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#15511 - 11/07/03 01:42 AM
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Nduna
Registered: 05/08/03
Posts: 304
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If the girl is older especially in thge western world she would have failed to find someone of her age-group and time would be running out.However may i say i personnally do not see anything wrong with any age gaps.Uthando lokuhlonipha umuntu yikho okunqobayo.
If you look at it from the point of who is gaining what and things like that then rest assured that it will all end in tears.Mtshele umfana omncane kulawe ukuthi wena ucabangani njalo uhloseni ngokumkhomba sometimes ukuba-serious from the start kuyanceda.Of cause a very large age gap will always be a factor but as long as the two of you understand it and are happy fine.Nxa usubone okumafana kwesintwini ongakuthanda ukuphathe sharp go for it.
Entweni ezinje ungaba lenhloni ngokwakho.
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#15513 - 11/08/03 02:07 AM
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Sikhulu
Registered: 05/01/03
Posts: 225
Loc: emqansweni wakofambeki
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umuntu kufanele ayenze akufunayo,kulabantu engibaziyo where the guy is 10-12 older or vice-versa amongst blacks or whites couples and having long lasting relationships.whom u fall in love has no formula as long as there is :
trust,love,not taking each other for granted,gud communication,less inteference from third parties in most cases abantu abakutshelela eceleni,quality time,respect btwn the couple.wat i have written a few pointers and if u want 2 subtract or add a few issues u are welcome.
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#15514 - 11/08/03 06:07 PM
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Mafikizolo
Registered: 09/28/03
Posts: 46
Loc: MONTREAL
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Pliz allow me to make my contribution. Cultural it is taboo for a teen-AGER to marry or go out with a mature lady. Those who find themselves in that situation would naturally try to justify they case by saying love is the most important thing. Remember those people who came out with that culture were not stupid. We all know what problems that gives to our families (especially our mothers and sisters) and friends.
l wanna say to those teen-AGERS that justify their act by saying, "age ain't nothing but a number ", watch out becoz you are in a deep SLUMBER. l say, look in deep. Most of these mature ladies have gone thru many bad experiences and as a result they know what to do to keep a teen-AGER hubby or BOY-friend in their arms. We all know what that can entail. If the mature lady has kids it's even worse becoz the kidz find it hard to say dad or step-dad to a teen-AGER.
In the end no matter what we say a teen-AGER is free to marry or go out with a mature lady irregardless of age.
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#15516 - 11/12/03 10:39 AM
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Mafikizolo
Registered: 11/12/03
Posts: 40
Loc: harare
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Indaba siyayizwa but let me bring in some psychology there, in terms of maturity a girl of 18 years will match a man of 23 so lets take from there.Mina ngithi for amadoda kuyakhuthazeka ukuthi bathathe abafazi abancane kulabo ngeminyaka ngoba abafazi baguga masinya and also ubufazi bomfazi ngaphandle kwenhliziyo yisimo somzimba, ngokunjalo sibheke ukuthi uyaphanga aguge ngithi kungcono nxa indoda ithethe umfazi oncane kulayo.Eyokuthi umfazi abemdala liphutha okungamelanga lenziwa ngoba lowo mfazi usuka akuthathe njengomntanakhe njalo lemizi enjalo ilihlazo ngokunjalo kayihlali isikhathi esilengqondo leyo ndoda encane ingakadinwa...
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#15519 - 11/12/03 11:42 AM
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Nduna
Registered: 10/23/03
Posts: 406
Loc: I've never been to Heaven
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Bakwethu, kulezi ndaba, umfazi must be half imnyaka yendoda plus 7. Ngakho, indoda eleminyaka eyi 32, kumele ithathe untombazane ole 23, at least.
Indoda ingathatha umama abatshiyana ngeminyaka embalwa, kubba loku delelana ngoba bafana lomuntu lo mfowabo.
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#15520 - 11/12/03 11:46 AM
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Nduna
Registered: 10/23/03
Posts: 406
Loc: I've never been to Heaven
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*23 at most. uxolo bakwethu.
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#15525 - 11/13/03 02:20 AM
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Mafikizolo
Registered: 10/01/03
Posts: 35
Loc: TORONTO
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well majida lendaba ye-age ibucayi kayifuni kuphathwa dedengu. odade baphanga bakhule kulathi liqiniso lelo, kodwa zikhona izizatho ezingenza lithathane lanxa esekhulile. lezo asingeke sazibetha ngoba sehlukene. labodade kunjalo abadala bazokudina ngesidala sabo ucine usuhlanya ngomfana wengadi kumbe owenkomo then what's the point? thathana lomthandayo.
