Ya uqinisile Zwangs, obaba abanengi hatshi koMthwakazi kuphela banakela imizwa yabo kuphela. Uhle nje eqele umfazi, ngemva kwemizuzu eyisithupha seqedile.

Nxa uthe wehlelwa ngumnyama onje, wathola isoka elinganaki imizwa yakho zama ukuthola udlela zokuqedisa iphango. Thola amathoyisi emkambo yezemacansini ozayisebenzisa -hatshi ukweqa uthango. Inkinga engaku khanda uspanisa alma thoyisi, engakubona njengomuntu ole aphethayithi ephezulu. Kungehlula ungibize mina ngizo nceda.

Zwangendaba lo Dokotela liyitshaye ekhanda, kufanele abnatu abathandanayo baxoxe umabesemancansini, kufunale ubaba amtshele umama ukuthi uzwanjani lomama kufanele atsho kubaba ukuthi uthanda uma-belele njani(style) ukwezela ukuthi ubaba laye afake amadla lapho umama athanda khona.Asikumbulaneni emizweni yethu, sibakhumbule abafazi bethu ukuthi basuthiseke labo.

Kuyezeka esikhathini esinengi ukuthi umama angasuthi oncasini ngoba lokhu abathi yi Lomansi (romance) ayikho. Ubaba uvele angene okwe ndlovu. Ingithi uma uzakahamba ngemota uqala uyikhuthumeze, ukwezela ukuthi iyekufikisa kuhle lapho oyakhona. Umama bayakhala ngaphandle lapha, bethi njalo nje bona abafike lapho okufanele bafike khona. Kambe ungezwa njani uma kufanele liyefika eGwanda lisuka KoBulawayo liphelele esigodini. Umama uyatshelwa njalo nje ukuthi asiye eGwanda ngubaba kodwa agcine ese sigodini ngokuthi ubaba akakwanzi ukumfikisa eGwanda. Bayemxoxela abanye omama abasekebafika eGwabda ukuthi kunjani ukufika EGwanda. Kulaphoke okusuka izinto zonakalekhona, umama agcine esenqa uthango esefuna ngaphandle ngoba engayazi IGwanda. Kufanele udlale laye umama, umbambe lapha athandakhona. Uma ubaba angezi ukuthi umama ubanjwa kuphi, kufanele uxoxe laye akutshele ukuthi (where is the hot button).

Okunye okuluhlupho yikuthi omama abakwazi ukutshel obaba ukuthi lamhla bafuna ukulala. Njalo nje ubaba uthi bheka ngapha mama. Kufanele lawe mama ucele kubaba ukuthi abheke kuwe ukwezela ukuthi sonke sikholise ukubandawonye. Kungaba le (communication) endlini umuzi uzo khula kahle labantwana bazojabula ukubona abazali babo bethokozile. Ngoba lezi -zinto zigcina zibonwa ngabantu ngaphandle ukuth emzini othize kudliwa esiqandayo. Labantwana bayebona uma izinto zingahambi kahle.

Lani bomama kufanele likwazi ukuzigcina, likwazi ukuphakela ubaba into efresh, likwazi ukugeza futhi especial yino inkomo kufanele umama ayigeze kakuhle ukwezela ukuthi ubaba angayibalekeli, ayithande njalo nje. Lihambe lemaGimi liyegijima kwezela ukuthi umuntu angabi yindlovu isisthela. Ukuzala akutsho ukuthi umuntu kasagezi kumbe kasazinakanaleli. Likhumbule ukuthi sonke sisemcintiswaneni kulomhlaba. Umuntu njalo nje ahlale azilungisele.

Ubatshelile sibili njenge gama lakho!

Uyitshaye khona sihlobo
Ngalindlela ekhaya lapha kuzahlala kulentokozo lenjabulo..

Can taking the pill dull a woman's desire forever?

27 May 2005
Special Report from New Scientist Print Edition

ORAL contraceptives may free a woman to have sex without fear of getting pregnant, but they could also extinguish her desire.

The pill has been associated with many side effects, including blood clots, migraines and weight gain. Perhaps least talked about is its tendency to dull libido by decreasing testosterone levels.

