Bo dade sondelani ngapha kesinyeye ngali ndaba ye female condom. Abafowabo ngike ngaxoxa labo ku shati rumu. Imicabango yabo sengingani ngiyayazi

leyi femidom kayihlabelelwa phezulu njengeyabobaba. kuyadanisa lokhu ngoba inganceda in combating imikhuhlane eminenginengi etholakala nxa ungazivimbeli.
Kumaclinics lezibhedlela emazweni noma komthwakazi, ufica omongikazi kabazi okunengi ngayo ngoba labo kabafundiswanga okwaneleyo. the simple things like ukuthi igqokwa njani, kabazi ukuthi kwenziwa njani. I believe there should be a campaign to educate and remarket this product and most importantly for it to be free of charge in all places not just sexual health clinics

Mina ngilalele bekumele liqale lingixotshele phandle hk hk hk. Qhubekani maqhawekazi kaMthwakazi itshukeni bomama.

Ngivumelana lawe dade Xhiba. Banengi ngempela abangaziyo nge female condom. Mina ngokubona kwami, kuqakathile ukuthi wonke umuntu ahlale ephethe isikhali sokuvimbela iHIV ngensuku zalamuhla. I female condom ikhona and is equally effective against the virus njenge male condom. Nxa uthe wadibana lowesilisa ongaliphathanga elabo baba, there is absolutely no excuse yokuthi lawe utholakale ungelalo elabo baba loba elabo mama.

Ngakho okwakuqala asilidingeni silazi leli condom. Liyatholakala okwamanje in most drug stores, supermarkets lakuma health centres. Lihle lona ngoba it can be worn well in advance ukwenzela ukuthi lanxa kukujuma, wena uvikelekile kudala.

Wena wazini ngalo Sphepheli? Please share njengoba usungene lapha ungela passport!

Sengike ngalibona ke lelo bakithi elenzelwa abesimame, ngatshengiswa ukuba ligqokwa kanjani kodwa njengegwala angizangengithole kumbe ngidinge ithuba lokulisebenzisa. Kodwa ke njengomuntu ozimiseleyo ekuthuthukiseni isizwe ngizakhuthaza abafowethu labodade ukuthi mazisetshenziswe lezindlela zokuvikela imikhuhlane yemacansini. Lokhu bakithi kungatsho ukuthi besesiphongudlala ngecansi.

Ubugwala utsho obani Sphepheli?

lapho uqinisile dade mabila considering the fact that kwesinye isikhathi kuyabe sekutight its better if owesimame esegqoke kudala . BUT DO U THINK IT WILL BE APPROPRIATE FOR MAN TO WEAR HIS LAMI NGIGQOKE ELAMI ABE YITWO ONETIME HK HK COS SOMETIME ICONDOM DOES DABUKA

Two is 2 much Bunandi ubunandi bakhona buyabe bungasekho hk hk. Kodwa empeleni kuqakathekile ukuthi omama bahlale bezivikele ngoba banakho ukuvelelwa zingozi ezifana nokudlwengulwa.

Ungixolele Mabila dade mina ne'passport asihlangani, ngiyazingenela nje lapho engithanda khona ngaphandle kwezincwadi.

Elabesifazane is much stronger than eligqokwa ngabesilisa. Its better in many ways than elabesilisa, kodwa kumele ligqokwe earlier ukuze libe temperature yesitho sowesifazane njalo i lubrication must be used ukuze owesilisa angasubuki ubongani.

Ukugqoka amabili, akudingeki dade. Lilinye liyawenza umsebenzi.

Ngike ngezwa omunye ethi labo abathengisa imizimba, sebe hamba bewagqokile.

Dokotela

Doc, uqinisile elabo mama liqinile njalo lilohlozi ngokwenziwa kulelabo baba , La engikhona ngiyanikela amahola ambalwa kungela nzuzo kweyinye inyanganiso ethiwa yi Sexual Asualt Centre so vele nje sibakhuthazisa more ngalo lelo condom abomama and ngalo uleqiniso lokuvikeleka.

Kodwa kuze kubenamuhla leli condom alihambi njengelabobaba la elinikezwa khona loba elithengiswa khona , ngingazi kwezinye indawo .

Lami ngithi bo dade hlalani lihlomile lagadla lani hatshi ukuthi lihlale liphakathi ngitsho ukubalalo ezikhathini ezinengi kuhle ungaze uthembe elika baba ngoba elabo baba liloku dabuka nje lula .

Mm lapha kudingakala ulwazi olujulileyo nge female condom,kudingakala ukuthi abesifazana bafundiswe ngokuthi ligqokwa kanjani etc njalo kufanele intengo yalo yehliswe liyadula ukudlula elabobaba. hk hk hk hk.
More advertising might help bring awareness.

Ngeke ithatheke i khondomu le yesifazane - too invasive, it seems to me.

Kengibuze omame. What do you think of the male pill?