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#15526 - 11/13/03 09:31 AM
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Mafikizolo
Registered: 11/12/03
Posts: 40
Loc: harare
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uthando uma sithi luyazikhethela kumbe lumila lapho oluthande khona angazi ukuthi leyo siyibona kanjani endabeni zeminyaka.
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#15527 - 11/13/03 05:42 PM
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Ngqwele
Registered: 10/25/03
Posts: 150
Loc: uk
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Ekuhle bobaba.Hmm udaba lolu olulapha lunzima.Ngitsho ngoba phela abantu sitshiyene, amasiko ethu njalo abanye bewalandela abnye hatshi.So kusiya ngenjongo yomuntu , ngoba in most cases u can tell ukuthi lomuntu she's older or younger.Anyway i think ngensukwana zokuhlangana its natural to ask each other yr ages.Unlees its love at first sight ,(usually its lust) then uyabe ungakazi and definetely not head over heals on the first date!So that gives each one to weigh their options and decide ukuthi yikho na engikufunayo or not.If u carry on then good luck and hope it works.Phela we know ukuthi akulamuntu owaqomisa elengqondo yokuthi the first person i fall in luv with ngiyacarrer!Kuyazenza so its all part of growin up !Obviously its a different matter nxa untombazana ole 18 yrs ese specializer only in Geriatrics.Thats more than 3 in as many years then hayi lokho sokungokunye!
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#15528 - 11/14/03 11:27 AM
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Mafikizolo
Registered: 11/12/03
Posts: 40
Loc: harare
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Kodwa nxa sixoxa lapha sile one standing assumption eyokuthi sonke singumthwakazi njalo sisalandela lelo siko ngaphandle uma ngiphambanisa.asidingisiseni ukuthi kusukela ekadeni indoda ibe iyiyo endala ngeminyaka eminengi njalo kuhlezi kulihlazo ukuthi umama omkhulu abonakale ethandana lonfana omncane...
lithini ngayo...
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#15530 - 11/14/03 06:12 PM
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Mafikizolo
Registered: 11/12/03
Posts: 40
Loc: harare
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Ngibona sonke siyakubona ukuthi labomama bayavuma ukuthi bayaguga masinya njalo bangathathwa ngabantu abancane kulabo kuyahlupha. Do you know that its not an issue much for a man to enter a marriage with a kid than for a woman to do the same....
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#15536 - 11/17/03 01:19 AM
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Mafikizolo
Registered: 10/01/03
Posts: 35
Loc: TORONTO
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madoda lamanina ngisesengumfanyana ngangiqomisela ubuhle ifiga le-age ngingasifuni isalukazi but ngathi sengikhulile ngadinga isimilo lomama ongakha umuzi olamandla leplani ekhanda. sitshiyane ngowodwa lezinyanganyana our life is skyrocketing. my children will be proud to have such a mother and i'm proud to have such a wife with her strength i'll build an empire she respects me, my family & my friends. i'm home guys. nxa uthatha kumbe uthathwa have your qualities & objectives clear. this is avery personal and localised arena kuyangokuthi ungubani uhloseni & angisoli muntu abathi i-age matters sisonke ngoba yikubona kwabo mina ngedwa ngithi isimilo phambili isimo mbayimbayi. akuyiwa nganxanye kungemanzi bakwethu. these are my little views Mawudlwamahle.what then am i saying, "i'll rather marry an ugly old & educated[not only learned]woman than a beautiful curvey & young imbecile". well bantwabahle lindaba inde ithini ngingadonsende. uPrince Carlos wehlukana loDiana a very beautiful young woman firm and elegant going for a swathy skinned Carmilla Packer B 5 years older than him becoz of L.O.V.E. uDi laye for Fayed an arab or moslem something,from the palace becoz of L.O.V.E. nxa usumthandile umuntu only GOD can stop that becoz HE is ertenal me & yu very temporary, for me & you is the present and the past the future is not ours to see que sera sera whatever will be will be.
