Nowadays anal sex seem to be the THING. I want to know hear your views on this one. Uzokwenzenjani uma uthandana nomuntu athi He/She prefers it more than lena esiyaziyo.

Nginyanyiswa ngokwenyanyekayo, ngiyenyanya unyanyo lwamanyala. Umhlomi womthondo entubeni yodede uyanyanyeka.

Lunyanyo lwengcekeza olunenkinsa inhliziyo, oluhlanganisa iphunga lodede lephunga lemihluzi efihlekileyo, kumbandakanya imhluzi enyanyekayo inyoza emanyaleni engcekeza.

Lingixolele ngolimi bakwethu, ngiyenyanya.

Amanyala.

uqedile DOKOTELA ha ha ezandleni bo!!!!

Ngibona sengathi indecision on the matter could be because lawe uyakuthakazelela.

mmmtttthhhuuuuuu--uu-u udoti lowu.mina ngeke ngikwazi ukukwenza lokho.uyaphuma unjani,umnuko ke uzawenzani.

mmmtttthhhuuuuuu--uu-u udoti lowu.mina ngeke ngikwazi ukukwenza lokho.uyaphuma unjani,umnuko ke uzawenzani.

Ca lana uyayibeka mfo..Unkulunklulu wadala uAdam lo Eve not uAdam abd Steve need i say more,ngamanyala lawa sis...

Khona kuyabe kutheni bantu benkosi.
Kambe sekuze kuthiwe ngikhethe phathi kwe Khekhe lothuvi.

Hatshi mina ngizama nge khekhe bantu bakithi.

Haa, ngumhlolo phela lowo.Umhlaba usuphelile ngitsh'u Gogo sibili.Hawuuu,lingadla ngizihlalele bantu benkosi.Ngamanyala ngempela shlobo sami.Mthu-u-u-u.

Bafowethu.

Le YINGCEKEZA ongeke uyihlambe langawaphi amanzi. UMKHONTO OGWAZA i.......??? Hayi aaghhhh!

Li Zwangendaba.

Haaaaaa Kanti sekungenwa ebhotshi?!!!!!Mina nje cha bakithi niyongixolela bandla!!!!Abadle ngihlale!!!!

Liqiniso leli ngamaNigeria??Bengithi mhlawumbe yinto zabelungu hatshi umuntu wekhaya eAfrica,bengithi kayikho lento.Abantu bafuze bazazi hatshi ukuthatheka.Okunye uyabheka nje uyeke kwedlule,whats next???swapping wives/husbands or having group sex!!Doti + + + x a million times!

Ngithemba lokhu akwenzakali koMthwakazi ngoba kungabe kuyikufa kwelizwe elihle lethu.Kulihlazo, amanyala angaphezu kwamanyala wonke. Kambe umuntu angathi ephiwe,ngumdali into enhle njalo emnandi kangaka ayebona kungcono ukudla uthu....Fakazani majaha lamantombazana akithi ukuthi lokhu hatshi sibili!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Let those who have twisted minds do it.

Uyabona ke ndicinga ukuba okhu yimbudane nje.Ayizange yenziwe lento kwethu, ndiqale ukuyiva ngabelungu mna ndiliNguni ndinguMxhosa ndingowesizwe sikaMthwakazi andikwazi ukuvumela obu budenge,masiyiyekeni le iyenyanyisa kwakhona.

madoda yindaba lingalaleli, lisenza lithule lizaze lilimale.
lizavuvuka amakhanda ngendaba leyo

Ca mina ngithi nikakwenzi ngoba nizofana nje nemidlwingili(gays),Phela labo they are the lowest of all lives..

Nabadala abasifundisi phela, bathi yekela kukhule nokhula kanti ababoni ukuthi bayasibulala.

mina ngake ngakuzama kodwa angikuphindi futhi

Sitshebo,sebakutsheba mfethu!!Oh MY God,why don't you tell us more.Why ungasaphidi mfo?What led you to do it?Shee angilankani,umama sibili!

khonokhu phela ukubona amaporn kumawebsite ngathi yekela lami ngizame kodwa ngacina sengisubuke ikhanda lento lonke lababomvu gebhu kwathi lezihlamaa ngahle ngathi mpu akuphindwa lokhu.konke lokukhotha ngakuzama hayi akulanto eyangihambelayo

Mahlekwazinyoni uyasethuka thina esikwelamataliyana...mina lento ngayenza kodwa phela lowesimama hatshi lamadoda iyangesabisa leyo.kodwa phela i will do it again tranquilly!! Bhekani phela lento imnandi nxa uyenza lomama ohlanzekileyo hatshi abenu labo elazama labo boSitshebo!!Uyazidlela nje kahle ikakhulu nxa ufuna ukumkhawulisa lodade edelela as punishment yikho lapho ongadla khona without lubrication. Wena Sitshebo waluthela ungelayo njelo udla ngamawala njengomvundla!!Uyaluthela mbijanambijana nje luphelele..obamkhulu kabazange basitshele kahle ngalezindaba mhlawumbe babekwenza labo yikho ke kulabo abalokhu belabo khulu buzanini kahle bazalitshela...

Homer. Lento oyikhulumayo angiyizwisisi. Yena usisi uyabe elemizwa yini nxa umthela emdi. Phela mina ngolwazi olufitshane engilalo KuVagina yikho okule Clit. eyiyo insika yokukholisa kubo mama.

Phoke uma sekuhlonya kuloba yisiphi isikhala siza thola abantu sebehloma lasemakhaleni.

Khona umama uyabe ekhawuliselwani.

