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#26111 - 07/13/05 03:01 PM
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madwedwe
Mafikizolo
Registered: 05/17/05
Posts: 41
Loc: bulawayo
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Hawu msindo ungasethusi kanje.
Uthi wena uyafa ngendlala, awuphilanga kade wacina ukuba lejaha.
Inkinga yakho ingaphi? uma uyiCute byach leyo ozibiza yona manje kwala ngaphi.
Indaba yakho leyo inzima njalo ngeke sakunceda uma ungatshongo ukuthi ungumuntu onjani, ujongeni empliweni njalo lowo "Real Man" owawulaye wabalekiswa yini?
Akucace, phumela egcekeni.
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#26112 - 07/13/05 04:06 PM
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malimaza
Sikhulu
Registered: 05/01/03
Posts: 225
Loc: emqansweni wakofambeki
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Ngokubona kwami did the "real man" dump u?Yindaba ungambuzanga ukubana wakwalelani,there was a reason dade.Yikuthi abanye abantu baba lothando which they tend to give to every jack and jill,ube usucabanga ukuthi umuntu akumele.
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#26113 - 07/13/05 06:41 PM
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Mthoko
Sikhulu
Registered: 02/04/04
Posts: 238
Loc: G Skweya P.O Box Loxion
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Zama ukuzinceda. Ungavakatshela amagilosa athengiza ithoyizi zokuzinceda dade hk hk.
Ngiyazisomela dade. Zama 'Inkundla-yezothando', im sure akhona amajaha alephango njengawe dade!!
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#26117 - 07/14/05 04:54 PM
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Ngxibongo enks
Sakhamuzi
Registered: 11/06/02
Posts: 80
Loc: Khonapha
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My sister am not the one sort of person who likes giving advice on such matters, but however i must say your wailing somehow caught my attention.To bigin with i would like to offer you words of courage,wisdom and above all motivation so that you won't feel hard pressed and end up succumbing to temptation.Better late than never those are my first words of comfort to you.I know for a fact that greatest happiness in life is the conviction that we are loved- loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves.Having said this may i hasten to point out to you that love is a gift, its only that we receive this gift at different stages of our life time, some receive it earlier than others while others receive it a bit latter in life.Msindo allow me to tell you that you haven't received your gift yet! but it will surely come to you, thats as certain as much as we know the sun will rise from the east and set on the west.I have reason to believe that what you perhaps thought was the one wasn't at all, for what god gives never takes away.Rest easy my sister avoid temptations mingle with the right sort of people and visit the right sort of places and above all the way you carry yourself out says it all.If you want a proper man act like a proper lady and you will soon be set free for Mother Teresa once said "Love is a fruit in season at all times, and within reach of every hand." .I therefore believe that you also have a chance of stretching out your hand to receive this gift but be careful not to stretch your hand to everyman you will find yourself in muddy waters. i don't believe in going about taking risks with everyhand just like one of our members advised. It is quite simply dangerous in this day and age, take your time and remember the devil thrives in desperation my sister.Believe in yourself there are so many man out there who genuinely are looking for genuine women ,so for this reason let me say to you that you are not alone in this predicament but the difference is how you handle the situation.So Msindo your man is available out there and he is on his way, don't worry and go on trying everydoor its just not worth it.No man would want to get involved with everyone's woman but would want to appreciate and have in his arms a worthy lady.I hope my words will not bring about any pain in anybody's heart but will help everyone out there in a similar situation.
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#26118 - 07/15/05 03:40 AM
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zwide
Ngqwele
Registered: 02/01/05
Posts: 165
Loc: Lobengula
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Well to say the least i understand where you are cause im kind like there as well..you might find someone to relive the stress but then the True Love is hard to find ...
Don't just take risk..take calculated risks with your heart..
Pray about it...
Do not Rush it...
Enjoy your freedom...