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#15537 - 11/17/03 01:37 AM
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Sikhulu
Registered: 05/01/03
Posts: 225
Loc: emqansweni wakofambeki
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isimilo yinqaba bakwethu ngivumelana le above entry kodwa ke umuntu wesifazane angaba lengane kucina kukhanya angathi usekhululile.eyami i theory ngithi ingane ingezelela imnyaka kumuntu wesintwana eyisitshiya ngalo lunye.
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#15539 - 11/18/03 12:14 AM
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Sikhulu
Registered: 05/01/03
Posts: 225
Loc: emqansweni wakofambeki
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sero mahlabezulu,okutshoyo kuyezwakala.mina ikhoca lami liyi 11yrs younger than me,ngenza njalo ukwenzela ukuthi angaba lengane kukhanye angathi uleminyaka emibili younger than me.ukuhlala phetsheya kakutsho ukuthi sitshiyane lemthotho yesintu,in short i'm saying mahlabezulu i want kids as well as having umfazi okuzakhanya engamdala kulami nxa esebe lengane.
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#15542 - 11/21/03 10:15 PM
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Mafikizolo
Registered: 11/07/03
Posts: 7
Loc: TO
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Yezi
Kukhona ngempela in some cases kodwa not in all.
Mina ngilungiselela umtshado wami lesoka lami, mina ngeni26 yana une37, yimnyaka elitshumi lanye. Kuthiwa yini lokhu? Unengane yinye from a previous relationship mina I have two boys from a previous relationship. Nginayo imfundo enganeno lamanje ngisesikolo, isoka lami liyabhadala, yena he is a professional already with a doctorate on the way. Kuthiwa yini?
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#15544 - 11/21/03 10:56 PM
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Mafikizolo
Registered: 05/21/02
Posts: 47
Loc: Kontuthu
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Wena yezi, uzenza juice hayikhona. Uyakuhlabisa usisteri ukuthi imfamfarara oyi witayo ayithetshi, uyaku bonisa ukuthi bayi namba osero lama khoca besi ndenge abagijimisi cweba wena uyambuluza.
Hantsho nguwe owaqala le ngxoxo manje inkinga yini? Yekela is'vembi futhi, singa mandenge la.
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#15545 - 11/21/03 11:06 PM
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Mafikizolo
Registered: 05/21/02
Posts: 47
Loc: Kontuthu
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*abanga gijimisi icweba kumbe ufakafaka.
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#15548 - 12/23/03 06:40 PM
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Mafikizolo
Registered: 12/23/03
Posts: 1
Loc: Toronto
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Linjani bantu bakithi. I am very much interested in this topic eyamarelationships btwn older man & younger females. Mina ngivumelana lothi age is just a number. At the same time ngivumelana lokuthi utshomi has to be older than ucherry.
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#15551 - 12/25/03 01:07 AM
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Nduna
Registered: 05/08/03
Posts: 304
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Otsheri besiNdebeleni nxa befuna ukwendeni kwaba kubo they have to make an effort to do so.
Lingahlala ekhoneni licatshe bodade I am sorry banengi osisi asebezwile ngembali yamajaha akini enhle njalo sebephambili kulani.So stand up and show who and where you are.
Okwe-age its personal
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#15556 - 10/17/04 08:15 PM
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Ngqwele
Registered: 05/21/04
Posts: 116
Loc: Canada
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Ekuhle kwezothando. Bhudaza,imbambo lokhu zingavumi ngencwadi yomzawakho, langapha uyi-senior futhi, ha usel'eceleni wena mfana.......hatshi ngamahlaya mfowethu ngiyazi ukuthi nxa wena laboMabila laboDoc likhona konke sokuvuthiwe. Ake ngibuze lonke-nje majaha lezintombi ukuthi ngubani owathi ebona intombi wahle wayisukela ngokuthi ileminyaka emingaki? The first impression is the facial and structural appearance then you attack, lokho okokuthi imnyaka mingaki kubonakala later and if you put-off the affair because of the age differnce then there is something wrong with you or you might have discovered something wrong with the character of the person and not, I repeat, not the problem with the age. Remember, age is nothing but a number, as long as you get what you want then you are home and dry. ----------------------------- Buza mina ngikutshele ![[Roll Eyes]](images/icons/rolleyes.gif) ![[Embarrassed]](images/icons/blush.gif)
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#15563 - 10/18/04 08:20 PM
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Sikhulu
Registered: 05/01/03
Posts: 225
Loc: emqansweni wakofambeki
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Itopic leyi lokhe itshisa.Umqali wetopic sewazithulela kanti yena ungaphi uyezi sizwe ukubana kuvaya njani.Waz it a personal interest topic kumbe wayezibuzela nje.