Kakhawuliswa kodwa uyakholisiswa, Hawu bantu. Okunye abantu babobheka nje batshiyane lakho

Mathimula baba, the female body is a very complicated thing...akuyona i clitoris ebakholisisayo kuphela...4 example abanye bayakholisiswa nje yikuba umbambebambe umzimba wonke umkhothakhothe wonke umzimba....khuluma labo bazakutshela..i dont expect u to know much from Zim women coz sex is a sacred subject to them they simply dont discuss this...e.g abanye they want u utshaye fast and faster abanye bathi slowly pliz no hurry...

Kukanti abanye balufuna khona ezibunu baba kukanti abanye they just wanna explore their bodies...adventure baba....ngivakatshela ngikufundide mina ukuba uhlanyiswa njani umfazi akaphinde akukhohlwe empilweni yakhe...lokhu akutsho ukuthi akeze akutshiya kodwa angakwenza lokho uzazisola aze ayekufa ngoba akeze wathola omunye who can beta yo performance....

homer ngivumelana lawe 100%.mina owangakwami wayekholisa sibili ngimufaka njalo nguye owathi akusikuzame ngemva kokubona ifilm yepornoo.kuyabachaza sibili abesintwana ukufakwa ngemuva.manje njengoba uHomer etshilo kufuna ukuhlanzeka lelubrication .iproblem engilayo yikuthi lowonkazana engangisenza laye sesalana manje engilaye kathesi ngitsho ngeze afa avuma into enjengaleyo ngoba yilaba abewatchtower.lowana engangilaye wayengimunya sibili ngize ngicheme kodwa lowu kaqali ufuna imissionary and nothing else.amacondom ngizeka ngifake 4..eish

Ngiyakuzwela Sitshebo mfowethu..wangihlekisa ke nge watch-tower yakho le..Mina when it comes to sex ngiyazikholisela sibili ngithaphuze ngizame yonke into. Yikho lina abanye lisuke lidla lapha lalapha licine seligula..zama yonke into lowangakwakho uzabona ukuthi awuzewadakwa yikuba laye..mina ngiyamncenga sibili nxa engavumi alumunye sibili kumbe ngidle sibili ku traditional skhala kodwa ngichamele emlonyeni wakhe awu bantu ngiyatapula sibili luluju..hlalani ke lina elifuna yona yodwa...yikho babethi beza kithi bethi nxa sesibadlile bathi angikaze ngibanjwe ngendlela le ongenza yona!!Bheka ke italiyana lami liyakhala ngami lingibiza wonke amalanga lihambe ummango amakhilomitha lamakhilomitha lizoludinga olwami!!

Homer uyindoda, akuqubeke usifundisa lathi izigwadi esingazi lutho ngezoncansi...siyabonga mfethu

Ahhh madoda kanti sesaafundiswa ngobani amanyala,yak mani,seis!!!

i never knew Mthwakazi has porn stars!!!Maye uHomer lo..asazi sibili!

Hawu zihlobo uyangenwa nje owesintwana,ungene nje nxazonke. Uqala emlonyeni uthi yaka yaka nxa ethi uyalalelisa um'bhodise phela umthele ngapha ajayelekhona, umuthi nephu nephu nephu, utshaya phela ngempama futhi izihlalo zakhe lezi. Angithiphela uyabamanzi, khupha ngokuphangisa ubusungenake ngapha ebulongweni,hawu ke, lomthokozo uyehla sibili. Angithi uyabe ubhodisa phela. Uthi , emlonyeni, kuyo kanye into lasempentshweni pela, hayi liyakholisa inina lakho. Angithi sidinga khona ukulikholisisa.

hahahaha...Meli waze wangephula...wena nguwe okwaziyo ukuthi umfazi udliwa njani...amandebele sesajayela okweyephuyephu angani kuthiwa singobhinya..izinto lezi zifuna ukwenziwa mbijana mbijana...

Manje nxa sekusuka ebulongweni kusiya emlonyeni, kube kusese yinto enhle.

ASIMANYALA NJE. AKUNUKI MAKAKA NJE.

Phela uMdi ungaze uwugeze, uwufake amakha amnandi lamalotion. Okusalayo yikuthi u Mdi ngu Mdi. Nxa ungafuni ukunikelwa tshiyana lawo. Tshiyanani lokunikelwa lizithi liyakholisa.

Asikho abanye becina sebengabakakelwayo emlonyeni kuthiwa kuzanywa ubunandi.

Mathimula, Mahlabayithwale laweZela hawu fundanini bo. Abafazi benu bazaliwulela, bhekani phela odade bayaxoxa bebodwa akusithi sodwa abesilisa esixoxa ngalindaba. Nxa omunye emchasisela ukubana ubanjwanjani ngowakwakhe wena ungakaze umdiskhave uzosukaphela ayezama labanye..take a leaf from my book of wisdom called Vafanghala!!Ungalulandela uzonqoba wonke umfazi odlule ngakuwe will find it hard ukuba athole omunye ongakholisisa njengawe..in short..she will neva leave u in peace or alone. Uzokudinga akufumane...Zama khohlwa ngomnuko lo ohlala uwucabanga manje sengiyobona ukuthi amankazana enu kahlanzekanga!

Hawu bakithi, angithi udliwa ngazozonke indlela. Uthatha isikhathi phela ukuthi umsuthise umama. Umsuselakhatshana njalo ngxazonke hatshi okweqhude lokhu engibona sengani yikho okucatshangwa ngumfowethu. Laloleli iphunga elitshiwo ngumnumzana kawulizwa. Phela libonanzelela ukuthi nxa liqalanje ukuyikhuluma lendaba yocansi lomama, kubakhona uzimu olusuka lugoqele phela bobabili. Alisezwa lomnukolowo. Akelicabange ubaba ozidlela amabele akhe ngitsho isgodokhaya phela, abesezithunqisela intuthu zakhe igwayi phela. Uma ethikumama heyi wazewazinyikinyake lamuhla izihlalo zakho wentombiyami. Nxa kufikakuye ukuthi namuhla nanko, kuhle kubelento nje elithandelayo, ungekananzeleli selikhothana nje. Njalo bayagezaphela lababantu. Nanzelela ukuthi lamakha lawa eliwathintayo ayawuvala umoya womuntu oyiwo omnandi. Kageze kuphela owesintwana nxa umthinta kubakhona ukufoma okuyizithukuthuku okumnandi, okwenzalawe baba ulaka lwengutsheni lwande phela hawu ujibuluke okwenkunzi umavava.

