Mahlabezulu lithini ngalendaba yokuhlangana labantu ku internet?I have heard some horror stories and I wanted to find out if anyone here had had some nasty experiences.

l met someone here on Inkundla and he completly destroyed my life. my advice is never ever have a reletionship with people who u met online.

Inkundla seyakha imizi emithathu engiyaziyo mina. Kwaba yi bhadi lakho nje Sibbs, ungalahli themba.

Kuyafana nje lokuhlangana lomuntu emgwaqweni. Qaphelani, zikhona inswelaboya kantike bakhona nabaqotho. Ungethembimuntu at face value (well ku internet akulala face)Nomangabe ubuhlangana lomuntu ndawana thize, ngithi kuwe qaphela. Ngeke ngithi i internet ayiphephile noma iphephile, ngitsho lase sontweni imbala akusaphephile.

OFILEYO UNYILE PHANSI KUMANZI SIZOMGEBHELA.

Mina i met a gal online and we have been going out for 3yrs and hope to get married in a year's time,it's the best thing that ever happened to me(ngoba ikhoca elilindebele njalo she has goals in life and we have similar interests).Amasitshuweshini ayatshiyana njalo kufanele ungajampeli,yenza i assessment yakho kuhle and get to know the person well be4 friendship goes to an intimate level.

Online?

hawu wethuka Dokotela, does it seem imposible?

Uxolo ma sengigijimela phambili.

Isifiso sami ngesokwazi ukuthi

(1) Imizwa ithumezeleka njani ngencingo ze gxibangxibane yobulembu?

(2) Izenzo eziveza ubudlelwano bothando, zenzakala njani abantu behlukaniswe ngummango?

(3) Uthembeka njani umuntu ongeze wazi ukuthi uphila njani?

(4) Ma sokufisa isikhathi soku phathaphathana, kwenzakalani?

Kulula lokho dokotela hantsho liyaxoxa lazane kuqala then you make arrangements to meet.okunye liyathi nxa libonana lihle lithandane okunye liyathi libonana livalelisane.Mina ngilezihlobo labangane abathandanayo beqale ebulenjini...sebelabantwana

BAKHONA ABEZA ONLINE UKUZODINGA UTHANDO (THIS INCLUDES (1)THOSE WHO HAVE HAD BAD EXPERIENCES WITH PEOPLE THEY MET THE NORMAL WAY,(2)IZIGWADI KANYE (3)LEMIJENDEVU) KUBE LABAZODINGA UKUSUTHISA INKANUKO ZOMZIMBA(ABO BAFAZINI LABO MANGUMBA) KANYE LABA ZODLALA NJE(THOSE WHO LOVE CALLING PEOPLE THEY DONT KNOW,SWEETHEART,DALI E.T.C,HK HK) .KUHLE NXA UZE UNGELA NHLOSO UBUSU HLANGANA NJE LOMUNTU LIQALE LAPHO UKUBA LOBUDLELWANO NGOBA UNGEZA UVELE ULENJONGO,IKAKHULU A GENUINE ONE,ASAZI,UYASALA UKHALA UMPUNGWANE,USU NYATHELWE IMPIKO KALULA NJE KUMBE USUTSHAYANISWE NGEKHANDA LOMUNYE UMUNTU.

Encwadini yobulembu kungafuneka uthumele inhlayelo as attachment. hk hk.

kalizake lizwe behlala betshiya madoda labantwana hk hk sebezwakalela kobo melika labo australia betshiye imizi yakhiwe ngendaba zaku net hk hk asazi liyazi i wonder kwakuphilwa njani kungakabi labo internet let alone ipc(computer) shuwa ngoba into esezisenzakala kunzima ngenxa yento lezi zombili hk hk okuqakathekileyo yikuthi just know your limits ma uzahlangana lalowo muntu.

Bayawatshiya sibili amadoda kodwa amarelationship akhona they dont last nxa abantu bakhona sebeqalisa ukwazana,sebebona ukuthi lokho abakutshelana ebulenjini kayisikho abayikho khona,ukuze uhlale lomuntu kumele lazane,yiko phela abanye bacina bebulewe ngabadlwenguli,Kumele abantu bananzelele sibili.