And Hope that God will hear your prayers and give you some to LOVE... ![[Smile]](images/icons/smile.gif)
Good LUCK... ![[Big Grin]](images/icons/grin.gif)
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#26121 - 07/15/05 05:26 PM
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mzukulu-kagogo
Ngqwele
Registered: 06/17/05
Posts: 113
Loc: eMajawundeni
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Msindo ngizakukhumbila nxa ngiguqa ngoba lami ngibambe lunye.Uyazi kunzima ukuya ecansini lomuntu ongamthandiyo ukhangelele ukuthi kungaphuma uthando.Amatoyisi ngangiwakhumbule kodwa phela kawasoze afane layo uqobo.Ilala-vuka-sisi(doc shebeleza),kayisadlisi kulezinsuku ngoba ungasala lamafingure prints.Ama-cd lawo ngangiwasole ngenani labantu abasitshiya ngendaba leyana ezwisa ubuhlungu
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#26125 - 07/15/05 11:29 PM
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Bhudaza
Ndunankulu
Registered: 11/09/02
Posts: 584
Loc: Byo, Mthwakazi
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Msindo
Uma kuyikuthi uvele ulomsindo njenge gama lakho ngiyabona yikho okukhathazayo. Uboluma owangaphansi dade mhlawumbe amajaha kawafuni umuntu olomsindo. Mina ngokwami kangilandaba losisi olomsindo ![[Wink]](images/icons/wink.gif)
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#26126 - 07/16/05 12:34 AM
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Sgero
Ndunankulu
Registered: 05/31/04
Posts: 642
Loc: United Kingdom
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Dok
Wangibulala s'bali nge advice!
Bhudaza
Lawe umsindo uyawumela hk hk hk.
Lina bafana ligangile, lingami engotsheni yangakithi ngizalithela ngamazi alobukhokho
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#26127 - 07/16/05 01:11 AM
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Bhudaza
Ndunankulu
Registered: 11/09/02
Posts: 584
Loc: Byo, Mthwakazi
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#26128 - 07/16/05 04:36 PM
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ILembe
Sikhulu
Registered: 05/01/05
Posts: 281
Loc: Tjolotjo
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Msindo
the only way of finding true love is to give it to someone, it is in you.
three devils had a meeting to discuss on how to hide love from man. the first one suggested they cast love into a volcanic crater. the chief devil pointed that man is so cunning he will dig for minerals and find love. the second devil suggested they throw love into the deepest ocean, but the chief devil refrained by pointing that man will certainly plunder the oceanfloors and find love. on the next morning the chief devil had a brilliant idea, they agreed to hide love in man himself.
moral of the story ![[Confused]](images/icons/confused.gif)
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#26131 - 07/19/05 09:50 AM
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Mabila
Nkosi
Registered: 05/14/04
Posts: 2123
Loc: Ayowa
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WuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuHHH
Sarendi!! ![[bigcry]](graemlins/bigcry.gif) ![[wavey]](graemlins/wavey.gif)
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#26132 - 07/19/05 10:11 AM
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Dokotela
Nkosi
Registered: 05/11/04
Posts: 1297
Loc: Emkhathini
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Yini usarenda kanti mngane, mina ngithi uzangi qakezela izandla. Kumele ngithole imiklomelo ngalelisu. ![[Cool]](images/icons/cool.gif)
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#26136 - 07/20/05 07:19 PM
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Ndumshy
Sikhulu
Registered: 07/29/04
Posts: 201
Loc: Hillbrow Inn
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Msindo dade, mina engakuzwa from the one wise and experienced oldie yikuthi the best true love there is out there luthando wena ozinikeza lona ngokwakho. Zama ukunga khanyi njengo muntu who yearns for anybody else's brand of true love. Carry yourself in a mannerr that refelcts that you truly love yourself, and anybody else's "true love is just a bonus."
Kodwa ke angisho mina ukuthi uncishane nge momoza since ukusheya imomoza is quite an enjoyable excercise, and maybe some true love might develop from there (angithi Doc?). Lokhu okwama "toys" as suggested by some "experienced" forumites is an uncalled for misuse of a God-given resource.
hope you find your brand of true love.
Kenje uhlala ngaphi dade?
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#26137 - 07/20/05 08:51 PM
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Sgero
Ndunankulu
Registered: 05/31/04
Posts: 642
Loc: United Kingdom
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hk hk hk Dok usufuna ngivuse isaga esinye hantsho?
Iskapenya asiwakhi umuzi.
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#26138 - 07/21/05 08:45 AM
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Dokotela
Nkosi
Registered: 05/11/04
Posts: 1297
Loc: Emkhathini
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Siyavumelana Ndumshy, iskapenya kumele siphiwe impintshi sonke hayi ikhanda kuphela. Kumele impintshi ihlale ingela mbewu amasakeni ukwenzela ukuthi ingaze yacabanga ngabanye.