Contraceptive drugs curb the hormone's production in the ovaries and also raise levels of sex hormone binding globulin (SHBG), a substance that takes it out of play. But it is unclear how common problems are in pill users. Until now, any sexual dysfunction, including loss of libido, muted or non-existent orgasms or painful intercourse, was thought to be reversible when women stopped taking the drug.

Irwin Goldstein, Claudia Panzer and their colleagues at Boston University studied 125 young women who attended a sexual dysfunction clinic. Sixty-two of them were taking oral contraceptives, 40 had previously taken them and 23 had never taken them. The team measured levels of SHBG in the women every three months for a year, and found that in pill users they were seven times as high as in women who had never taken them.

Levels had declined a bit in women who had stopped taking the pill, but remained three to four times as high as in those who had never taken it, the researchers told a meeting of the American Association of Clinical Endocrinologists in Washington DC last week. "There's the possibility it is imprinting a woman for the rest of her life," says Goldstein.

Bhudaza

mmmmmm kulobunzimanyana ke la. Ukuthi manje kuvikelwe njani ngoba ukuthi ngekhaya sengingasebenzisa ijazi lomkhwenyana (condom)hayi ah! i rhythm method layo, hk hk hk, ukuthi unga geja kuhle kuhle, kunzima. Kuyafika ilanga ngizivelela ebhawa ngiwomele umama kanti sesikhohliwe ukubala kuhle amalanga. Withdrawal method layo gpn gpn gpn leyo ke kubekangaki ngiseqa?

Ngicabanga ukuthi kuzamele omama bavikele ngawo lawo amaphilisi kodwa bathathe izihlahla zoku supplementa okwenza umhawu wabo ungayi phansi.

Sgero topi
Obaba bayathenwa kulezinsuku! hk hk hk

Mja

hk hk hk topi, kanti hantsho ngiyabe ngisafuna ukwelamisa ngisenza i child spacing (hayi okwakho okokuthi umntwana la eGoli, omunye eNjube, omunye e London ubususithi yi child spacing) ngitsho ngendlini lomama oyedwa.

Mina okokuthenwa vele angifuni kuhlabela i soprano

Uqinisile KaMjaji! Bakithi indaba ye pill le is an industry! Kusaswelakala further research into safer contraception practices. I pill is not safe!

u guys how about i loop yona ilamaside effects yini

BKM everything in these wetern countries is a business they might advertised the loop as good but for a business to grow they have defects which will make you go back to em.......just like the pill the resent research has linked the pill to heart problems........

loop is no good, gum boot is not good, pill is no good, the only method which is good but needs a lot of self control from the guy is the withdrawal method. Howver the weak must not dare attempt........

hk hk hk hk

Ndabezitha

i training camp yaba weak ingaphi?

Sgero

I training camp yaba weak iko Madlambuzi duze leDamu lako Titshi.. ukuya khona umele udlule a dogs village.

Sokuzavulwa enye ngako Blair u BKM angikunika ama details

hk hk hk

A word of caution ekwakheni imizi Mthwakazi omuhle hk!

A survey has shown that looks can kill - with men married to ugly women living an average of 12 years longer. Researchers at Yale University in USA blame the early demise of men with stunning brides on stress caused by jealousy.

Psychologist Edgar Dabblen revealed: "Jealousy is a highly stressful emotion. Some men with attractive wives live in a constant state of it.
Everywhere they go they see other men scheming and lusting after their women."

"They believe if they slip up, there are 100 men waiting to jump in and take their places".
This research studied the medical histories of 3,519 married men. They showed the men's wedding photographs to a panel of male students and asked them to rate the wives' looks from one to 20. Gorgeous girls, who ranked 14 or higher, were widowed at an alarmingly early age.

But the plain women's husbands lived well into their eighties and nineties. Men with beautiful wives were also more likely to help out around the house, doing 80 per cent more home repairs and even housework. But Dr. Dabblen warned men against looking for ugly girls to marry.

"We have to marry for love, not so that we can live longer," he said.

This might be true. Mina sengisiya ekhaya ngiyedinga owami, angimgezisi ngitshi ngiyamtshiya enjalo. Otherwise uyagezisa umuntu kusasa nguye osebona kakhulu hk hk hk

Lesurvey ihlakaniphile, nakhu phela iveza obala lokho ekade ngikuchabanga. Ngathi ngizithathela amakhosikazi ami amabi insizwa zangihleka, ngikhuluma nje ezimbili zakhona sezalandela isurvey lena, njalo ngithemba ukuthi nabanye bayalandela, mina ngilokhu ngizijayivela lembhomula zami. 80 0r 90 years, oh! ngisazophila madoda. Isixwayiso kulabo abalamakhosikazi amahle, lingeza lizobatshiya duze kwalapho engihlala khona, kwazise bazobe bephephile.