OKUNYE VELE KAMBE NXA LOBABILI LILE PC CHATROOM LOVING ADDICTION, SELILONKE HANTI YIKUVELA LILWE, OMUNYE ESE BUSY KU CHAT OMUNYE ENYENEME ENGELA OKOKWENZA,HK HK

HAAA HAAA Heyi lina uthi liyangihlekisa yini, well mina ngombono wami akulanto embi ngoikuhlangana ku chat, phela akulamthetho othi abantu kumele behlangane e church, kumbe esithilidini. Uyakhona ukuhlangana lomuntu e church kodwa umuntu lowu nxa sengaphandle kwe church abe yiziga phela, mina into engiyibona lapha yikuthi abantu kumele befundane kuqala bengaka zi commit okuserious plus besthiye i spacce se dissapointment-okokuthi bahlangane ngaphi akulamsebenzi lokhu,
phela kule study eyenziwa these dayz, kuthiwa abantu they are so busy that 70% of ama relationships these dayz they start ku net ngoba abantu sebeswela isikhathi sokuhlanga the way life eguqukua ngayo.
so labo abasola ukuhlangana ku net mina ngilombuzo owaoda kini lonke

LIZAMA UKUSITSHELA UKUTHI AMA RELATIONSHIPS WONKE ACINE ENGASEBENZI AQALISELA KU NET?? KUMBE IMISTADO ECITHEKAYO YAQALISELA KU CHAT?? HAYI BANTU ASIBENI SERIOUS PLEASE HK HK HK HK. hlangana lomuntu wakho lazane kuphela kuqala.

Elinye itopi elema eriyeni elingu mnyasaranda lali lomfazi owayese Malawi, lali hamba nsukuzonke khonangale ngeSitsha.

Lalithengisa ihlazi ebhawa everyday ezi fresh, elalibuya lazo livela eMalawi. Umfazi walo wamitha sibili. True story.

mina i dont see anything wrong with meeting pple online. yimpilo nje iyakhiwa imizi abantu behlangene ebulenjini. khathesi lobulembu sebuphucukile phela u cant send and share pictures and sokulalolhu okuthiwa ngama webcam so liyabonana nje hawu kubemnandi kubenjeya....... litshade hawuuuuuuuu yeyi linaaaaaaaaa

mina ngibona kulungile njalo ku convenient lokhu.phela izinto ziyantshintsha....angithi kwaqala ngokumelelana emigodini, kwabuya ukubhalelana incwadi, kwabuya umakhal'ekhukhwini(mobile) so khathesi sekuyiskhathi sobulembu.

phela umuntu kalakuthi umthole ebulenjini kumbe ngaphi:nxa elungile ulungile, nxa ezibolele uzibolele.

uqinisile sbali.. kuba tightaz waze wangi lavukisa!!!!

P.S.
Anyway, bengifuna lokuthi ngithi mina ngokubona kwami meeting online is fine...njengoba sebetshilo labanye, impilo yalamuhla is so hectic that i net iyanceda in many ways, incl. finding potential romance/s and hopefully a marriage partner...kodwa ke, kumele ube careful, ngendlela efana lanxa nje uhlangana lalowo muntu esitaladeni etc.etc.

HELLO BANGANE

ha ha ha i addiction yechatroom ayipheli lanxa iphela ngabona uyabe usuke wabona odokotela ukuba bkuncedise hk hk kodwa bona ubulembu lokuhlanga labantu khona ebulenjini kuyinto egrandest shamestttttttt ngiyabonga

Magagisa...kodwa lapho uqinisile shuwa ukuthi i addiction yakhona kayipheli sibili hk hk hk...ingathi even kuwo amaforum uyaba addicted, njengakhonalapha nje mina ngingu 'newbie' kodwa sengisiba addicted already, so what more i chatroom yezothando hk hk

khona abantu abafani usangamthola umfazi mfazi/ ndodakuzwa lapha kumachat, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba uqale umfundisise kahle ngaphambi kukuba committed, ngoba bakhona abadlala ngemizwa yabanye abantu.

Mina angiboni nkinga about where or how pipo meet, inhloso lecompatibility yikho okuzaphumelelisa kube kubucuze ikusasa yalokhu kuhlangana. Abanye abantu live together years and never really get to KNOW each other regardless of where or how they meet. Okunye njalo yidestiny, I think

Bakhona njalo abathatha zona lezi ndlela zethananethi ukudlala ngabantwana babanye abantu,bakhona abathiye imijibila khonapha,nanzeleleni lina mantombazana lani majaha,ungakhohlwa ukuthi khonapha esesuthi i love you kuchat engakaze wakubona uyabe setshele abangaki.

Kumele abantu baqale bazane pliz before lithembisane izulu lomhlaba hk hk hk