Bakwethu ngiyabonga usekelo lwenu nge condom labesifazana leli. Lalapha engikhona lami alaziwa kangako. Abasebenzisa elesilisa labo abalisebenzisi kuhle in that abaliqgoki kuhle njalo abalikhuphi ngemfanelo okuyikho okubangela ukudabuka elikubethayo. Ama condom ukuthi asisebenzele asivikele kumele asetshenziswe ngemfanelo.

Utsho kahle Uxolo ukuthi liyadula ukwedlula elabobaba, kodwa nxa usulinganisa lokho kudula lokuthola i HIV, okugcono yikuphi? Lihle kakhulu ngoba linika abesifazana the ability to initiate their own protection without relying on men.

Indawo lapho elitholakala khona kanengi bayafundisa ukuthi ligqokwa njani.

Saduva this is now a matter of life and death. Siqhuba iprotection from HIV phambili. Sizalejwayela njenge male condom from frequent use. Nxa uthi li invasive mina ngithi kuhle ukuthi libe njalo ngoba limele lilandele wonke umzimba womuntu wesifazana limvikele angabi into any contact le body fluid ele HIV from the male and vise versa nxa yena eyithwele. Let us give feedback to the manufacturers for improvement.

Asilitholeni nje sonke and be familiar. Kungadingakala ukuthi ufundise lawe omunye ngalo, akwaziwa.

Wozani lonke ku surgery ngilifindise ukuthi agqokwa njani. I don't mind teaching you for the whole year freely, with customer satisfication guaranteed. Condition: i teach the female only and they must come alone and be ready to be examined for at least 30 minutes.

Yikho bengithe odade beze sinyeye sodwa hk hk hk Khathesi sekuyini manje sesibizelwa e surgery ngamunye ngamunye hk. Ngitsho Dok sizakwenza ama focus groups and explore! Ngeke seza kuwe for private lessons hk

yeyeni bantu kanti Dokotela thina siyafunda lapha nge femidom wena ubizela abantu ngasese...... mmmh. Kutsho ukuti sizezwa sokuthiwa uDoc wathi ngithi , yena wathi kwasuka kwa........

hk hk hk hk hk hk a dokotela shuwa mina ayi angibuyi lapho kuwe ngoba kukhanya ufundisa too much

hk hk hk hk hk hk a dokotela shuwa mina ayi angibuyi lapho kuwe ngoba kukhanya ufundisa too much

hk hk hk dokotela,lami cela ukuba ngu assistant wakho ekufundiseni omama ukugqoka ama condomu abo,lami i dont mind teaching free of charge for an hour hk hk hk

Sokulo Assistant Tshisa akula lutho olulungayo.... Walala walimala

Mabila

Ngiyakuzwa dade njalo inkulumo yakho ilemfundiso. Kengibuze lapha. Ukhuluma ngokuba in contact with body fluids. When using the male condom you will find out that amasendisi come into contact le fluid kamama. How dangerous is this? Is this risk eliminated ngokusebenzisa elabomama? Siza dade.

Bhudaza

hk hk hk ilizwi lomuntu omdala aliweli phansi. Asikuthi abantu bacine besebenzisa i lubrication yemota shuwa!

Mina engingathanda ukuchasiselwa khona yikuthi, asithi thina simi engotsheni,yona le condom yabomama iyafakeka masinya nxa umuntu emile?

Gazilikababa!

Ngiyawuzwa umbuzo wakho. Ingozi ikhona sibili nxa owesilisa ele fresh cut ku scrotum eyiwo mgodla wama ndese. The scrotum is exposed sibili nxa kusetshenziswa i male condom. Nxa ele fresh cut abesethintana lomhluzi kamama ole HIV, ilakho ukungena ngaleyo open wound. The female condom eliminates yonke imihluzi yowesifazana from skin to skin contact lowesilisa. Akubi le direct contact layo ngoba it covers the vulval area yonke. The male condom ilakho ukuvuza i semen nxa ingaqgokwanga kuhle end expose owesifazana. The female condom is more efficient in that regard.

Kuyafana laku oral sex. Please don't have an open cut in your mouth if you are going to perform oral sex without protection. You can use dental dams or some improvisation plastic sheath for protection!

Dental Dam

Danki Dokotela. That is a very informative site.

Sgero,odade abathayimelwa engotsheni mina ngibacebisa ukuthi kungcono baye khona begqizile ngoba kuba lokujumana lesiphithiphithi thize okungumdlalo kwakhona. Abafana bengotsha abasebenzisi kuhle ama negotiation skills abo hk hk hk Batshay' ithufithi usalibele hk hk hk hk

kube lisebenzise i condomu yomlomo hk hkh hk

Dokotela

Kuyabongeka mfowethu ngokweluleka kwakho. Sengifundile sibili.

Mabila

hk hk hk hk sengizaxhwayisa abangane bami ngendaba zokuma engotsheni bengazilungiselelanga.