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#15565 - 10/19/04 12:09 AM
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Nkosi
Registered: 05/14/04
Posts: 2123
Loc: Ayowa
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Bafowabo ngicela ukutheza olulenkume ngabomo ![[Eek!]](images/icons/shocked.gif) Liyananzelela na ukuthi your preferences for women include the following: a younger woman? a shorter woman? a woman who makes less money than you? a less educated woman? a woman who seems to have less experience than you entweni nje zonke? Yindaba bafowabo? Into eliyidingayo asithando lina bantu. Lidinga nje someone you can manipulate and control. Yikho lisesaba older women livika ngokutshwabhana kwabo angani lina lizahlala li ayiniwe. For you again it's the issue yokuthi "abantu bazakuthini?" Wena uvele usuthini?
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#15566 - 10/19/04 12:59 AM
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Ngqwele
Registered: 04/28/03
Posts: 132
Loc: canada
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Yeyi bantu indaba yokuthandana ayifani lezicathulo ezilesayizi.
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#15572 - 02/20/06 11:51 PM
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Sikhulu
Registered: 01/08/05
Posts: 281
Loc: Montiriyali
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#15573 - 02/21/06 09:57 AM
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Ngqwele
Registered: 08/26/05
Posts: 195
Loc: Bulawayo
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Ngisekela umaGagisa. I age diff akumelanga ibenkulu kakhulu ngoba ingalambisa abanye abantu lapha.But uhlupho nantu:bangaze bathathane abalinganayo,indoda iyasuka iyedinga eziFresh ngaphandle.Umama laye angezwa kusitsho, adinge okungumfanyana okuzabe kumsebenza kungatholithuba.Amankazana amancane afuna abadala ngoba kuthiwa bayakhupha ezimalini lapha.Omama labo bathi okungabafana kuyasebenza emacansini akudlali. ![[yay]](graemlins/yay.gif)
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#15576 - 02/21/06 07:26 PM
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Ngqwele
Registered: 06/17/05
Posts: 113
Loc: eMajawundeni
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Bakithi kuqakathekile ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi sikhulume esikubonayo hatshi esikuzwayo.kulabantu ababambelela emahungahungeni impilo yabo yonke.
ukuthi umuntu ongumfazi angabalomntwana uyaluphala akusoqiniso umuntu angahamba evula umlomo elitshela abantu ngoba abantu batshiyene.kulabantu abanengi kakhulu abathi bangakutshela inani labantwana abalabo awungeke uvume ngoba u ve been stereotyped to believe that if someone luks like this or like that they shld be having a certain number of kids.kuya ngomzimba womuntu lokho coz there r people who luk older than their age or vice versa,this applies to man too.
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#15577 - 02/21/06 08:10 PM
Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa?
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Ndunankulu
Registered: 11/21/05
Posts: 677
Loc: Emlindini Wesambane
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Bakwethu
Back to the topic,i dont not believe age is really matters when two people have honestly love each other,people have always had something to say about everything,even if you were to be in a relationship with someone of your own age,people will always want to say something about everything.
Kangikhulumi mzekeliso,ngitsho ukuthi nxa ngingambona nje udade,ngimthande laye angithande loba e20 years older than i am i will just get on with my relationship irregardless of people's approval or not,phela dont ever marry to please your parents and friends and forget about YOU,i come first,the relationship or marriage is mine,it has to please me first.
Kangazi kumbe liyangizwa ukuthi ngithini amhlabezulu,ngakhoke kimi iminyaka yabantu kayiqakathekanga kangalo,nxa abantu betshelene bathandana kunjalo.