Ngiyavuma Meli Omuhle...batshele

Yebo, hatshi ngiyalizwa bantu bakithi. Kodwa mina ngithi qhubekani ligwaza phakathi kodede njengoba kulijabulisa. Kodwa ngombono wami ngibona sengathi lento liyenza ngoba lisithi lesaba ukubalekelwa ngabafazi. Kukanti akudingeki ukuthi udle umumbu uze udle lesiqu sawo. Hatshi. Angithi phela isiqu yikho okumila khona umumbu. Mina ngingulowayana owosa umumbu ngamalahle amtoti. Angiwujahi, ngiba nje ngiwu phendula, kancane kancane uthi nxa usuvuthiwe hawu ngizihululele nje. Umnandi njalo ngiyasuthiseka . Lomunye wami laye uyasuthiseka.

Ngithanda njalo ukukholisa isitho sika mame. Uma sengizangena emdi kamama sekutsho phela ukuthi lendoda ingadunusa sengizafuna ukudibha. Hatshi bo. Ake lizihlolisise lina i sexuality yenu. Mhlawumbe ngikhuluma labantu abangena kubomama babuye bangene lase madodeni ngoba lisithi liyawakhawulisa.

Funda ni bantu bakithi ukwehlukanisa phakathi kwama movie le REALITY.

Ibhayisikopo lempilo akufani

Ah wena ungangihlekisi so, do yu really mean it or ufuna ingxoxo iyephambili. Kamb'umuntu angesula nxa engaphandle uyenelisa yini ukukhotha lokho esule ngakho?

Ingemuva yelongwe layo iyakhupha yini imihluzi yokulungiselela inkonzo yecansi?

Kangifundi amanyala mina,njalo imfundo enjengale oyitshumayelayo kayila ncedo kimi,ngitsho lamehlo ami ayenyanya ukubona amanyala

Mina Njengendoda esatha amanye amadoda, I will be the first to say kulezinye izindlela zokukholisa ezinjengokuwukhotha ngolimi umdidi, lokuwudlalisa ngomunwe. Kodwa bakhona abathandayo ukusathwa. labo bayabalwa.
Kumnandi khona, kodwa kufuna ukujayelwa. It doesn't come easy. Any Questions?

Uhlokoza uMdi wenye indoda ngomunwe...

He he he.

Owami awuthintwa. Induku ingephukela ekhanda lomuntu. Khona umunwe uvele ufunani e mdi. Angithi umdi yisidikiselo sentwala thuvi. mpthu

 Originally Posted By: mathimula

Uhlokoza uMdi wenye indoda ngomunwe...

He he he.

Owami awuthintwa. Induku ingephukela ekhanda lomuntu. Khona umunwe uvele ufunani e mdi. Angithi umdi yisidikiselo sentwala thuvi. mpthu

Hk hk hk hk hk hk hk hk hk

Kambe mfowethu MAhlaba uyangizwisa nje.

Umunwe E Mdiii....
Okabani????????????

Mina ubulema obuditshaniswe lobufebe ngivele angizwani lakho.

mfazi kumbe ndoda angihlonywa munwe mina e nduleni.

hatshi bo ngiyafunga ngiyagomela

Ndoda Ekhwelwayo
Owami umbuzo yilo, livela ngaphi komango baba njalo lakuqeqetsha ngaphi lokhu? Pho ke njengoba usithi lowo mkhuba awuzi lula udinga ukuzejwayeza, can you then say it is a way yokuzithokozisa or uyazidela, uzikhalale, ufundise ingqondo ukuthi kumele izitshele ukuthi kumnandi, besekuthi nxa usujayele ubususithi sengikholisa? Into emnandi phela ingu biza biza yu do not nid ukuzifundisa ukuza uyikholise. Owokucina umbuzo, labo obaba obasathayo ngabesintwini na, bavela kuwuphi umango?

Nanso inkomo imzala umuntu koMhlahlandlela, indoda idunusisa enye ibisikhotha ngolimi lapho okungaqambeki langebizo, qede lapho ihlome isitho, ivekuze ichame, ah yimihlola le. Enye ngapha layo ihlokoza kunkosikazi qede lapho imthuthele isitho sakhona emlonyeni ha, yeyeni bantu ake lingizwise!!!
Xolani bakwethu amagama ayinhlamba engiwasebenzisileyo, yikuthi angilankani ngilapha. Ukhoth'umdidi ukuthi kutheni!! Ha ngitsho lenkomo eziyizo ezadalelwa ukukhothana azikhothani emdidini lembunjini. Shuwa sesingedlulwa laziwotshi, angizange ngibone iwotshi ikhotha kumbe izeka udidi weny'iwotshi.

mmm...oweyinye indoda manje khonapho mina hayi ngitsho sibili...kodwa owomfazi ngiyalubeka sibili..especially laba abalezibunu ezinkulu eziyiround njengejodo ngibathanda kubi..akulanto enhle njengesibunu somfazi uyezwa abantu besithi umfazi ulesibunu lowana kodwa nxa sebesiphiwe isibunu abaselanto abayenzayo..

uuummm lo osatha eyinye indoda hatshi mina kangivumelani lakho lanxa ngingelahlupho labo until bazebafune ukungithinta!! Mina bobaba lingizwe kahle ngizidlela owesimame, hayi bo lokho okunengi elikutshoyo yikwesaba! Akusikho kuzifundisa luthele nje uzabona kuzokuhambela kahle..its like making love normally 2yo woman..nxa sekuyindoda hatshi ke kuyantshintsha!! umunwe emfazini hayi ngiyawungenisa sibili kungekho hlupho...zamanini madoda kuzalihambela kuhle..