Ukuncishana le momoza yinto embi kakhulu, okumele yenqatshelwe ethandweni.
Sgero, hk hk. Iskapenya siyawakha mfo umuzi, yiso umlomo wesi gcinambewu phela.
Msindo, ungasake uthole yena jaha, osithandayo iskapenya. Ovuka ngaso alantshe ngaso aphinde alale ngaso apahphame ngaso.
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#26139 - 07/21/05 09:09 AM
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Sgero
Ndunankulu
Registered: 05/31/04
Posts: 642
Loc: United Kingdom
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Dok
mfowethu angithi uyazi ukuthi izaga zilokuphikisana. Nansi esiphikisa lesiya sakuqala:
Umuzi kawakhiwa nge skapenya esisodwa.
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#26140 - 07/21/05 09:31 AM
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Dokotela
Nkosi
Registered: 05/11/04
Posts: 1297
Loc: Emkhathini
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Liqiniso lelo mfanakithi. Umuzi wakhiwa ngazo izkapenya mfowethu.
Uyangchaza brawami!
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#26142 - 08/09/05 06:35 PM
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Sgero
Ndunankulu
Registered: 05/31/04
Posts: 642
Loc: United Kingdom
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Msindo
Ungadinga uswele mntakadade, ungitshele ngizakuthumela kubo 'danela ngapha'
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#26143 - 08/09/05 06:53 PM
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Siphepheli
Ndunankulu
Registered: 05/27/04
Posts: 741
Loc: Khonaph'ya Enkangala
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quote:
Originally posted by msindo18:
real love aiite .....
Bandla xolani bakithi kodwa bengicela ukucaciselwa ukuthi ngolunjani loluthando olubizwa kanjena.
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#26147 - 09/07/05 11:30 PM
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Sgero
Ndunankulu
Registered: 05/31/04
Posts: 642
Loc: United Kingdom
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Gaselomhle
hk hk hk mina dala ngazibika mfowethu sengilinde nje ukuthi udade aqedelane labamotsha isikhathi azezihlalela kimi la. Ingotsha futhi kuye kulezinsuku iluhlaza tshoko, uma ucatshe vele ungabonwa muntu!! Inswabanda azikho futhi.
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#26148 - 09/08/05 07:26 AM
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Dokotela
Nkosi
Registered: 05/11/04
Posts: 1297
Loc: Emkhathini
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Kunjalo Gasela.
Ngisapota uSgero, ekuthini uMsindo, kumele aye engotsheni impintshi ifihle ispanela. Okwe ndandatho sizakubona kwelizayo. Kuqakathekile ukuthi wazi ukuthi ichibi litshona okunganani ungaka zimiseli ukuhlala ukubhukutsha kilo.
Msindo, usumtholile ozathanda wena leskapenya sakho.
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#35674 - 01/09/08 03:16 PM
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Tsotsi_van_Toeka
Mafikizolo
Registered: 11/07/07
Posts: 8
Loc: Mthwakazi
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Nqoba
Nonetheless, I'll address your problem. Izwa ngami mina Ngqesta wodumo. Sisi wami, uyabon' ukuthini, lo masaka othandana naye akekho serious. Udlala ngawe nje. Ukwenza kwakhe lokhu kukhombisa ukuthi vese yena uno mayidululu wakhe, isinqandamathe sakhe, isixebe sakhe esimkhumbuza eNevaneva - sithathe sonke isikhathi sakhe. Wena nje usuke akucabange, akufune eceleni kwakhe only if esevukelwe, sekushisa enzansi kwenkaba, esefuna imbobo yoku chamela nje vo. Sad, crude, cruel but very, very true.
Khumbula isisho sabadala esithi: uthando kaluboni - luku faka noma kuse hlathini!
Therefore it's up to you ukuthi uyamkhipha noma uya mfaka enhliziyweni yakho. The power is in your hands. Mina I'd advise you to cut your losses, cast your net wide & you'll surely get your prince charming out there. It might take time, but be patient, look after yourself & God will bless you. Never be afraid to be alone - after all vele uziphilela uwedwa ngenkathi umasaka lona ekhohlwe ngawe.