Ngiyabonga
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#15580 - 02/22/06 06:20 PM
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Ndunankulu
Registered: 11/21/05
Posts: 677
Loc: Emlindini Wesambane
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magagisa lo Gayigusu Remember magagisa ukuthi teen is no longer sweet,it was then when it was thought teens were sweet where they sayin "sweet sixteen or sweet ninteen"was derived from.These days teens are even more dangerous than even late twenties,If you understand what love is then you will understand what i am saying,nxa ungabona useselenhloni lokuthi lowo othandana laye mdala kulawe njalo kuyakuyangisa ukuhamba laye kubangane bakho,kasilo thando lolo,if you love someone you love them for who they are not for what they are or how old they are. Love knows no bounderies,nothing can really hinder love,njalo nxa umuntu esethandweni lomuntu konke lokho okweminyaka kawusoze ukubone lokho. quote:
kodwa age difalensi okumelanga ibenkulu shameeeeee liyadakana masinya becoz ama interest enu awafaniiiiiiiii omunye ngowama 70sssssss omunye ngowama50ssss hk hk difalensi womehlukoooooo ngiyabongaaaaaaaa
Maga in a relationship,both parties have different interests,different opinions and views but love is about knowing each other and accepting the each other as you are,they can never be a perfect couple,Leyana i saying yokuthi "Mr or Mrs Prefect" is a pure fantasy,you have to make your partner perfect for you by accepting them as they are.so ngithi age is nothing but number,(LOVE)UTHANDO yilo inqaba in relationships.
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#15589 - 03/03/06 05:27 AM
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Sikhulu
Registered: 01/08/05
Posts: 281
Loc: Montiriyali
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#15593 - 03/05/06 05:12 PM
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Ndunankulu
Registered: 11/21/05
Posts: 677
Loc: Emlindini Wesambane
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quote:
originally posted by Siphepheli
Asazi bakwethu! Mina ngithi inyama ehlabusela uSibanda ingaba ngumkhawuzane owutshefu kuNcagu. Ngithini ya, ozidlela inyama yakhe kazidlele kumbe ngumhwabha kumbe ngugazana, olivejithaliyeni laye azidlele umbhida wakhe, kumbe umfushwa wakhe oledobi kumbe ololaza, khk hk hk kleke pekle lahleka isili elidala.
Liqinisi lelo baba,nxa umuntu ethokoza ngerelationship yakhe kulungile kunjalo,okweminyaka and all that singatshayana amakhanda sibili kodwa iqiniso yikuthi sonke selemibono ehlukileyo.
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#15594 - 03/05/06 06:02 PM
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Mafikizolo
Registered: 07/01/05
Posts: 10
Loc: toronto
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kambe khona kuselento okuthiwa luthando kulezinsuku?
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#15599 - 03/09/06 12:03 AM
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Ndunankulu
Registered: 11/21/05
Posts: 677
Loc: Emlindini Wesambane
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quote:
Originally posted by Bhudaza
Asazi ke lapho wetho ngoba lakhona ngasemandulo babetsho abadala ukuthi "ubuhle bendoda zinkomo zodwa, ungalibali mhla utshadayo ntombazana!"
Hk hk Waze wangilahla phansi ke hk hk hk
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#15600 - 03/15/06 06:50 PM
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Sakhamuzi
Registered: 12/26/05
Posts: 55
Loc: uk
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UTHANDO LWEQINISO - IMALI?
LISAYKHUMBULA INGOMA KAMUYI UNDUNA MALABA (NDUX MALX) ITHI UTHANDO LWEQINISO KALULANDABA LEMALI, LOMYANGA....' NGITSHO LEYANA PHELA ACULA NGO LERATO INTOMBI YASEBUTSWANA.
UNGABONA UTHANDO LUDINGA IPHAWUNDI LOBA IDOLA LIKA BHUSHI EMELIKA, IPULA LERANDI..,IVIZA, I STAY, UKUMA NENJA, I-BMW ( BE MY WIFE CAR),..... KAYISITHANDO LWEQINISO. NGESILUNGU BATHI MATERIAL LOVE IS DANGEROUS IKANTI NJALO UTUKU UHLABELA ESITHI ' LOVE CANT BUY MONEY'
NXA INTOMBI INGITHANDA KAYITHANDE MINA....HATSHI LOKHU ENGILAKHO! UKHONA OSAKHUMBULA INGOMA KAMUYI USOLOMON SKUZA LEYANA EKUDLALADE U ' LOVE AND SCANDALS' ETHI' SHE BROKE MY HEART FOR ANOTHER GUY...A GUY WHO OWNS A KHRESIDA...'
MAHLABEZULU QHAPHELANI BO, LINGADLIWA LIKHANGELE NJENGABOMATEMBA..LISITHI LIYATHANDWA KANTI NGITSHO!