Unexpected thrills

Kate Burt



07 September 2005 03:00


Sniggering at the Femidom was a privilege only for those lucky enough to have a choice about whether to sleep with a man who wouldn't wear protection
It was hailed as the biggest contraceptive revolution since the invention of the Pill. “Johnny’s had a sex change,’’ went the publicity strapline, and in the eight months preceding its 1992 launch in Britain it had generated articles in the press and TV and radio features. There was a £1-million advertising campaign, which included a two-week neon-lit display on the famous Spectacolor board in London’s Piccadilly Circus, and people queued outside pharmacies to buy it. But 13 years on, British usage is so low that it registers as 0%, according the National Office of Statistics’s report on Contraception and Sexual Behaviour. How did the British fall so quickly out of love with the Femidom?

The answer may be that Britain never really loved it in the first place. The female condom may have seemed a good idea to most modern, emancipated women in 1992. But once they saw it up close -- and tried using one -- they weren’t so keen. The Femidom is a baggy, seven-inch prelubricated polyurethane tube designed to line the vagina. It looks like a cross between a pair of diaphragms and a male condom that might have been used as a water bomb. It can’t have helped that the Danish inventor, Dr Lasse Hessel, originally intended it to be used as an incontinence sheath.

Newspaper headlines such as “Is that an amoeba between your legs?’’ weren’t helpful either. And let’s not forget the infamous “rustle’’, the noise that the Femidom made during sex.

Surprising, then, that it is precisely the female condom’s shape and modus operandi -- as well as its funny rustle -- that have helped reverse its fortunes. It might not have taken off in Britain, but in at least 80 of the 125 countries where the condom is sold, it’s huge news.

By the late 1990s, the product was in the hands of an American firm, the Female Health Company (FHC), and business was so bleak that it was on the verge of throwing in the towel. Then Mary Ann Leeper, the firm’s president, took the first of two phonecalls that would change everything.

“It was a woman called Anna, from Harlem, New York,’’ recalls Leeper. “She said: ‘I just called to thank you for doing this. If I asked the man I live with to wear a male condom, he’d beat me up and throw me out. Me and my sisters, we use this and we thank you greatly.’”

The second call came several months later, from a woman called Daisy at the Health Ministry in Zimbabwe. “She told me that ... she had a petition signed by 30 000 women wanting us to bring the female condom to Zimbabwe,’’ says Leeper.

Sniggering at the Femidom, it seemed, was a privilege only for those lucky enough to have a choice about whether to sleep with a man who wouldn’t wear protection. FHC subsequently struck a deal with the World Heath Organisation to sell the female condom at a discount to education programmes in more than 80 developing countries, mainly those hit hardest by Aids.

Its reception was unprecedented. “It’s very hard to reverse negative preconceptions,’’ says Anne Philpott, who worked for FHC, introducing the female condom into sexual health programmes for three years until last February. “But in Colombo, Sri Lanka, where I was working with female sex workers, their clients hadn’t heard of a female condom before. So there were no preconceptions, and rather than saying, ‘This is a condom, this is going to protect you,’ [the women] marketed it as a sex toy, allowing the client to insert it -- a real thrill, because seeing a vagina up close, or touching one, is a huge taboo in Sri Lanka.’’

The design held a further unexpected thrill, as the plastic ring inside rubs against the tip of the penis during intercourse, intensifying the man’s orgasm. Subsequently, the prostitutes started charging more for sex with a female condom. Suddenly, FHC had tapped into a whole new approach to marketing.

In Senegal, the condoms are sold with noisy “bine bine’’ beads; an erotic accessory that women wear around their hips. The rustle of the polyurethane during sex is now associated with the clicking of the beads -- and so, a turn-on.

In Zimbabwe, where 930 000 of the 1 600 000 adults infected with HIV are women, a new word -- kaytecyenza -- has entered the vernacular to describe the “tickle’’ created by the inner ring rubbing against the penis. Women too are gaining extra pleasure from the condom.

In the developing world, the FHC’s strategy is to raise the quantity of female condoms sold from 10-million to 200-million -- staggering when you consider that six to nine billion male condoms were bought and distributed last year in the developing world. As for the rest of the world, the issue now is money, says Leeper, and the FHC is looking for a commercial partner “committed to reproductive health’’.

With women accounting for 47% of all people living with HIV globally, and British teenage pregnancy and sexually transmitted infection rates soaring, it would be nice to think that the Western world might take inspiration from the men of Sri Lanka, and instead of an amoeba, start seeing in the female condom “a beautiful, blooming lotus flower’’. But that could take some time. -- © Guardian Newspapers 2005

Ke ngibuze:

1. is it true that the female condom should not be used by someone with fibroids and those wearing a loop?

2.What is it that you call oral sex?

3.is there no risk kwabesilisa ngoba ngizwa kuthiwa kulabodade who choose to reuse these condoms, especially omahosha.