There's absolutely nothing wrong ngawe. Uyintombi that deserves better. Into nje uhlangane no mgulukudu ongena nembeza. But never give up your soul. Remember that God is perfect my daughter, just like your soul.
Ngu Ngqesta wakudala
Tsotsi van Kofifi
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Ngalwa loMgabe, ngamqoqoda ikhanda!
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#35677 - 01/09/08 05:13 PM
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Ngqamngqotsho
Mafikizolo
Registered: 01/09/08
Posts: 5
Loc: Texas
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Ngithemba ubungakamqephuneli mbinjana ulova lo ngoba udlala ngawe. Isazela olaso is good enough. Trust your instincts.
Dlulisela phambili.
Ngicela usizo bandla;
Do men love as women do or thir love is seasonal, ie-it comes and goes.
ngibuziswa yinkinga engilayo, I am head over heals ngeny'insizwa but ijinge iphole nje. Nxa ngiyibuza ukuthi iyangithanda na, ivele ithi qotho mntan'omuntu and nxa sisonke uyangijabulisa kodwa ngijinge ngingazi ukuthi luthando kumbe ligabazi mvelo yakhe.
Ukubanda kwakhe kusekuthini uyathuliselela athi nya okwezinyanga. If I do not initiate contact uyazithulela. Ma ngibuza uthi ngiyabe ngiphathekile.
Kodwa ke lumuntu ngiyamthanda, nooma sengilele ngiphupha ngaye.
Zinsizwa tshonini, luyisima kanjani uthando from yo pespective kumbe lumuntu udlala umbhedo lami.
Ngisizeni bo, khona manje iyadabuka inhliziyo yami ngayo, ngesikhathi esifanayo impompoza uthando oluzileyo ngaye.
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Kibo kagwala akula sililo
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#35720 - 01/11/08 01:15 PM
Re: will i eva find tru luv??
[Re: Nqoba]
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Dokotela
Nkosi
Registered: 05/11/04
Posts: 1297
Loc: Emkhathini
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Dade, akhona amadoda athandayo kakhulu, kodwa inengi lethu uphange uthundubale ngokuba untombazana uyabe ekuphatha njani. Kulezinto ezimbalwa ezingenza ukuthi ujaha athundubale, ezinye zakhona yilezi.
1. Amadoda akathandi umfazi omlandelelayo kuyonkento ayenzayo. Umfazi ohlola ifoni kaspoksi, lama business cards leminithinithi yonke - hhayi akuvunyelwa lokho. Indoda ifuna ukunikezwa ithuba.
2. Amadoda njalo akathandi umfazi ongakwazi ukulahla iskapenya. Hhayi dade, njengoba ngike ngatsho, kumele isaka lakhe lenhlanyelo lihlale lingela fokolo. Isend-lisi kumele likhale emlenzeni. Izitayila zonke ze kamasithura kumele zifundwe kini.
3. Umfazi olenkani - itshongololo akangeze agcine impintshi.
Okokucina, ngizathi dade kumele as untombazana wenze i"brand" yakho wena. "Brand" yourself. Indlela ogqoka ngayo, ozicecisa ngayo, kuze kufike kumakha owasebenzisayo, langendlela okhuluma ngayo. Thola amabhuku e"self-help" anjengaka De'Angelo "Ngilakho ukukuthumela nge email ungangithinta ngasese".
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Strength of attitude becomes strength of character.
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#35722 - 01/11/08 03:24 PM
Re: will i eva find tru luv??
[Re: Nqoba]
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Sgero
Ndunankulu
Registered: 05/31/04
Posts: 642
Loc: United Kingdom
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Dok
Mfana ka mdala ngiyakuzwa hahahahaha. UNqoba uyakhala sibili and njalo usezikhangele according to amapoyinti akho wazibona epasa. Kuhle lokho. Now, kungabe kulungile yini ukuthi anikeze impintshi i sanction ye casi mhlazana efikileyo ngemva kwezinyanga? Or will this lead to impintshi isiyakudla ngaphandle (which he is doing ngokubona kwami)? Kumbe uNqoba ahle atshele impintshi ukuthi la ekhaya kwa Nqoba ezocansi zizakwenzakala twice a week ... loba impintshi | | | |
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