OTHERWISE TSHITSHI NANA!
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#15602 - 03/17/06 09:02 PM
Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa?
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Mafikizolo
Registered: 03/01/06
Posts: 2
Loc: canada
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Indaba ye age iyahlupha.Mina personally angivumelani lakho ukujola lendoda encane kulami,but at the end of the day,its up to the people involved.If there is genuine respect and love for each other then I guess its ok,but its rare to find that if the age gap is too wide.
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#15606 - 03/25/06 08:20 PM
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Ngqwele
Registered: 10/04/05
Posts: 145
Loc: Emaguswini
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#15610 - 03/27/06 09:05 AM
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Ndunankulu
Registered: 08/25/05
Posts: 516
Loc: Buqamama
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ABAZIYO BATHI AKULADIBHA LAMATHOLE,ZIBHUDLUKELA ZONKE,
NtshoNtsho
Hk hk waze wangihlekisa ekuseni lokhu!!!
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#15611 - 03/28/06 12:05 AM
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Mafikizolo
Registered: 03/24/06
Posts: 5
Loc: South Africa
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Hola, kanti vele sekwavelaphi ukuthi omagogo, becathamele abantwana it seems these old woman the never get satsfied. OMAGOGO LABO MKHULU ABABONANE BODWA VELE KHONA UZE UBEGOGO KUMBE MAMA,MKHULU, YINI ENGAKWENZA UZE UHAHABELE INSANE,YIBUTSHAPHA INTO EZINGALAYWANGWA. THIS TOPIC IT DOESNT REAL SUIT UMTHWAKAZI CAUSE ITS DISGUSTING IYANYANYISA. WOBA NGUMAMA KANYE ,WOBA NGUBABA KANYE. MTHWAKAZI BOMAMA LABO BABA BE SMART AND TAKE CARE OF YOURSELVES LINGAFANI LE NGULUBE(ABAMHLOPHE) LEZI EZILALANA ZODWA/ LEZIHLOBO KUMBE LABANTWANA, UNGABONA UMAMA ESELALA LOMUNTU OLEMINYAKA ENGAPHANSI KWAKHE KUTSHO UKUTHI USENGALALA LENGANE YAKHE (YIBU FEBE MPELA) LOWO KUFANELE ABUYELE KUBO AYOLAYWA.
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#15613 - 03/27/06 01:18 PM
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Ndunankulu
Registered: 11/21/05
Posts: 677
Loc: Emlindini Wesambane
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posted by Sangwelibanzi
Hola, kanti vele sekwavelaphi ukuthi omagogo, becathamele abantwana it seems these old woman the never get satsfied. OMAGOGO LABO MKHULU ABABONANE BODWA VELE KHONA UZE UBEGOGO KUMBE MAMA,MKHULU, YINI ENGAKWENZA UZE UHAHABELE INSANE,YIBUTSHAPHA INTO EZINGALAYWANGWA. THIS TOPIC IT DOESNT REAL SUIT UMTHWAKAZI CAUSE ITS DISGUSTING IYANYANYISA. WOBA NGUMAMA KANYE ,WOBA NGUBABA KANYE. MTHWAKAZI BOMAMA LABO BABA BE SMART AND TAKE CARE OF YOURSELVES LINGAFANI LE NGULUBE(ABAMHLOPHE) LEZI EZILALANA ZODWA/ LEZIHLOBO KUMBE LABANTWANA, UNGABONA UMAMA ESELALA LOMUNTU OLEMINYAKA ENGAPHANSI KWAKHE KUTSHO UKUTHI USENGALALA LENGANE YAKHE (YIBU FEBE MPELA) LOWO KUFANELE ABUYELE KUBO AYOLAYWA.
Kukhona lakho okungabantwana ukuchathamela omagogo lokunye okuchathamela omhkulu,phela like i said before," teen is no longer sweet ".Nxakubakhombisa omagogo bakhona ke,uyezwa bekutshela sibili ukuthi omkhulu bayagcina hk hk hk
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#15617 - 03/29/06 12:29 AM
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Ngqwele
Registered: 08/26/05
Posts: 195
Loc: Bulawayo
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Sizakubophisa Nomangqika.Kulomthetho okuthiwa yi
child-abuse.Wehlisel'umntwana i g-string. Kungasenani ke dade,uyisheve,abafana bangaze bagijima enkotheni.hk hk hhk hk.