Sibamba



awufuni kufa umncane wena? i i packaging layo iqakathekile. Isinkwa esigoqelwe nge newspaper le sinkwa esisikwe kuhle safakwa e plastikini esile sale-by date, ungakhetha siphi khonapho nxa ziku shelf? Ngiyazi ukuthi yizinkwa zombili kodwa awukazidli lezi zinkwa usafuna ukuthenga?

Mina vele kungathi sengizakufa ngoba ngile khoca as in khoca!

Sibamba loS'gero, yini ndaba nxa nginibheka ngilibona sengathi nizingwenya ezibobothekayo ziveza udwendwe lwonke lwamazinyo ankanyazelayo? Bomama abahle becare kulababafo, hk hk hk.

hk hk hk ge manje ungatshonjalo sizakuyangaphi thina hk
jus joking

Ngiya kuzwa NDLOVUKAZI WENA OWEZULU batshele phela masikhangele kwezencansi ukuxoxa yinto eqakatheke kakhulu phe isika lomumbu elithe qithi loba isigogo esimanzi hayi hayi madoda

I think the answer to our questions concerning the alternatives to the pill have been answered: EAT A LOT OF SOYA


Would-be mums told to avoid soya

13:05 22 June 2005

NewScientist.com news service

Michael Le Page, Copenhagen
Women trying to conceive should consider not consuming soya for the few days around ovulation, according to a UK researcher. Her study shows a compound found in soya causes human sperm in a dish to “pop their caps” prematurely, rendering them useless. But it remains unclear whether eating soya has any actual effect on fertility.

Lynn Fraser of King’s College London studied the effect of very low levels of genistein - a compound found in leguminous plants such as soya - on human sperm in a liquid medium similar to that found in the female reproductive tract. “It was very striking,” she says. “Within an hour a third of the sperm had gone all the way.”

This means that the genistein had prematurely triggered the sperm to undergo what is known as the acrosome reaction. The acrosome is the cap on the tip of sperm that contains the enzymes needed to penetrate the thick outer layer of the female’s egg once the sperm has reached it. If it is lost early, sperm have no chance of fertilising an egg.

Fraser says other studies have shown that genistein gets into the blood of people who eat soya products. She believes that in women, it could end up in the reproductive tract and damage their chances of conceiving. “From what we have seen, women should restrict their diet for a short time over the period of ovulation.”

Effects on males
But other experts are not convinced such advice is necessary. James Kumi-Diaka of Florida Atlantic University, US, says his team has also found that genistein has a dramatic effect on sperm - so much so that he has toyed with the idea of incorporating genistein into condoms as a contraceptive.

His team has also found that when genistein is injected into male rats three times a week, it reduces the size of the litters they father, from about 11 pups at most to five. Even low doses had an effect, he says. That would seem to hint that men, too, should worry about eating soya when trying to father children.

But Kumi-Diaka stops short of such advice. “It depends on so many things,” he says. “How the food is prepared, how often you eat it, whether it is eaten alone.” If genistein really does affect fertility, Kumi-Diaka points out, you would expect to see fertility problems in Asian countries, where many people consume soya products daily - but there is no such evidence.

Combining chemicals
Fraser first reported that genistein triggers the acrosome reaction in mouse sperm in 2003. In other studies on mouse sperm, she has found two other chemicals can also trigger the acrosome reaction. One, called 8-prenylnaringenin, is found in hops and is thus is present in some beers, but Fraser does not know what levels are typical. The second chemical, nonylphenol, is found in products such paints, pesticides and cleaning products. “There could be a whole range of chemicals with this effect,” she says.

What is more, Fraser found that combinations of these chemicals, which she calls xenobiotics, had a much greater effect than any one alone. “Given the likelihood that we are exposed to several xenobiotics at any one time, we need to investigate their possible effects on fertility as quickly as possible.”

Her latest studies were presented at a meeting of the European Society for Human Reproduction and Embryology in Copenhagen, Denmark, on Wednesday.