ngibuhlungu ngomehlakalo owenzakala kwelengilande ngokubulawa kwabesifazana khona kuyabe sekutheni loba kwenzenjani?yinto esidume kakhulu sizani sizwe sikamthwakazi ukuthi umuntu kufanele enzenjani ma umfazi selitshapha

Uma elezicathulo zibophe ziqine, kuthi uma ulamasokisi uwakhweze, uma ulenduku uyithathe uqonde ngasolwandle ufike lapho uyiphonsele khona induku yakho. Kodwa ungakhohlwa ukuthatha iSuitcase yakho uyibophe ngengxoza utshaye phansi okomswenya, uhambe unomphela, ungalokothi umfake isandla umntwana wabantu ngoba ungacina usulingeka ukthi umbulale ikakhulu uma lawe eziphosa.

amanye amadoda abulala abafazi ngoba esefebile

inkinga ekhona ngeyokuthi labo abafazi ma bengafika phetsheya kwelengilande bebuye behole upondo kakwini basuka bebone sengathi bayalingana labesilisa.

Mina ngibona ingani ngamadoda who begin to feel threatened nxa umama ehola imali eyedlula eyendoda. Indoda then begins to be suspicious, esekugayel' iz'bozi zodwa. Nxa ungaphuma uthi uyakunight shift khona, mayee!!! Uyabe ususiya kwamanye amadoda. Naturally, men want to be providers in the home, there is nothing wrong with this, they just find it difficult to communicate their discomfort when they are unable to fulfill their responsibilities.
Stop blaming these women, they have to feed their families one way or the other.

Hayi ah ukuthi efida eyami ifamily ngingalwa, nikisi kukhona enye ifamily ayabe eseyifida. Yikho okulenkinga khona. Siyazibona izindlu ezithengwa ngabodadewethu becebisana labomama, abakhwenyana befihlelwa. Kodabuka ibhulugwe mhlazana umkhwenyana ediscover ukuthi ubekade edlalwa umakadebona.

nomakanjani!

Kuyabe sokutheni nxa umama esesiyathenga indlu without her husband's knowledge? Kimi kutshengisa ukungalalelani lokungaplani lonke as husband and wife.
Njalo nxa umkakho eseyitshayile leyo night shift wayathenga igrocery, ngubani odlayo? Abantwana uzabathathela ukudla sekuphambi kwabo?
Likhumbule bakwethu ukuthi ilanga liyatshona, inyanga lenkanyezi lazo zikhanyise kancane, angali ukuthi akufanani, kodwa yimvelo.

lndaba yezindluyona ivamile kakhulu kwele-ngilande
Singala ngendlela zonke ukuthi akwenzeki phandle kwemvumelwano,kodwa kuvamile kakhulu esintwini sakithi ukuthi omamazala belusa imizi yabantwababo
abesifazana.Kufana lomzali onikeza umntanakhe umuthi wokulungisa umuzi wakhe(ukudlisa indoda eyidlisela uthando).

Nomakanjani
Kanti khona kuwrongo yini ukudlisa ubaba? Angithi ngezela uthando?Kanti nxa umama elungisela umuzi wakho kuecala? Phela lingakhohlwa bobaba ukuthi lani i infedelity ibhahile kini. Lami sengizwe omama kumbe odade abanengi bekhala ngokuthi heyi ende u Themba urafu shuwa ngimthengele itikiti yena kanti usefika ethatha ikhiwa kumbe unesi olesiteyi.Wonela ukwehla e Heathrow wahle wathi wangichaphichaphisa hayi umama uMaMoyo!So bobhudi i donot condone odade abalahla umlenze bona bendile kodwa singaze sabisela insolo ngangxanye. The truth is vele living a different culture to your own will bring problems ngoba phela abanye bethu abakwazi ukwehlukanisa abakubona ku Eastenders labakubal kuSun le reality! Akelibone okwenziwa nguMakosi?Wena bhudi engikuthembileyo usubuya laye kimi usithi dade ngithole intombi!Hayi mkhulu u Ndaminya olele ngaphansi komsehla eKezi kwehlula amazwi!!!

NgoMakhosi uyihlabe esikhonkosini.Kodwa eyokudlisana ngeyinye ke leyo

MaNde

nami nginguMageza njengawe uyabona eyokudlisa yinumber one. uyabona nxa uthethwe kwaMageza dlisa ngoba uzosala ubambe izisila zejuba. kukhona omunye umagogo, ingane ibisikhale njalonje ngosekaSipho ongasalalendlini osedla out. ugogo wamgoqelela okuyimpushana okumnyamanyana okuthi akubeloqambothi oluqamul'impumulo. wasemyala ke ukuba akuvuvuzele enyameni hatshi obisini. wahlala enza lokho alahlele noshilisi awu adl'ancind'ufeleba uvuthwe umuzi. yaphel'impushana belu ingesiwona umhlola. waphindela kunina, umagogo wamholela kwaCheckers awu wamdobhela igajana le-aromat lexutshwe noshilisi wathi yiso isidliso lesi hatshi ukuhlabela umyeni wakho inkomanzi yena ephuzile mphekele inyama uyinonge kahle mlinde maye edla mfakele enye mphathaphathe mthintathinte ngesinqe, yikudlisa lokho hatshi imithi yabosiwaluwalu ezodala isifo esiyofuna ukhonkovula lwenyanga ukuba siphume mhlasimbe sithathe umphefumulo. leya eyobulesbian liphutha nje angithi umbhedo wabelungu loya imihlola nje. asazi.

Hayi kuyezwakala elikutshoyo angithi vele siyaxwayisana. Bengi ngakukhangelanga ngale indlela elikubeke ngayo. Kodwa phela likhohlwe ukuselula thina odade ngokuthi senze njani phela ukuthi lingasibalekeli selifike lapha ngo Magi? Ye ngiyakuphekela, ngikuphathaphathe, ngenze konke engakufundiswa ngumama kodwa wena uyabaleka stilli. pho ngikuteme kanganani bo soka lami?

Siyenze isilwane singalambi ngokungenzeka siyadla utshani

Mmm! bakwethu akelizifundele le nsumansumane yendaba impicabadala, ngezansi:

http://www.isolezwe.co.za/general/print_article.php?fArticleId=2563595&fSectionId...

Maqhama

indaba yesolezwe le yishort story or kanjani? Ah!

MaNde

uyabona angazi sithini abantu abangobaba angazi sisuka silahlekephi, abasemabhawa lemachurch yintonye. but bomama zamani. i think into engcono is to educate the boy child and break the cycle yobufebe besilisa ikakhulu sekulalesi sifo senculaza, imbongi yabantu ithi ayazi noma utshefu. sikhule kwethu amantombazana ebanjwa ngamadlebe abafana kulula nje. may be singaqala lapho i-nex-generation ingalila okulobubelo. asazi.