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#15622 - 03/29/06 03:32 AM
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Sakhamuzi
Registered: 05/12/04
Posts: 87
Loc: Canada
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Doc ,
Yeqa uyephezu ,ubuye utshaye phansi ........wale uthi " Dudlu ntombazana ongela nkomo uyayidla inyama longela bhasikiti uyangena emarketi" .... hk hk hk .
khona la ebulenjini .
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#15623 - 03/29/06 09:09 AM
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Ngqwele
Registered: 08/26/05
Posts: 195
Loc: Bulawayo
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Gagis'omhle,eyakho layo ayithengwe online. Usameleni? Siyimelele ngamehl'abomvu.
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#34021 - 06/13/07 05:44 PM
Re: How do you view relationships between older me
[Re: Dokotela]
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Mafikizolo
Registered: 06/01/07
Posts: 21
Loc: Zim
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madoda bengilandela indaba yenu lapha..mina l think 5 years age difference maybe fine but anything higher than that maybe a problem..mina owami umfazi iz 12 years yunger than me but ngilenhloni mbijana nxa ngihamba laye..abantu bayabe besikhangela omunye waze wangibuza ukuthi kanti ngihamba lomtanami yini..kwangiyangisa heavy khonokhu
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#34088 - 06/18/07 01:54 PM
Re: How do you view relationships between older me
[Re: sitshebo]
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Mafikizolo
Registered: 01/03/07
Posts: 32
Loc: United Kingdom
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Indaba yokuthatha isintwana esincazana kulawe akusinto embi ngitsholakancane. Okhokho nxa lingakhangela babethatha sebekhulile lokhu kwakubenza bathole isikhathi eseneleyo sokufunda ngezokuphathwa komuzi. Babethi mabethatha kubeyintombazana yakozibanya banyana,kutshiyane sibili ngobabethi osisi bayaphangisa ukuluphala phela. Njalo imiziyabo yayiba lesithunzi lobaba ehlonitshwa langekhaya ngobaphela engalingani lomama, hatshi lokhu okwanamuhla esengibizwa ngo Meli ngekhaya ngobaphela silingana lomama. Kuhle nxa sewathatha kudala, kodwake uma ungekathathi njalo ungothanda ukuhlonitshwa la ngekhaya, dinga omncane kumbe ngeminya elitshumi lambili. Uzakuba le control phela lapha ngekhaya. Akelikhangele linto, obaba badalwa baphiwa ukufuna ukuhlonitshwa kuphela, omama labo ngabafuna ukuthandwa kuphela. Nxa ungubaba owesintwana engakaze wakubuza ukuthi usangithanda na, ngempela izinto ziyabe zingamanga kuhle. Omama labo uyezwa obaba sebethi kanti ngokabani lumuzi. Ngilamanga yini?
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#34094 - 06/18/07 07:57 PM
Re: How do you view relationships between older me
[Re: Gaselomhle]
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Mafikizolo
Registered: 06/01/07
Posts: 21
Loc: Zim
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aah mfanekhaya ugangile hayikhona..ufuna umfazi wami mina ngisalee sengizekani?
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#35611 - 01/04/08 01:23 AM
Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa?
[Re: mahlabezulu]
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Mafikizolo
Registered: 01/03/08
Posts: 11
Loc: United States
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You guys, likelacabanga ukuthi kubuhlungu kanganani ukuba le `expiration date`? Let` s not forget i `price tag` yamalobolo. Nxa umfazi engasatshadanga, she` s off the shelf. Umbuzo wam wokucina yikuthi, does this so-called age difference apply, nxa umfazi ekhanya emncane kule age yakhe? Ngiyabuza ngoba, ngile24, kodwa amadoda amanengi nxa bengiqomisa, bacabanga ukuthi ngile minyaka from 16 to 18?
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#39173 - 07/21/08 03:40 PM
Re: How do you view relationships between older men and younger females or vice versa?
[Re: mahlabezulu]
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Mafikizolo
Registered: 03/13/08
Posts: 34
Loc: South Africa
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Isinu sithi inhliziyo kayiphalewa kodwa ukunye kumele umuntu abe yindoda and get full control of the relationship madoda but uma ujola lomagriza uzabe ekucontroller and u lose ivalue yakho as a man
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