whatever, hatshi lihlezi emlilweni lendlu yonke.
Kumele sizethese umlandu enkundleni, ngoba ingeyethu, singameli osibalukhulu ukuthi basiqondise, kumele siqhubeke nsukuzonke ngenkulumo ezizothile. Let each one police themself. YIMIBONO NJALO. Thank you

There is nothing wrong ngeOral sex, into edingakalayo yikuhlanzeka nje kuphela. Uma usazi ukuthi you will do it make sure ukuthi ugezile loma ozokwenza laye ugezile. Yinto enhle kakhulu i oral sex. Loma uyenza ngomlomo loma ngeminwe kuyafana yinto enhle kakhulu njalo akekho ongayenzi lento. I am not sure nge anal sex, i have my reservations ngayo, kodwa angingeke ngibagcone abayenzayo uma bevumelene. I am 100% against homosexuality, kodwa angiboni ukuthi i anal sex iyafana lobutabane, abanye bathi buqala kanjalo ubutane, kodwa angikholwa ukuthi kuqinisekile lokhu.

Sakubona Mthwakazi, madoda lami kangiboni bubi ngaloludaba,njalo akula bubi ngokuhlaziya lolu daba yiwo phela umhlaba esesiphila kuwo. ukutshaya inja sifihla umphini akusikho,kasinanzeleleni ukuthi impilo iyaguquka,ngakho mina ngokwami ngithi ubutabane,oral sex phansi ngakho kodwa ngiyazi ukuthi buyinto ekhona

Heyi mfethu angibonge indlela obeke ngayo lapha. Uyishaye ekhaleni. Sibhekane nama sexual pervets. A less sophisticated mind speaks about dark ages as if nothing beneficial to society happened during that period . All eras are a progression of knowledge and some eras have witnessed more knowledge production than others. The 21 st century that Mpume talks about is related to the dark ages that he fears contaminates my thinking.

Technology made in the 21 st century is borrowing heavily on so called dark ages technology. An example: the body panels of the Air Bus A380 and the oldest of Bows that were made from two types of materials. Archeologists prove that people from the past were advanced technologically and new knowledge creation has been receding with increases in centuries. Mpume, please dont pick American buzz words without understanding them.

Mpume - our great grand parents you may easily lump into the dark ages were sophisticated in their skills and could mine and smelt iron and steel - something that you may not know. They bred (Genetics for your ears) Nguni cattle - one of the best breeds of cattle on earth. They did more. They taught us values zo BUNTU okuyizona esiphila ngazo - and we are proud of that. It is the violation of our values and economic systems that see us engulfed in HIV & AIDS, hunger,etc and yet we call it modernity. What garbage. Eyocansi lapha - cha. Azihlonishwe izitho zabantu. Abantu kabazenzele imfihlo zabo ezindlini zabo. Just try to post your contribution ngesintu and see how horrible it sounds.

And Oh...the dark ages is no longer used as a term by modern historians and check for Petrarch - an Italian who first used the term in reference to criticism of latin literature. Ngiyagcizelea ukuthi kufanele sizazi ukuthi singobani sizinukeni amakhwapha - yinhlonipho leyo. Uma bekhona abesifazane nabesilisa phakathi kwethu abayizitabane, akukho esingakwenza kubona ngoba kungekho ogunyaziwe ukuthi enze intando yakhe ngempilo yomunye umuntu. Yizidalwa nje zika Nkulunkulu...siyabahlonipha abafowethu nawosisi. Ngeke sihlale sihlaziye emphakathini onjenganalo nge Anal Sex leyo.....yihlazo nje. Yihlazo. Where is development in that? What value are you adding on that? This is lunacy and for the REAL MATLANDERS...if we go along such topics.....Muntongenakudla's prophecy that IPHUPHO lakwa Mthwakazi lokwakha isizwe ngeke lize lifezeke....would soon become a reality. Some of us may not have read that strong statement from Muntongenakudla but it calls into question the strategies being pursued, coordination that seems non - existant and the quality of debate. If we devote our energies to such filthy topics, we are making a mokery of the sufferings of our people. Some people will find a nice term for this site.