Asazi- Ke... Nxa lile homophobia isingeyenu, ke. Bengithi ngilazise.

Asazi- Ke... Nxa lile homophobia isingeyenu, ke. Bengithi ngilazise.
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Yikho ngaphezulu ngithe abantu bazihlolisise i sexuality yabo ukuze nxa sixoxa sazi ukuthi kuxoxwa lomuntu onjani.

eish sekungene isitabane enkundleni....

yeyeni madoda!!! benzani lababantu???????????

kodwa Mthwakazi yini le engiyizwayo indoda iza ebandla izokhuluma ukubola okunje!!! yo yo yo, phela okunje ngikuswelela lamagama. Ini????

UTHUVI, AMANYALA, UDOTI, KUBOLILE KUYENYANYEKA KUYAYANGISA MPTHU-U-U.

Wena odunusela enye indoda ukuthi ikufake akufanelanga ukuthi ngabe uyaphila. LoMdali umenzela phansi, ululaza labesifazane, ubolile ukubola. MPTHU-U-U, UTHUVI, AMANYALA, YO YO, BANTU BAKITHI!!!!!!!!!!!

Homophobia yani. Wena baba zibuze ukuthi uqale nini ukuba yi gay. yikubona amamovie amabi ubusungenwa ngamademoni. Nxa amadoda endasathana wonke ngubani ozabazalela abantwana? It's not natural lizasitshayisa ngonkulunkulu.

Ingxaki yikuthi abantu basuka bacabange ukuthi umuntu uyavuka ngolunye nje usuku esesithi usefuna ukubayisitabane. Ngiyalizwela lina bobaba abale phobia ngoba kuzolithola. Ngizwela abantwa benu abaza khula bengalitsheli ukuthi bayisima kanjani. Ngokuba lina alilalo uhlupho lokuthanda amadoda lingasuki selisithi thina silamadimoni. Litshona ligudlana lathi lisiskhombisa, liqila abafazi benu lathi, kodwa nxa selihlangene ngobudoda benu selisuka lenze sengathi thina sadalwa ngusathani. Kubuhlungu nxa ngihlangana labantwana abangabafana, noma ngamantombazana abalemizwa ehlukeneyo (people who love differently), bexotshwa emakhaya, abanye bezibulala ngoba baswele ukuthi bangaphephelaphi. Nxa into ungayizwisisi, buza, ngoba kusasa uzakwenzani nxa owakho umntwana evuka ekutshela ukuthi uthanda enye indoda noma omunye umfazi? Mina ngathi ngitshela abazali bami, umfundisi wami labangane, kwakunzima, ngoba ngacabanga khona lokuzibulala ngisithi ngilihlazo... Kodwa ngathola i support engangingayi cabageli. Umuntu oyisitabane uyafana lomuntu oyisilima. ngalokho, ngitsho ukuthi kufanele afike ebangeni lokuthi azibuze ukuthi, "yebo, angenelisi ukuba lemizwa eya kowesifazana, kodwa kuyini engikwenelisayo?" Asikuthanda kwabo ukuthi bathatnde owesilisa njengabo. Ukulala kwami enye indoda asiyo yodwa into engenza ngiphile... Ngiyasebenza, ngilabantu abangithandayo, njalo ngiyathanda. Nxa ungaba ngumngane wami uyindoda, akutsho ukuthi sengazafuna silalane.
Nxa ungakwazi... Buza. Ngizwela abanewenu, abantwabenu lezihlobo zenu eziseduze lani, ngoba yini elisi bulalayo. Likhumbule ukuthi asizidalanga. NANKA AMA WEBSITE ANGALIPHA "JUST A TIP OF THE ICE BERG" LINGESABI, AKULANHLAMBA: OFUNA UKUFUNDA OKUNYE OKUNEGI {NGEZITABANE} ANGANGITHUMELA I EMAIL KU: antiphobiabulawayo@yahoo.com
http://www.otkenyer.hu/truluck/index.html
http://www.triangle.org.za/
http://www.mask.org.za/
http://www.wits.ac.za/gala/
Asifundisaneni, singathukani... Lami ngingumuntu njengawe...

Mahlabezulu

lomuntu uyaqina mahlabezulu. mina kangisenelisi lokukhuluma ngayo lendaba, it really, really makes me sick. lingixolele

Phoke laba balemizwa ekhomba kumama kuyabe sekutheni sebefuna lokuhlaba esinye isikhala sabomama esiphuma ingcekeza. Ungathi pho yibo abaqamba amanga bethi bona bangamadoda kanti ensitha bajola lezitabane.Asibo nje obatshoyo ndoda e.........

Asibo pho abalikhombisayo ensitha. Mina ngitsho ngoba isikhala sekaka sivele asingithi thiki lakanci......... yinto nje engikhumbuza izinto ezinjengo tsheko, ikaka kanye lamanyala. Angizenzisi futhi.

Please don't fantasize about me

lami umuntu lowu angisamzwisisi madoda hayi lowu is a genuine sitabane sibili...hayi

Ndoda ekhwelwayo
It is bad to be judgemental and dismissive, i think one has to understand what actually make another man attracted to another man. Ngiyacela ke mfowethu (ubizwa bulili buni? isilisa noma isifazana?)ukthi wena luqobo lwakho usichazele ukuthi kuhamba kanjani ukuthi enye indoda ifune enye indoda, njengoba ukhulume ngobulima, usho ukuthi this is not natural as someone suggested? Is it fashion or is it something biological?

