Clash of cultures!!Mina ngibona ungani kungcono manxa umuntu semdala kunguye ozikhethelayo ukuthi manxa sefile kunikezwane ngezitho zakhe. Kodwa manxa kungumntwana ngibona ungani kunga thukuthelisa abaphansi. Anginalo ulwazi kakhulu ngendlela yokwenza izinto ngendlela yesintu, kodwa ngibona ungani kulabo abakholelwa esintwini, if umuntu uyafuna ukunikezana ngezitho zomntwana, kuyamela kube khona indlela yokubikela abaphansi, maybe kuchithwe ukungamaheu nje.
Just to relate a different story, mina ngathi ngifika lapha eGoli, nganikezwa indawo yokuhlala ngabantu nje engingahlobani nabo ngaphandle kokuthi umama wakhona ngowakithi ngesibongo. Kwathi ngemuva kwesikhatshana ngikulowo muzi, umndeni wakhona bazwana ngokuthi ngi'adoptwe ngibe lilunga lomndeni okusemthethweni, ukuze ngithole amaphepha nami ngikwazi ukufunda kumbe ukudinga umsebenzi. Kwaphekwa utshwala babika ke emadlozini ukuthi sekukhona umntwana umusha ongasiye wegazi ngekhaya (even though nga sengili jongosi, kwathiwa nami ngizibike kulawo madlozi ukuthi ngingubani owakwabani ngitsho lezithakazelo zakithi ezabaKwena ukuze amadlozi akithi nalawo awabo angaxabani lapho ahlangana khona. Kwakumele langekhaya kuphekwe obunye utshwala abami abazali labo babike emadlozini akithi ukuthi hayi angilahlekanga njalo angifulathelanga, kodwa isimo yiso esenza ukuthi ngizithole sengili lunga lomunye umndeni. Yikho ke nami ngacina sengine khaya elesibili khona lapha eGoli. Lanamhlanje bayavakashelana abazali bami from both sides and everybody is happy.
Lapha ngizama ukuthi the same principle might be applied in this scenario.
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have no fear my children