Those interested in that discussion of anal sex must use their proper names on this post and stop calling themselves psuedo names. Lokhu senzela ukuthi onina nabo yise nawo gogo babo bafunde into abaziphanyeka emphakathini. Look, they dont even have the balls to do that. So what are you afraid of?

Let us be focussed. What brand are we? What is our competence? Can researchers find something of value from our site or is it just a damb squib?

why don't you accept that you are clinging to the glory days of UBUNTU and cultural conservertism which have long gone by? if you are a citizen who still habours the possibility such a utopia in the 21st century, i am afraid you will follow the dinausors and dodo's into extiction. times have changed mthwakazi omuhle, community rights have given way to individual rights. political independence came with sexual independence, nowadays people do whatever they want with whoever is willing(sometimes even with those who are not!!).
we as umthwakazi should take the lead and constructively debate the sexual tsunami facing us. if you are against discussing it in the general anonymity of cyberspace, i wonder how you will discuss it with your sexually active 11 year old daughter/niece, assuming you are not in denial about her sexual gymnastics!
my reference to the dark ages has nothing to do with despising great inventions which happened during that period or our ancestors living during those times,it was a simple symbolic reference to the times when the romans monopolised the flawed-interpretation and maintained an information black out of the bible: the same way you are into the monopolisation of sexual discussions(by elders) and the maintainence of an sexual information black outs by arguing"lets not discuss this things emphakathini, kuyazila, akukhombisi inhlonipho etc"
down with fornicators perverts, peodophiles,adulters,incest, homosexuals,bisexuals,oral sex, "protected" sex,artificial birth control, masturbation, spiritual wives/husbands and related sexual immorality.
forward with raw unprotected sex between a faithful married man and his faithful wife/wives.
forward with further public unsensored debate!!

Pinkie mtnwana wasekhaya, umbuzo wakho muhle kakhulu,Angithi vele isiNdebele sethu sithi sitshukelwa ebandla!!!Usuyibekile induku, Mina iOral sex ngiyibona kuyinto enhle kakhulu mangabe niyavumelana nepatner yakhokodwa ihygene should always come 1st njengoba ubesishilo omunye umfowethu. I oral sex ngenye yendla ezenza ucansi lubenohlonzi and it also strengthens relationships.If we dont discuss such things sizohlala sisebumnyameni or your patner oyoze athi uyazintshontsha, adiscover lezizinto ngaphandle angeke usamkhona futhi, that affects amarelationship. khonala enkundleni yiyona ndawo esingafundisana khona njalo sibonisane indlela, were else can we be free to discuss such issues?

Mpumelelo mfowethu, uyalibeka iqiniso njengoba linjalo. Esikucela kuwe mfowethu yikuba uzwisise ukuthi ukuhlangana kwababili, owesilisa lowesifazane emacansini akusi kudla komphakathi. Ngokwababili kutshiye kunjalo. Discussing sex in public will not bring any gain to us as a society. So pliz lets cut it off.

Nxa ekhona ongasuthisekiyo ngomunye wakhe, bakhona obabakazi et al. basebenziseni. asingabi ngothathekile. kukhona ye esingakulandela oku modern kodwa isiko lethu asingalilahli kakhulu.

Ngiyabonga

Why is sex off topic .. it looks like there are people here that would like to dictate what we should discuss.(HITLERS)
Most of you guys pretend like we still live in the village and we still have the support structure that was there during Lobengula's time - we dont have the support system and we are not in the village , we are far from home and have lived and married different people - that being said if any one does not like the sex topics do not reply and dont read
for some of us Pervets that like discussing sex we will be here and exchange ideas and laugh and enjoy .