Madlenya,
Thank You for your question. Ngathi ngimncane, (about 5 yrs old), ngangisazi ukuthi ngangehlukene labanye abantwana abangabafane engangilingana labo. Don't get me wrong, I didn't find men sexually attractive at that age, but I noticed beauty and attractive masculinity. I would feel a tingle when I watched movie/ Tv series with good looking actors. Ngangingazi ukuthi lokho kwakubangelwa yini, kodwa, ngangisesaba ukuthi ngikhulume lobaba, kumbe noma ngubani ngaleso sikhathi.
There isn't a wake up moment where you feel you can turn gay, it's not a photgraphic event. Uhlala uvele uzazi wena phakathi kwakho ukuthi kulento oyizwayo engazwiwa ngabanengi. When I reached puberty, that "tingling" sensation turned into sexual attraction. It made me feel dirty and I tried to commit suicide 6 times unsuccessfully before I turned to my pastor in church. Nguye owangitshelayo ukuthi abantu badalwa okwahlukeneyo. To cut a long story short, I knew from a tender age. The only way I see it is that It is inborn.I AM AS MALE AS ANY MALE YOU MEET ON THE STREET. IF YOU MET ME, YOU WOULD NEVER KNOW. Ngicela ukhangele ama website engawafaka ku message yami ngaphambilini. If you have more personal questions, please dont hesitate to email me on my antiphobiabulawayo@yahoo.com address. I appreciate Your question.

No It's not a successful rate.... I guess I didn't really want to Die, But I wanted people to listen.LOL

These are the sites that might answer some of your questions: antiphobiabulawayo@yahoo.com
http://www.otkenyer.hu/truluck/index.html
http://www.triangle.org.za/
http://www.mask.org.za/
http://www.wits.ac.za/gala/

ndoda indaba yakho iyazwakala sibili kodwa esintwini leyo asonto ejayelekileyo.ukucchemela eyinye indoda ugomele sibili..aah kuyethusa lokho...pho othintitha omunye ngubani?manje amanye amadoda owokuzekaa liyawabona ngaphi nanko okuyinto kwenu akulamtwana?

why ingathi lomuntu sezopromotha ubutabane??? ignore the freak!!!

Ukuthi izitabane zikhona. Mina angiphiki mpela. Yikho kumele ziphumele egcekeni zichaze ukuthi ziyisimo bani. Nanku phela loba singabathandi kangako bakhona, sibabona njalo ezitaladini.
Sisebenza labo nsukuzonke.

INGABE PHAKATHI KWENU LONKE ELILA UKHONA ONGAPHAKAMISA ISANDLA ATHI YENA KAKAZE ABONE ISITABANE.

Ngibona sengathi ngokungabazwisisi laba abantu yikho nje sengiphikisana lalaba abathi mina ngimele ngiluthele e mdii kankosikazi. Lina elithaNDA ukuhloma emdi wabafazi lalelani njalo lilimuke.Nangu umuntu uzalazo. Engxenye lingomunye wakhe lisadinga nje liphika ubuyibo benu.

Kodwa nje bengicela ndoda ekhwelwalyo..........Bekungathini untshintshe igama.Alilihle kangako...

Ngiyabonga Mathimula. Sengizolitshinsha- ke lelibizo. Into nje kungangithatha isikhathi ngoba angikakwazi ukuthi kwenziwa njani. TO THE GUY WHO CALLED ME A FREAK... : I AM SORRY YOU FEEL THAT WAY ABOUT ME. I HAVE GOTTEN OVER PEOPLE LIKE YOU WHO INSULT PEOPLE THEY DONT KNOW... MAYBE ONE DAY YOU WILL TEACH ME TO JUDGE SOMEONE I'VE NEVER MET BEFORE.. I respect others and it would mean a lot to me if others respected me too. There is nothing special about me, but, I am of intrinsic value to most people who know me and love me. First I am a man, Second I contribute greatly I have a family that loves and accepts me for who I am, Third I love my work and contribute to my people in my country and I stand up for my rights, Fourth I am gay... and that is a small fraction of my life. Sex does not rule me... there are far much better things in my life that sex. Ngiyabonga... Ofuna ukuphikisana Lami kumbe ukungizwisisa ngcono angangibhalela privately... I have provided my details. Be Man enough to face up with me. I am sick of homophobia. Thank You.

Ngethemba lingcono-ke lelibizo?

ya,lingcono sibili.

Lalela wena moffie... uyasibhowa ngendaba zakho zobusathane. Uyagula wena, kumele uyebona udokotela or maybe bakukhulekele abafundisi. Udinga uJesu empilweni yakho.

Mina impela ngingumuntu olenhliziyo yakhe enhle kakhulu,labangaziyo bengangifakazela,kodwa ngisuka ngifikelwa ngumoya kasatane ma ngibona isitabane noma inkonkoni.Ngisuka ngizwe inqondo yami ingitshela ukuthi ngabe ngihle ngisisusele amanqe ngokushesha isitabane,Angazi kwenziwa yini lokhu,lingangisiza bantu bakithi ngoba kulento engitshela ukuthi izitabane ngabe ziyafa zonke ukuze izikhala zamadoda zokukhipha amakaka zibelokuxolelwa.Ngisizeni lingikhulekele ngoba umoya lo uya ukhula kimi.Ngiyabonga.

Mninimuzi, Into oyikhulumayo ngiyayizwa sibili. Lami ngikengaba lawo, mhlawumbe ngingathi ngiselawo mbijana lo moya. Kodwa sengithe ngahla phansi ngacabangisisa sibili ngananzelela ukuthi loba ngiyathanda kumbe angthandi, izitabane zikhona. Njalo uma singagcwalelwa yikufuthelana sehluleke ukubhekana leqiniso elisemehlweni ethu sizehluleka ukuya phambili. Lami angithandi ukubona amadoda ekhwelana. Kodwa sengananzelela ukuthi akulanto engingayenza ngoba bakhona lababantu. Kumele sibekele baphumele egcekeni ukwenzela ukuthi sibazwisise ukuthi kanti bona abafunani.

SIngabazwisisa sizenelisa ukuthi sazi ukubagweba emthethweni nxa bewonile. Njalo sizakwazi ukubona labo abayizitabane abacatshileyo abadla ngokuthethisa izitabane eziphumele egcekeni bona beyibo izigilamkhuba ezinkulu ezidlwengula amajaha amancane zicatshe ngemizi.

Lingiqonde kahle. I am not GAY. Ngilwa labantu abaGay abacatshe ngabafazi besiphambinisa thina esithanda iznto zabo mama.

NGITHI MINA LAMHLANJE, PHUMELANI EGCEKENI.

Bongani,
Thank You for your very personal private message. I have no words or time for people like you. Good thing that you don't like me or that you wish me dead. At least I know where we stand with each other. Your homophobia does not intimidate me. it makes me stronger. You say I can't catch... ofcourse I cant catch you. That would be a wase of precious time and breath that God has given me. I do not hate you, as you are still a child in your thinking and you judge before you know the full story... Maybe you are gay yourself and are trying to hide it... who knows?

If you have anything to say to me, Say it here... I have no time to reply to your silly private message. I have more respect for someone like "Mathimula" because he thinks before he sends his messages. I could be a freak in your eyes, but show me a perfect human being and I will show you a liar.
Gentlemen... We haven't arrived yet. Maybe I am going to hell, maybe I am not. Only God will judge me. But as far as I know, I did not create myself, and that is a huge relief because I know God has got the whole world in his hands. I feel sorry for the people who love you, Bongani... they have a lot to deal with.

Maybe YOU need God. The God I know is a God of Love and He came to give us life to the full. Jesus died for Gays too! That is the most amazing thing about Grace. I am not ashamed of who I am, but I am not proud either! I am here, and I will make the best of it.
You are right... I do need God... Will You Give Him to me??? I don't think so.

Shame... How Sad For You. I wonder if you know who you are? I know who I am... I am a gay man who knows that he is not perfect, yet he is forgiven. God forgives. I have sinned against God... Not You.... Don't You Dare Judge, Lest You Be Judged Ten Fold.

Uxolo ukubhala ngesilungu... Ngibhala masinyane ngesilungu nxa isikhathi sami singangivumeli.

ndondehle sesizwile please would you go away.this sifuna ukukhuluma ngokuzekwaa kwabafazi hayikhona okwakho lokhu ufuna sonke sizekanee izibunu yini ?

hahahaha waze wangiqeda sitshebo, londoda akahambe vele, uyasibhowa thina. sifuna ukuzwa ngokuzekwa kwabafazi hatshi ledoti afuna ukusitshela yona. madoda kasimzibeni lomuntu, ufuna i attention, coz siyazi sonke ukuthi a ma gays love attention. anyway, ukhona osekewazeka imbumbu encane e tight kakhulu, uzobe usizwa engathi uyafosta...ayisibunandi!!!!!

Sitshebo lo Bongani!

Your views on ukuhlangana lowesifazana have no love in them and need to change drastically. Your expressions above are shocking to say the least and far too dry and technical for any decent woman's comfort. Mhlawumbe your sentiments are directed towards omama laba ababhadalisayo, angazi.

If you learnt to focus on the totality of the female person and not just isitho esingela bizo, you will have far much more fulfilling relationships in your life. Elikuxoxa lapha kuyasithuka thina abesifazane; just as badly as we feel insulted by homosexuals.

Indabayethu yayiqale kuhle kwasekufika lubaba owaqala enguNdodekhwelwayo khathesi senguNdodenhle. Bekuyikuhlokoza umama langemuva ebesikhuluma ngakho yazotshilwa yakhangeliswa le indaba.Nanku khathesi nangu omunye usekhuluma ngezitho zabomama ezitshiyeneyo, ngisitsho esincane lesikhulu phela. Seliphumile kunkulumo yethu. Nxa ngasuka kuhle ngalindaba sasikhuluma ngabonkosikazi bethu lapha ngekhaya, hatshi lokhu okwenu okokuhambake sekudingwa elitshiyeneyo. Dlanini khonapha ngekhaya.Umbambe umama, umphendu phendule. Umthinte yonke indawo. Lapho obambakhona uma esethuka, phindakhonapho. Umtshengise lesositho phela asibone sizondile singazondanga. Ungamdleli emnyameni. Khuluma njalo amazwi amnandi ngaye. Nxa usiza khonangapha ngemuva, uma ubona engesabi, thela azwe vele usuphakathi. Kuyadingeka futhi ukuba nxa untshintsha ihambelo lakho ntshintsha njalo indlela obubulangayo. Phela kuhlelakho ukuthi akwazi ukuthi uyakholisa, kukhanyakuphela nxa ububula laphana. Mabila akula kweyiswa kumbe ukukhangelelwa phansi nxa umuntu ezikholisela leninalakhe.

mabila ngivumelana lawe kodwa lapha thina besisithi yiforum yabobaba kuphela hatshi abesintwana..kambe wena ungangena esambuzini sabobaba ubafice begeza benqunu licala labobaba kumbe ngelakho.lapha sikhuluma ngokuthi umama kambe singamususthisa njani ukuze ahlale ethabile engutsheni lapha.kambe ukhona ofuna ukuhlala esidla isitshebo sinye yini.hanti ngelinye langa uyadla imbida ngelinye langa inkukhu eledobi ngelinye langa ingulube elebilebile.yikho ukuhamba kwezinto.abafazi lani liyakuthanda lokhu yikho phela nxa ligqoka libopha izibunu ziphume zibele ukuze silihawukele

Sitshebo Inkundla le ngeyomuntu wonke sicela ukuhlonitshwa,indaba ejikelwe enkundleni ihlafunwa ngabantu bonke,kayikho eqonde uhlangothi oluthile.

Kanti vele abesintwana bafunana eDale, lethophikhi ngeyamadoda hatshi abafazi. Sicela abafazi baphindele ekhishini bayosiphekela thina sisafunda ngendaba zamadodalapho. Homer, zwakala mfowethu, uzositshela futhi ukuthi umfazi umsuthisa kanjani...

yeyindoda lapha kubhalwe ANAL SEX..kambe nxa ungena phakathi uyabe ufuna ukuhlonitshwa ngubani shuwa...ngiyabuza.

is there a way of closing this topic. i think 4 pages is entirely too long to spend sixoxa ngamakaka lothuvi lobulongwe

Kutsho ukuthi uyavuma ukuthi into oyenzayo kayihlonipheki njalo kawumhloniphi lomfazi wakho?

iTopic leyi imunandi sibili kwabanye bethu so wena nxa ingakuthabisa that's not our problem.Why do you keep coming if it annoys you?Qalisa eyakho lapho uyabe uxonitshwa khona.lizitshaya abantu abazwayo lina lizekisaa angani zimbuzi

Hawu, sekutheni?

Akelisitshiyeni lina bantu elifuna ukuzenza ngcono, lapha kuseZothamlilo and there is no need for us to discuss izinto ezihloniphekileyo. thina sifuna ukufunda ngendaba zocansi, and just becoz lina seline experience you musnt be mean and no share with us young ones coz lathi sifuna ukusuthisisa amacherrie ethe coz if we dont bazosilahla bayokhomba amaswina and kubeyikuphela kwesizwe...

Bongani ngivumelana lawe mfanekhaya..kanti abantu laba bazamani

Sitshebo, angazi mfowethu ukuthi labantu bahlushwe yini, sebeze baxosha abantu abakade besifundisa indaba ezimnandi. Ubayeke , laba thina sonke esigcwala ngale thophiki masiqubekeni... Masiyeni phambili ....

Mthwakazi
Indaba yezitabane ifana leyabantu abaqala ukuzwa isitho embuzini.
Yibutshapha obungcolileyo bonke lobu.
Enye futhi into edala ubutabane yikuba seJELE
Izitabane kukhulunywa ngazo ebhayibhilini.
uTixo wabhubhisa iSodoma le Gomora ngenxa yobufebe lezitabane.
Bona ngabantu akukho esingakwenza okunengi sizakutshiyela
umdali onguye odala lezi iitabane.
Umuntu usengaphila ngomdidi 24/7.
Manje babhotsha nini khonapho behlabana.

Miza- Muntu

You are very opinionated! give others a space to breath.

miza-muntu

Ndlovukazi
Kanti ukhona mngane wami. Pho-ke wenzelani ukulahla umlomo.
Ungasoli imbono yabanye abantu nge 'ntshilankulumo'
kumbe nge hlombe elibandayo(cold shoulder)
Zikhona izitabane emphakathini wabantu abansundu ngakho asihluzeni ngodaba lolu singalu camiseli ufudu(Ignore)
Angithi uTixo wasilungisela iskhala saphambili kwabayiso okubusiswana ngaso.Pho- ke kungani sisola?
Ngicela ukubuza, iMota(Automobile) ilesikhala sokuthela amafutha
(fuel) kuthi emuva ibelesikhathi sokulahla idoti(exhaust)
Ukhona yini umuntu ongathela amafutha emota ku- exhaust acabange
ukuthi izohamba- (never)
Dlana ingqondo mthwakazi.

Miza- muntu

Miza
Ngivumelana lawe

Mabila
Icansi lilakho ukuwuchitha umuzi. Ngokunjalo kuhle ukuzwa imivo yabesilisa ngenkonzo yecansi. Uba bejatshuliswa yisitho esizacileyo kumamele lokho mhlawumbe kuyokusiza. Uba esakho sisikhulu mawungakhali ngofuna ukuhlonitshwa kodwa dinga amaqhinga okuthi sizace sisuthise omunye wakho. Imizi iyachitheka abantu besesaba ukuxoxisana ngezikhalazo zabo zocansi in the name of respect, lamagama afana laleli eliqhelileyo esintwin elithi lona "kuyazila". Isivuno samaphutha anje ajinge abemakhulu.
Asixoxisaneni ngesikukhangelelayo ecansini lokusikhubayo ukuze siphathisane.

Bongani
Abesintwana balalo ilingelo lokuba senkundleni lokuphatheka kumakhasi wonke avulwayo kugoqela loneli esiliphetheyo. Kuhle lawe wazi okukhangelelwa ngowesintwana nxa ababili besecansin. She is not just there to receive what ever is on offer, but has her own expectations and rights which she is entitled to. Ukuze ukwazi ukusuthisa owesintwana kuhle uxoxe labo, umamele ukuthi kanti bona bakhala ngani. Kwesinye isikhathi uzakuthi isitho sowesintwana sibi ngoba sikhulu kakhulu kanti hatshi wena nguwe isilima esilento encane kakhulu. Uzophathiseka uba ungavula indlebe, uxoxisane labanye ngobunene.

Sitshebo
Ungatshetshi ukuwatsho amazwi entukuthelo. Onakalisa into enhle kuchithwanwe, koniwane. Mawungatshetshi ukuthuka lokukhihliza inhlamba. Remember uxoxa labantu abalenkambo lobuntu obutshiyeneyo. Abanye batsho abakutshoyo ngenxa ye-previous experience zabo esingazaziyo. Kuhle babekezelelwe, baphathiswe ngobunene. Uyazi impedulo enhle, ethobekileyo iyenza isiwula siphume obala njalo siyangeke. Mawungatholakali udonselana labantu ngenkulumo nje ezingela nikisi ezikusizayo. Uba omunye etshaya ibatha makaboniswe indlela ngentobeko.

Ndodenhle
Isimo sakho usibize njengobulima, bengilomcabango onje nsizwa, suppose you call it umkhuhlane. Ngitsho njalo ngoba ngikubheka kanje, ubulima ezikhathini ezinengi abulungiseki kodwa ukugula kuyelapheka. Esakho isimo ngibona sengathi silakho ukwelapheka, hatshi ngemithi kodwa ngezinye indlela ezitshiyeneyo. Njalo kulombuzo olokhu usiza njalo nje engqondweni yami about you, though u - too personal. We ndoda usuke waya yini ecansini lowesintwana?

Amanyala ngamanyala; there is no other way to coin them. I used the word "insult" because your expressions of women in this column are just that; derogatory and insulting of women. Maybe alikwejwayelanga ukutshelwa iqiniso, but that is what it is. Women should never be objects of your perverted sexual fantasies, but whole people to love and to be loved. Isintu esangondlayo mina siyangalela ukumelana lengcekeza!! Amanyala kawaphele esizweni sika Mthwakazi. Nxa lingabantwana abondliwa emzini elembeko, lingizwile!!

Yebo mahlabezulu..ngiyalizwa..mina ngiyasho njalo..kasidleni omama ngemuva imnandi iyakhwabitheka..buzani laye uMabiza uzolitshela mhlawumbe nxa sewake wazama.Uhlupho yikuthi omama besintwini abangeze bathatha i initiative batshele obaba ukuthi bafuna ukuzama(try) lokho ngaphandle kokuba ubaba akusho..besaba phela obaba abanjengalaba abenza abafazi babo ama sexual objects ngoba bangabuzwa ukuthi bakuzwa ngobani lokho blaah blaah blaah. Mina owesintwana engangincitsha ngiyaphikelela sibili malanga onke ngiyazi ukuthi ngelinye ilanga ma ethabile uzaze angiphe kanti kuzocina ngani...Bongani zama hamba uyezidlela mfanekhaya...

Mabila, siphuma kiyo lathi eyakhiwe ngakonke ongakutsho, kodwaphela uyibona inje imizi yakhiwe nje yembeswe luphahla. ngitsho ukuba okwenzeka phakathi kwazo lezi zindlu kukhulu. phela nxa phela belifundisa ngeke batsho ukuthi libhuqane njani, ngoba lokho ngokwababili.

Angali ukuthi bantu bafundisane abafisa ukukufundisana. Engingakuvumiyo yikuthukwa lokweyiswa kwabesifazana. Lapho elikhulele khona lifundiswe ukuhlonipha onyoko, odadewenu, amadodakazi enu labobabakazi.Liyilahlelani leyo mfundiso??

HA wu ilokhu isogudwini lindaba.

Mina njengo baba angithandi kuphongukuhloma into yami kuloba yisiphi isikhala engisibona ku mama.Zinengi phela izikhala abantu abalazo. Ezinjengamakhala amehlo kanye laso lesi esiphethwe kulindaba. Bantu ake lekele ukuphanjaniswa ngamaTElevision lama porno.Yikho ngithanda kuthi abantu baphumele egcekeni njengo Ndodenhle. Ukuze ngazi ukuthi abantu engilabo ngabanjani.

Yikho ngingaphikisani laye ngoba akutshoyo angikwazi njalo ngifuna ukuthola ulwazi ukuze nxa ngihleli labantu abaGay ngihle ngiphange nginanzelele. Nxa ngithi ngiyaqathanisa izifiso lenkanuko zabathanda Isikhala samahlalaphansi abo mama ziphose zifane leza laba aba yiziTabane.

Mina okwesitho ngivele ngirayithi ngalesi engisithandayo. Ngizama ngaso ngize ngingene egodini.

Kodwa ngisalokhu ngimale ngoba nanku phela nxa uthanda ukusebenza e MDI.......... kamama. njalo usithi kumnandi. Ijaha elihle lao elila mahlalaphansi amakhulu linga thi lona liGAy uzathini. Awusoze utshaye yini.

Mina into emqoka engenza ngithande omama yindlela abahluke ngayo kimi. Kusukela esimweni somzimba,ukucabanga, kusiya ebuthakathakeni bejwabu. Phezu kwakho konke lokho indaba enkulu ngumtshina kamama. Njalo ngiwuthanda umkhulu, angithandi kungena endlini ngiminyezelwa. Ngithanda ukungena ngitshelela.Angithandi kulimala nxa ngingena

Okwalamuhla ngima la.

Eish Homer mfethu, ngikengazama ukulufaka ezibunu kodwa lontombazana ebengilele laye wavele wala. manje ndoda, ngizokuzwa kuphi ubunandi okhuluma ngakho. ngizoqhebeka ngizama...kodwa ngiyaphinda ngithi i kuku encane imndandi kakhulu, ngithemba iyawedlula umdibiriri...

Ngithemba nxa umfazi engathi yena ufuna ukuku kakela emlonyeni ngoba kuye kumnandi lizokujabulela bafowethu

Ugandans protesting about homosexuality. Anal sex is not different from homosexuality.